Cap Male Cancer Female casual fling to relationshi

Background

Hey, this is my first post so please bare with me!

I??ve known this Capricorn for around 6 years. He asked me out on a date, I resisted he per sued and I gave in after about three weeks. I??ll be honest, it got quite physical on the first night although we never went all the way. We maintained a physical relationship (still not going all the way) for about a year and also developed a friendship despite our age gap ( I was 22 he was 34). I had feelings for him but he made it clear that a relationship was not a possibility, we never discussed why. We lived right opposite each other and although i'm not 100% sure he wasn't seeing anybody else, I don't think he was. It was a VERY casual thing, kind of friends with benefits/booty call.

I moved away to go to university and we kept in touch by phone only. It was kind of sporadic in that sometimes I??d speak to him every day for a week, then we??d not talk for months. He's the only guy I can talk to for hours on end as I'm generally no good on the phone. We??d discuss everything from our career aspirations, my desire for children, his quest to be a millionaire, (he's already very successful) our families and our past relationships and of course sex. We never spoke of a future together. I work in television and he's really interested in the celeb parties I go to and the progress I'm making in my career. Despite me inviting him to lots of high profile parties he's always turned me down (he says he's been there done that!) I??ve never met his friends and he's never met mine, although he's a bit of a loner.

Over the 6 years I??ve known him I??ve had a couple of serious relationships with other guys, one lasting 1 year another lasting a year and a half . I met both of these boyfriends when I??d been having limited phone contact with my Cap. I know it's pretty rude of me but what I??ve tended to do is just not contact him and ignore him while I??ve been in these other relationships. I just didn't feel comfortable discussing other guys with him and also didn't feel it was right to continue our — phone friendship?? when I was in a relationship. This is despite the fact that he had openly discussed a couple of the sexual encounters he had had with me!!

Cont

As cheeky as it is, when my relationships have broken down I always get back in contact. He tells me off a little bit but then he welcomes me back with open arms. I??ll tell him what I??ve been up to and about the relationships I??ve been in whilst we've not been in contact. Then he??ll tell me that he was —kinda seeing someone too??.

I??ve been out of the country for 10 months and recently returned. We emailed whilst I was away and have spoken a couple of times since I??ve been back

Present

Last night I met up with mr Cap. It was the first time we??d seen each other in about 4 years! I was visiting a girlfriend of mine near his house. I called and said I was in the area and he said come over. I said yes, but I only had an hour to spare as I was meeting up with another friend later in the evening. I arrived, we had small talk and he started reminiscing about when we first me. He told me how attractive he thought I was and how much he??d enjoyed the physical side of the relationship as well as our friendship. He said that he felt guilty at the time because he knew I wanted more, but he couldn't give it me at the time.

After about an hour we had a kiss and it seems the spark between us never went out. He was much more affectionate with me than he??d ever been and also complemented me on the way I look. Apparently I'm more of a woman now and said he remembers my soft skin and kissable lips. He called me his baby, and he's never used language like that with me before. It just all felt extremely comfortable on every level. We still never went all the way,due to lack of time and condoms!

We live in different cities, about 3 hours drive apart. I??ll be in his area staying with family for Christmas, he's said that he??d like it if we could meet up again when I'm back.

Help

I like this guy, I'm 28 and am ready to settle down and could definitely see a future with him??_.. This guy is not my usual type but I find him VERY VERY attractive. I??ve always just been drawn to him physically and emotionally.

1) Do Cap guys like you to be direct? Is now the time to tell him how I feel about him as I??ve never told him before?
2) Would I know about it if a Cap wanted a relationship with me? Are they quite clear with their intentions?
3) What do you make of the situation in general?
4) Should I contact him or wait for him to contact me?