This one is confusing. We were talking for a month or 2. I have been single for the longest time so when I hear the sweet talk I get mushy. We got to the point were we were talking about being in a committed relationship. He wanted to spend the weekend together, then we could make it official. So we spent the weekend together, he was on his phone the whole time and even when we had sex he went on his phone no cuddle or nothing. The next day in the morning we left the room.before check out he didn't even ask me to breakfast or to hang out. After that he stopped talking to me like not even calling me his baby. So I asked him if we were together, he said I don't know. I was hurt that he said that. I would rather Jim tell me no and we need to step back. So I left him be, I tried to.talk to him and he said he was broke and couldent see me. And didn't call.or text bc its not the same as seeing me in person, I would rather have communication rather than nothing. So he askede why I was mad then I told him. Then his words I'm going to have to say good bye bc your just all.pissed at me. So I didn't say anything deted his everything.then 2 months later he messages me. Telling me he thinks about me, asks me how come I haven't messaged him. I don't know what he wants.
cap help lol
He was either texting, or doing something on the internet. Everything I looked at him or moved closer he would act all.sneaky on his phone, he had talked to his family.on the phone that I don't care for bc its his family.

This is only my opinion, but I think this one is an asshole. He played you. He told you he wanted a relationship. You were fine enough until he got the sex, then he bolted on you.
Maybe he wasn't sure about how he felt about you, he thought you were nice enough, but then after the sex, he realized he wasn't into it. Maybe he never liked you that much at all, so he played along until he got the sex.
You weren't gonna put up with his rude behavior, instead of trying to patch it up, he tells you he's going to say goodbye because you are mad at him. That is total BS. He just used that as an excuse. He was probably going to get rid of you the whole time.
Now two months later, he is lonely, he's going to try to sweet talk you to see if he can get it again, and then he will repeat the cycle.
Guys like this make my blood boil.
Maybe he wasn't sure about how he felt about you, he thought you were nice enough, but then after the sex, he realized he wasn't into it. Maybe he never liked you that much at all, so he played along until he got the sex.
You weren't gonna put up with his rude behavior, instead of trying to patch it up, he tells you he's going to say goodbye because you are mad at him. That is total BS. He just used that as an excuse. He was probably going to get rid of you the whole time.
Now two months later, he is lonely, he's going to try to sweet talk you to see if he can get it again, and then he will repeat the cycle.
Guys like this make my blood boil.

"We got to the point were we were talking about being in a committed relationship. He wanted to spend the weekend together, then we could make it official. So we spent the weekend together, he was on his phone the whole time and even when we had sex he went on his phone no cuddle or nothing. The next day in the morning we left the room.before check out he didn't even ask me to breakfast or to hang out."
Seriously, who would stand for this bullshit?!! Really, what an asshole! I just can't believe how people lie. I am outraged for you. Please don't ever talk to him again.
Seriously, who would stand for this bullshit?!! Really, what an asshole! I just can't believe how people lie. I am outraged for you. Please don't ever talk to him again.

LOL. It's not a Cap thing, it's a douchebag thing.

Capgirl said everything I wanted to say. So, yep, I agree with her.
I'll just add - what an ass!!!!!! I wouldn't even respond to him! Nothing. Zilch. Notta. Ignore him. The reason he said "I'm going to have to say good bye bc your just all.pissed at me" is because he knows he doesn't have you snowballed and he knows you've got your dignity and self respect and you won't be falling for that crap, so he's not even going to try.
I'll just add - what an ass!!!!!! I wouldn't even respond to him! Nothing. Zilch. Notta. Ignore him. The reason he said "I'm going to have to say good bye bc your just all.pissed at me" is because he knows he doesn't have you snowballed and he knows you've got your dignity and self respect and you won't be falling for that crap, so he's not even going to try.

True, Pisces88 is sweeter than I am. 🙂

I don't have to say much because everyone beat me to it haha, 100% correct in every sense of the word.
Also just a little FYI, never exchange sex for a commitment, get the commitment first and then think about giving him sex. I truly feel the assclown played on your desire to have a commitment so he offered you a commitment to get sex.
Lose the loser, don't even talk to him again b/c clearly he has the capability to talk you out of your panties so just don't subject yourself to the assclownery anymore. Make a fool out of you once well that would be considered a mistake but make a fool out of you twice well you're just choosing to be a fool.
Also just a little FYI, never exchange sex for a commitment, get the commitment first and then think about giving him sex. I truly feel the assclown played on your desire to have a commitment so he offered you a commitment to get sex.
Lose the loser, don't even talk to him again b/c clearly he has the capability to talk you out of your panties so just don't subject yourself to the assclownery anymore. Make a fool out of you once well that would be considered a mistake but make a fool out of you twice well you're just choosing to be a fool.
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