I met this cap guy and we immediately started hitting it off. He works alot but was spending most his weekends with me. I had car problems and he gave me 200 dollars to get the car out of the shop. bought me a new phone when he accidentally drowned it in juice. Cappy guy started wanting more out the relationship and verbalized it. He said all he wanted was a loyal woman in his life while he worked to take care of us.He wanted someone to be serious with. Talk on the phone at least 5 times a day and all that. He told me he was falling in love with me. He helped me move into my new place at that time he also was moving into a new place. We are both divorced with one child. He moved up from Florida and didn't have much. I was staying over there alot so i would bring things so we could be comfortable, like pillows, comforters, toaster, dvd, tv a/c. I told him one day I was also in love with him and it was absolutly blissful. he hadn't seen his x wife or his daughter in 3 years because his x would not let him know where they lived so he couldn't see his child. That bothered him immensly. he would always talk about and show videos of his daughter and talk about how his wife and I shared some stories about my x husband. Then in the middle of our bliss the x pops up and decides she wants to apologize and allow him to spend time with his daughter. I don't drive to work and his van was in the shop so he had been dropping me off at work and taking my car. He came to me and told me since he'd be seeing his daughter after so long he would want to spoil her and needed to work extra overtime. He wanted me to stay by his side through it all and support him. I agreed, but had apprehensions. The daughter came up and he had a great time with her. I allowed him to use my car to take her out a couple of times. One night he got away from his daughter and came to visit me. He told me he loved me and we were family. After the daughter returned home he showed me his bank statement and it had only $ 20 in it he had no money to get his car out the shop so he asked me to go to the mechanic and make up some lie about where he is and why he isn't paying on the vehicle. I still let him drive the car because I don't drive to work. After the daughter left and the car was soon to come home. cappy guy started acting distant and cold. Told me he was confused because his wife asked for a reconciliation. I asked him how does he feel for her he said nothing just mainly for his daughter.But want
wants to keep the x wife happy so she doesn't influence his daughter against him or run off with her. said he can't be my boyfriend anymore but if I need anything call him. Said he didn't want to lose me but would understand if I left. I was so deeply and emotionally involved with this man because he took me there by persistant persuasion I felt totally duped and I asked for my things out of his apartment and told him that I was through with him because. He started acting totally different. Being short with me. Not calling at all and not caring. Do you guys think I did the right thing by breaking it off immediately? If I would have stayed and just put up with it he'd be alright with it but I do have some pride. Was I used? I heard once the key words for capricorn is " I use" I feel sick over this. Is this the bitter end you think?
ok I didn't leave him abruptly. This has been stemming for over a month. Now he's saying that he never said he loved me. Now I'm crazy! He said it numerous times and I pointed out everytime he said it. Now he's saying I have to wait until Saturday to get my things. Why when we live less than 10 minutes away from one another?
ok I didn't leave him abruptly. This has been stemming for over a month. Now he's saying that he never said he loved me. Now I'm crazy! He said it numerous times and I pointed out everytime he said it. Now he's saying I have to wait until Saturday to get my things. Why when we live less than 10 minutes away from one another?
Uh oh, typically cap move on his part (hate to say it, but I know how we are) If he's all pissed at the fact that he can't have his way, then he will hurt other party in the process.
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What does anyone think of this combination? I am saying it is a 'no no' all the way. Aquarius makes us feel 'inferior', and self-conscious, when we normally go our way, do what we think is the right thing, and refrain from interfering in anyone el
He came to me and told me since he'd be seeing his daughter after so long he would want to spoil her and needed to work extra overtime. He wanted me to stay by his side through it all and support him. I agreed, but had apprehensions.
The daughter came up and he had a great time with her. I allowed him to use my car to take her out a couple of times. One night he got away from his daughter and came to visit me. He told me he loved me and we were family. After the daughter returned home he showed me his bank statement and it had only $ 20 in it he had no money to get his car out the shop so he asked me to go to the mechanic and make up some lie about where he is and why he isn't paying on the vehicle. I still let him drive the car because I don't drive to work. After the daughter left and the car was soon to come home. cappy guy started acting distant and cold. Told me he was confused because his wife asked for a reconciliation. I asked him how does he feel for her he said nothing just mainly for his daughter.But want