astrologicallycurious—

Why did you delete your thread—

You didn't give me a chance to comment on it ...

Did someone upset you?

Hi Cappy.

Yes some girl kept calling me a homewrecker after I asked her to go away...she kept on and on. I blew...That's what you get for coming on here and asking "to please don't judge". Never slept with the guy but just trying to get it out...on here. I blocked her then she blocked me...from my own post. How do you get blocked from your own post? That's just ghetto to me.

Anyway, sorry but I'm not asking any real questions on here anymore. I'll stick with the stupid conversations since the deep questions only get answered in ugly terms. I don't want someone to sugar coat it but don't judge me. What you do comes around and you may find yourself doing the very thing you judge others for....I am inlove with him but will figure out a way to fall out.

I would not let people run me off of here, I have had my fair share of fights and disagreements, it won't last forever, ask what you want and block those people that you feel are disrespectful. There are people that are very sensitive to issues concerning married men and this is an open forum, you have to understand there may be women on here that have sore wounds regarding this issue. If you want out then get out, do what you need to do to get out of the issue, which means pulling up your big girl pants and doing what may temporarily cause you grief but in the end you won't regret letting the loser go.

Posted by tiki33
I would not let people run me off of here, I have had my fair share of fights and disagreements, it won't last forever, ask what you want and block those people that you feel are disrespectful. There are people that are very sensitive to issues concerning married men and this is an open forum, you have to understand there may be women on here that have sore wounds regarding this issue. If you want out then get out, do what you need to do to get out of the issue, which means pulling up your big girl pants and doing what may temporarily cause you grief but in the end you won't regret letting the loser go.

I agree with Tiki astrocurious 🙂

I wouldn't let people run me off of here either. I mean, whatever, its the internet LOL!!! Please don't take things too personal. I understand that its easy to get offended by those who try to upset you on purpose but you have to learn how to filter them out, thats what I do anyway ^_^.

You win some and you love some. At least you had the guts to actually talk about a problem you were having. I mean, something like that must have been eating a away at you. Before it was deleted, I read your OP and it didn't say anything about you having sex with the guy soooooo I'm not sure what the deal was really ....

I'm sorry it took me so long to respond but I was busy dealing with my own craziness haha.

Anyway, please don't let what others say run you away from here -- granted, I don't know what was said in the other thread because it was deleted but in any case, it doesn't matter.

Hi Cappysweetie...your name fits you well. 🙂 The title was "emotional affair" cause it's what I found our relationship to be. Wasn't aware but it's all really clear now. I made the mistake of putting it all out there and was called a homewrecker...Really dumb considering a homewrecker breaks up a home. Our friendship has been a very icy one since I've tried to fight it for a long time but that Cap sure knows how to break thru a virgo. We (my co-workers) are aware of her and how she is. I am aware this is a no-win situation and I would go into details but it will only entertain the uglies on here. So the title again is "emotional affair"...how does this happen when your so good at keeping your emotions in check? I am a virgo with an aquarius moon but venus in leo, so girl you know I am a thinker...and don't "act" quickly. He is a Cap with Pisces in the Moon and Venus....lets keep it on this topic please...emotional. Not going to entertain more than that.

For one thing CrazyCappy no one can be stolen away, people come willing. Though I have to say I agree with almost everthing else on your thread... Well said, until the name calling part. But I understand where you are coming from.

AstrologicallyCurious- To some degree CrazyCappy is right you probably shouldn't take part in there problematic marriage even if it's going sour. If you had any dignity or respect for yourself you would remove yourself from the situation immediately. It doesn't matter that she's a bitch or that he's a cheater, it's none of your business. You are not a homewrecker, because obviously that marriage had problems from the start. But you are not helping the situation, you're making it worst.

I'm only trying to give constructive criticism but don't you feel ashamed for talking bad about a woman you hardly know? No doubt you got all the "bitch" information from her cheating husband. Don't you feel an remorse. Because regardless if she is a bitch or nor she is still a human being, a woman, with feelings... I mean can you imagine the pain she is going through? I can.

Even than AC you should have more respect for yourself and know you deserve better than sloppy seconds... You deserve better than a cheater. Don't you think you deserve better?

One more thing... Everyone has a problem with seeing things in black and white, good and evil without realizing that there are greys in between. Take for example, the way CrazyCappy depicted you is evident that SHE thinks you are villianous thieving whore. But you know other wise you know that that is not you and the situation just happened with no preconceptions. Emotions just arose spontaneously and you couldn't help yourself... You don't choose who you fall in love with. It happens. It's the same thing as his wife... She maybe depicted as a nagging, overpossessive crazy bitch ... But you know deep down in your heart that is not the whole story.

Dig deep and try to step into someone else's shoe and than you may come to realize that the villianous snake and bitch is niether of you but the guy that is playing you both.

Good Luck Chica.

Ok...I am sorry I even responded. Again, the topic was "emotional affair". I'm not asking what to do, how to handle or deal, does he this or that. I know the correct thing to do and I'm doing it. My entire motivation to come over here to what I thought was the understanding and intelligent board was to get insight on how this comes about when your fighting it with your whole being. To the point of being extremely cold and at times mean. It's like the colder I get the more he tries. But there is no point in asking cause everyone here has a problem reading my true question and running with the other shit. I'm a virgo, ok? I can dismiss anybody with no problem (even tho I'm dying inside)so the question is not about him; it's about me. I have a man so I'm not looking. I found myself in this situation and it's never ever happened before. I was looking for intelligent conversations into the emotional part of this scenario. I don't want him. I don't even like older men. How do you get there when you don't want it? But nevermind. I'll stay away from the Cap board.

Lol I never read your other post and I didn't really understand what you met by emotional affair when I read it.

So I'm only going by what was said here.

Do you attract married men often?

It's your Aqua moon and Virgo sun!!!! Pow Pow!!! Ice Queen baby! It would have ANY man crawling on hands and knees. Even if they don't admitt it men like that emotional detachment. They like the chase. You are something that is unconquerable to them (if that is a word).

I use to want that moon but now I'm glad I have a Libra moon.

What's your Venus?

My Venus is in Leo....ya I'm that ice queen for the outward appearance but I'm really very emotional so I'm not sure what's up with that according to astrology. haha Thanks for being nice about this xtina.