Can anyone do a chart comparison please?

I am scorp. Sun, moon, mercury, Pluto.
Saggi. Venus, Saturn, Uranus.
Libra. Mars.
Capricorn. Neptune.
Leo. Lilith.
Aries. Jupiter, asc node.



He is Capricorn. Sun, mercury
Aqua. Venus
Aries. Moon
Saggi. Mars, Neptune
Leo. Saturn
Libra. Pluto....
Taurus. Jupiter, Lilith
Scorpio. Uranus, asc node

Been together on this lovely hell of a roller coaster ride, and am very curious to see how our charts match up.. If anyone can help read this I would greatly appreciate it!!

tell us about the roller coaster ride. whats he done, whats you done?

Posted by VirgoDeVille
Just gotta put in your DoBs and itll give you a more specific reading 🙂

Thank you Virgo.. I'll check it out

Posted by ellessque
that's hard to read or reference....

her

sun scorp
moon scorp
merc scorp
venus sag
mars libra
lilith leo

him

sun cap
moon aries
merc cap
venus aqua
mars sag
lilith taurus


your moons often conflict.

he's forward thinking, you are suspicious sometimes. he can change his mind on a whim, going for another plan that makes more sense and then you feel like he might have been hiding something from you....when in fact he wasn't.

i have an aries moon and we really do make decisions on a whim if we have all facts AND those decisions can change just as fast because we can see obstacles WAY down the road that others can't....so we will weave around them to avoid.

your mercs CAN work.

.....with some patience on your part. sometimes he's going to be downright rude with words or even cryptic and you can't take it to heart. but i think you know this because you read into everything he says.

your venus in fire and his mars in fire....nice mix. being in sag, you both are on the same page most of the time.

your mars in air (libra) and his venus in air (aqua)....potentially nice mix, IF you understand the aqua. aqua places more energy on friendship and your libra places more on relationships. it will take him sometime to feel you as a trusted friend BEFORE he is even THINKING relationship. You are already there because when you pursue....you are thinking "other half" or you wouldn't even bother.

so, yeah...it CAN work but you need to often put things in perspective and practice a hella lot of patience if you really want it.

Oh my lanta!!!! Elle you have stated the very issues and great things that had been happening with us!!!!
We get each others moods very easily. Yet most of our fights comes from me wanting more then is actually there.. And him being so hurtful with his words.. My patience has been passed its boundaries at least 7 times now, but my will power gets me back up to wait some more for the next good thing he does *sigh*
Thank you for your input.. I know it was confusing to read through lol

Posted by BigGirlPanties
tell us about the roller coaster ride. whats he done, whats you done?

Oh gosh, I don't even know where to begin with this..
We met eachother from a mutual friend which liked me, but he decided he wanted me.. All along also wanting every other girl as well.. I was not cool with sharing, but said nothing of it the whole time.. In fact the only thing I let him know was that I liked him and that we could end things then and there.. To my suprise he became 10 times more serious with me.. Shortly after he started telling people I was his gf... The problems with us is that I never once trusted him.. He just expected me too.. The ex's would never be out of the picture either.. This already sounds pretty bad on my part.. Cause I just never communicated to him on how a feel about things.. And when I wasn't with him I NEVER called or txt him.. Which he was always bugged about. On his part he hates how inverted I am.. I swear he hates the fact of how I keep things inside me.. And I don't just "let things happen".. Cause I'm stuck being scared to get hurt. He Is demanding and I can't stand someone telling me how to be and what to do.. Expecially when they have nothing to show back for me..

Anyway: the good!: haha
He is actually very sweet.. He does think of my feelings and what makes me tick.. It just can't be things he has to change with himself (like not talking to what ever ex and girl he feels like).. I love how he wants space but when I give it to him he questions me right away of when I'm coming "home" again. We both have a great sense of humor and have no trouble making each other laugh.. Both stubborn when we want things to be better between us.. Though when it's against WATCH OUT! .. Share great times eating cause we both love our food..

There is more but I can't seem to make a proper story out of this.. I'm sure you could tell I'm very distraught right now haha. He almost broke up with me 3 weeks ago and when I got upset this weekend he mentioned it again.. But when I seriously and calmly ask him if he really wanted to.. I swear he didn't want to go through with it.. I'm sure it's his way of telling me to chill the eff out.. And let things happen with us.. And yes.. Be very very patient!!