As A Cappy, Should I Date an Aqua Man —

Yes, I know this is the Capricorn board, I wanted my follow capricorns opinion too -- not many of us venture to the Aqua board.

After have so many issues my Aquarius step-father, I was just thinking ...

Would I be crazy to date or hook-up with an Aqua man —

I've been atracted in the past, but I've always stayed friends with them. There was one that I really liked but he was too "commitmentphobic" for my taste.

I'm just so scare because if I end up with a guy like my step-dad, I will so freaking pack up all my shit and run as fast as I can!

Have any of you had experience with Aquaruis men or Air signs in general —

I'm not saying Aqua men are terrible, but the ones I know and my Step-dad ...

AHHH!!! Plus, I like comittment and they like freedom. So, how do we reach commonground 😢

I don't know, maybe I should give it a shot —

Obviously, I'm not a Cappy but I just wanted to let you know that every Aqua guy I have ever known have been downright awful. Whether it's commitment phobia or just plain crass behaviour, they have been the utter worst. On the other hand, I have a close guy friend who is an Aqua and the girl that ends up with him will be the luckiest girl in the world. Keep in mind...this is like one guy out ten.

Obviously, I'm not a Cappy but I just wanted to let you know that every Aqua guy I have ever known have been downright awful. Whether it's commitment phobia or just plain crass behaviour, they have been the utter worst. On the other hand, I have a close guy friend who is an Aqua and the girl that ends up with him will be the luckiest girl in the world. Keep in mind...this is like one guy out ten.

Really? Uh oh ...

Well, I know that all Aqua men are created equal, but I'm just so scared. I've been through alot of crap with guys and I don't want to walk into a known trap. I did have one Aqua guy that REALLY liked me ... BUT this dude was such a player. My goodness, he had women coming out of his pants leg LOL

LOL!!!

My goodness, please give me details. They can't be that bad 🙂 Are they just as bad a cap men are suppose to be LOL

I think Aqua Men maybe as misunderstood as Capricorn Women 😉

Well, with your knowledge of astrology and Aqua moon as well as other placements...Id say you can handle it.

Question is...do you want to have to handle it.

btb, aqua men are kinda crazy and especially like bitches. 🙂

btb, aqua men are kinda crazy and especially like bitches

Really — Oh well, I guess I'm out. I can't be any one's bitch for too long. I'll get frustrated and bored.

"I can't be any one's bitch for too long."

LOL!

Make him your bitch 😉😛

Its hard to do that with Aqua men, in my own experience, they don't listen very well LOL

With aquas you have to let it flow...though not everyone is made for the wait. Patience is key.

If you have no patience...alot of healthy mind fucking and scheming must take place...remember to always make it seem like the aquas decision!

Its true thy dont listen which is why you have to make it "seem" like there making all the decisions.

kinda like letting men think they run the show in a relationship...
(waits for primes flaming).
🙂

but with all the water in your veins give it a chance if you want.

Nope, I'm asking for advice ahead of time so thats makes me smart ... I hope 😉

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I thought that I would get slammed pretty bad on the Aqua board if I posted this there. Plus, I think I would've been thought of as stupid ... like: "why is she asking about cappy woman and Aqua man, she should already know the outcome" LOL!!!

Why are you asking??

Wheres the Scorpio and Virgo?

AHHHHH!!!! *screams really lous*

Oh shit ... I forgot ... haha, Aquas sometimes come over don't they

HAHAHA!!!! Hints Lady M is here 🙂

Uh oh, I better start hiding some stuff od posted quick! I can't be blamed for what isn't seen.

I would love to ask his opinion (Primegen). He's so cool 🙂 🙂 🙂 but I'm afraid 😢

*will definately hide this one*

LOL, sorry for peaking.

Whats wrong with the thread?? Its fine that you ask.

The scorpio is still around 🙂

No way to the virgo guy! Number 1 he has a girlfriend (such an asshole) and number 2 he got me drunk! And sent me home that way. He such a dick !!!!!!

We are still friends 🙂 But thats it!

stick with the scorp...I can see (yes, even over the internet) he makes you smile 🙂

ask him out already!

Yeah, I've just got to hook him though. Still pondering on how to do that. I got good recipe from Prime and I'm going to try it out as soon as I have time to myself at the apartment -- like without my roommate being there.

