Biggest Cap Misconception?

I think its that we are labeled as cold and heartless. We might come across that way in business or when we don't know or trust people, but its sooo not true. I have a pretty soft heart (unless you abuse my generosity, patience, etc and make me cold toward you).

And, I've had people say - "you're a lot more fun than I first thought".

What do yall think?

I've noticed the Cappies on dxpnet are all pretty nice and FAAARRRRR from cold/heartless. I always find it interesting that people seem to have different opinions of us when dealing with us IRL, but you get on forums like these and Caps are some of the nicest posters.

Yeah, that money thing grates my nerves.

They are not misconceptions. They are truths. I don't know all the Caps in the world but the ones I do know have some very similiar traits. They are not negative. It depends on if you are a glass half full or half empty kind of person, let's examine them shall we.;

You are uptight-At least around strangers. That's ok, I know when you do relax, you trust me and feel comfortable.

You do work hard...very, very hard. Money is important to you. That's ok. If ever, I were in a financial bind I would go and find a Capricorn. They are going to have it or at the very least a pretty good credit score to borrow it.

You are serious-That's ok. Someone has to be. Life is not all fun and games. IMO, society might need to get a little more serious about some things.

You are who you are and that's ok. I am sure there are some Capricorns who are broke, lazy, laugh at everything and are a downright embarrasment to the Sun Sign. Would you want to be one of those?

I am learning to look at the positives with you guys. I just posted about my Cap being boring yesterday. However, if boring means paying the bills on time, keeping someone's secrets, being dependable and calm in times of chaos ...then I'm coming back as a Cap. Real Talk.

Posted by BlazingGoat
Nala, the Leo in our household earns the money, takes care of financial matters and is the only one who's ever concerned about money. Not that he has a choice because he married a money-hopeless-Cap.😄 When I'm paddling like hell underneath and calm on the surface, I keep thinking to myself: This can't be good for anyone's health, this can't be good for anyone's health!

i'm going to chime in with you, Bg, cause I know a capricorn high school bestie who married right after high school, and she wasn't the typical "money making machine, independent, etcetera" instead, the only characteristics she had that correlated with hard work was that she was dedicated to her children, home and family life. Her husband was the bread winner and I dont know his sun sign or moon but i remembered he was not a cap. She sounded just like you infact. Paddling like crazy and hopeless at times, but her husband was the one who always pulled her through.

another instance, my capricorn grandmother: never worked a day in her life. But she worked hard for a large family and household. It isn't all about money. so astrologers need to rework that generalization. and put disclaimers or something.

Thanks for sharing that lisabethur8!

My Cappy grandmother was a single parent of 5 kids at the time, so it was all about work with her, but it was all definitely to support her family. She didn't have a choice but to work all the time and her kids grew up not needing a thing.

I think family is very important to most of us, and even if we don't have our wants, we want to make sure we have everything we need for now and tomorrow. That's how my Cappy grandmother is, and it's how I am. I will always be stacked up with necessities.

I think children/family is the only thing in this life I could dedicate myself 100% to. I want them, but I want to make sure things are right first lol.

Posted by lnana04
Thanks for sharing that lisabethur8!
My Cappy grandmother was a single parent of 5 kids at the time, so it was all about work with her, but it was all definitely to support her family. She didn't have a choice but to work all the time and her kids grew up not needing a thing.I think family is very important to most of us, and even if we don't have our wants, we want to make sure we have everything we need for now and tomorrow. That's how my Cappy grandmother is, and it's how I am. I will always be stacked up with necessities.
I think children/family is the only thing in this life I could dedicate myself 100% to. I want them, but I want to make sure things are right first lol.

You're welcome 🙂

Deep down, it's all about love for family and having the best for them. That they never want for anything less. You are very fortunate to have such a wonderful grandmother who sacrificed alot.

I understand that Every sign/placements has signs of greediness, for sure, and I believe it's because they get "lost" along the way. Wanting what "others" want.

Ops, I meant *have

"wanting what others have" meaning.