Help. Help. Help.

This topic was created in the Capricorn forum by sowhatnow on Thursday, December 27, 2012 and has 17 replies.

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@sowhatnow
13 Years
I'm a taurus and have recently recontacted with an ex capricorn man after 4 months just 2 days ago. But in the worst way ever. He has an ask.fm account. Where people asks him questions anonymously. So I asked him of his crush which he has a crush on for 2 months and has been keeping her identity a secret. I figured out fast and asked him if it's true it's who I think it she is, and he told me that my guesses were right. So being the unselfish, I gave him advice. Helped him with his dillema. Throughout the conversation, I stayed anonymous. Only when he confessed online the name of his crush, that I revealed who I am. But the problem was, his crush could actually read what we're talking bout. So she cut all ties with him. His crush is his closest friend. They're both very friendly with each other. Been friends since the first time he moved to my town, and she's my friend too. But now, his crush wouldn't want any contact with him. And he is absolutely mad at me. I've sent 3 apology messages, but he thinks it's just not enough. Right now, he's terribly mad at me. So mad he's threatening indirectly.
I didn't ask to get back together at all. I was only trying to give him support. Now, he really does hate. We've been together long. Broke up cause he said feelings stopped. So now I wanna know.

What can I do to have him think positively of me again?
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@sowhatnow
13 Years
Btw, he thinks I did it to purposely ruin it all. I didn't. I really didn't. He thinks I'm still after him, which is slightly true but I never told anyone that. Help. He'll be moving out of state in 3 months. And I'm trying to get the girl to be okay with him again.
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@sowhatnow
13 Years
I dont get your first statement but these are his tweets after seeing my facebook messages.

I just saw that FB message. NO IT IS INVALID YOU CAN GO FUCK YOURSELF!
I AM JUST FUCKING SICK OFF YOU NOW YOU GOT ME MAD AT WORK HOW THE HELL DO I SMILE AT PPL NOW?!
YOU HAPPY NOW? CIBAI ARE YOU HAPPY? I WOULD STRANGLE YOU HAVE YOU ACTUALLY SEEN ME REALLY PISSED?
YOU THINK I CANNOT GET SO ANGRY? DON'T MAKE ME HUNT YOU DOWN I WILL MOFO I WOULD
OH HOW I DESPISE YOU

Before the 3rd message, He said
You can flippin' kill yourself for all I care. You're unbelievably a bitch.
Apology not accepted, screwball.
You can bloody stay put in the stupid shadows and keep lurking at the rest of the world alone.
I feel like giving you one big tight slap. A bloody painful one.
I am sick of you, and I will never, ever love you again.



I screwed up big time.
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@lnana04
15 Years5,000+ Posts
Are you serious?? Look at how he's talking to you. Are you just going to ignore that?

I know you feel bad but that anger stems from somewhere deep, and it appears you are only pissing him off even more. Just let it all go.
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@sowhatnow
13 Years
the tree trunking is censorship fyi he didnt type that psh. Shouldn't i just wait till his crush is okay with him again? They're meeting tomorrow with other friends for birthday bash. I'm sure she'll help me clear my name.
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@lnana04
15 Years5,000+ Posts
Im not 100% sure she can clear the air. He seems to be set on what her intentions were and thats that for now.

She is a Taurus, so Im sure she knows the irritation in being pushed, and the mentality of being set on what she believes. He's not much different. Remove that its you in the mix, put yourself in his shoes, and leave it alone. In time it may change but let it cool for now.
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@TAURUSbelle
14 Years1,000+ Posts
Ewww that Cap is a douche..

@Taurus..you didn't have to reveal yourself, that's part of the fun. Aorry, but anyone who doesn't care for your wellbeing is no one worthy to communicate with. Please value yourself, like the beautiful Taurus you are, and move on. Don't apologize anymore, and don't play matchmaker. He wasn't asking your for favors to hook him up.
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@sowhatnow
13 Years
Honestly, nobody knows of her horoscope. She's adopted. But she tweets her horoscopes as something else, not taurus. She tweeted, after seeing my plea, "condescending" and "You're keeping yourself tied up, so you won't let me out. Didn't you ever think just maybe, I'd understand you?" I asked her to understand and forgive in the plea.
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@lnana04
15 Years5,000+ Posts
Posted by sowhatnow
I'm willing to take the slap actually. I've took one before when I offered my cheek to help him release frustrations. But that was before being together.



Omg, stop it!

Theres other ways for frustrations to be released. Dont ever sacrifice yourself like that for anyone.

You just seem to feel bad about it all. Youve apologized, forgive yourself, and move on. I know what its like to want to correct your mistake, but just view this as a ltessoned learned.
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@sowhatnow
13 Years
I don't know why did I do that it was just out of curiosity and I actually planned to just ask one time and stay away next but his respond just took me back to before. I actually miss talking to him. He's a great companion to everyone.
And he thought I was his crush. That's why he let out so much.