She likes sweets 😉

Yummy, home cooked meal eh...

Where will dinner be eaten?

I haven't figured that part out yet. Darn it, I knew I was missing a detail!

Whats wrong with the thread?? Its fine that you ask.

Because people would think that I'm dissing Aquas and I'm not 😢

all i have to say is aqua's ruling planet is uranus......that all i'm saying (looking around and backing away)....that's all i'm saying....

Its a very legitimate question...we all arent 'made' for each other.

LOL

perhaps candle lit din din at your place....just a suggestion...

....to take the not so obvious route....

offer him some during your lunch breaks...slyly throw in a modest "this ol' dish" 😛

LOL @ sumthing_phishy

we play nice with pisces...just not in the LT.

offer him some during your lunch breaks...slyly throw in a modest "this ol' dish"

Hey! I like that! I will give it a try 😄

all i have to say is aqua's ruling planet is uranus......that all i'm saying (looking around and backing away)....that's all i'm saying....

See and thats what I'm fearful of. Did you know that if you took the traits of a capricorn and an aqua you get a pisces !!! Yeppers 😉

Now, that I think about it ... I wouldn't mind having Prime's opinion on the issue. I know Aquas are not all touchy feely, but hey it doesn't hurt to have an opinion 😛

Is here still around Lady?

Im not sure. Post and he'll come.

Cappysweetie, I am a Capricorn and I dated an Aquarius. Last year I ended my 6 year friendship with him. They are very afraid of committment and will prolong a friendship so they won't have to commit.

Anything that resembles a "boyfriend" and "girlfriend" type of union... they will want no parts of. They can be very crass as someone mentioned on the board already, and insulting. They do not like intelligent women and will try to belittle a woman who can hold her own. They like independent women, because she has a life of her own and won't pry into his life, just don't be too smart... they don't like that LOL

Most Aqua men that I know have a crazy sense of humor and can be very funny. This use their humor as a way to charm the women they are attracted to and want to keep in their pool of "friends".

I have another Aqua friend who is married. But I think he married this particular woman because she is afraid of committment also. When he wants to go right.. she turns left and will stay there for a long time. I think he enjoys the freedom she gives him. So it works out well for both of them. They are married and living in different states for the past year. He doesnt want to divorce her. So this is the type of union... that works for them.

My uncle is an Aqua too.. he is married to a Libra (my aunt). They have been married for over 30 years. She gives him a lot of freedom and makes him feel as though she would be just fine without him. So I guess that's why he sticks around. They are in their 80s and very much in love. So it's worth giving a shot.. they just like a lot of freedom and they don't like for their relationships to feel committed.

Well, I'm not the one to smother a guy because I don't like being smothered. I just want the usual thing a woman wants -- to be treated like a person with kindness, respect and love. Oh, and some cuddling too 🙂

We do like smart people...thats the best kind.

They have been married for over 30 years. She gives him a lot of freedom and makes him feel as though she would be just fine without him. So I guess that's why he sticks around. They are in their 80s and very much in love. So it's worth giving a shot.. they just like a lot of freedom and they don't like for their relationships to feel committed.

Hi CM 🙂

Well, I generally give any guy I'm involved with freedom because I LOVE my freedom 😄 I really like doing my own thing and I would prefer if we both did our own thing and then met up at the end of the day 🙂 I also like doing things together with my mate too! I love connecting and bonding 🙂

LOL, see what I mean! Its this crazy Capricorn/Saggie/Aqua combination that has me at odds with myself 😄 I love bonding but I like detachment too! What on earth am I going to do with myself ...

I don't see why not, after all, you have an aqua moon. And if he were say, to have an earthy moon

HAHAHA!!!! BAD Aqi 😛 *keeps comments to oneself*

Keeping in mind aquas' tendencies toward being natural leaders, an aqua man would probably delight in the opportunity to mold you and would probably appreciate your down-to-earthiness.

Really? Well, I'm bull-headed 😄 So it will take tons of work to mold me 🙂

Relationships are a two way street, they are what the two of you can make if both parties are willing, then go for it and see where it goes.

Hey, you have a point. However, I don't think its that simple. If only it were that simple 🙂