Love Between Capricorn & Cancer

Heya u lot, I cant believe how much positivity that goes into this relationship and most of the time, it feels TOO GOOD to be true.

Enlighten me, oh wise ones..abt this exciting union of the goatfish and the crab hahhah I do not believe it will be a smooth sail all the way, no, bt being a cap, I'd like to be prepared hehe

yes, i am happy, thank you=D

Both signs are well aspected so youve got a head start :-)

Thank you you lot, but could u elaborate more on the good and the bad? esp the bad. hehe at times when he has a bad day and complains abt his work etc, i dont know what to do. esp since we are on a long distance relationship. i listen and i try to comfort as well as i could but mostly just listening.

what abt the good? curiouuus😄

more infoo pleaaaase

Good stuff in general. One thing as a Cap, you have to look out for the Cancer's mood swings. That's when they retreat into their shells. But being a Cap yourself, YOU of all people will understand these mood swings right? Since you have them yourself 🙂

Don't try to pull them out of their shells when they retreat; just let them know that you will patiently wait for them when they come out.

Both signs are all about loyalty. And I'm told the sex is out of the world 🙂

A bad thing would be that sometimes caps can be too much aloff toward emotinal cancers....

that is true poison; i realise that at times when he gets all mushy and 'why do you have to be so faarr' , i just go 'okay..' and reason with him =D you are right,too aloof. i think i should change that and be more concern abt his worries.

And I'm told the sex is out of the world

=D lol beowulf...nothing like it=D=D=D

Hi LikeBrad - im sorry abt your colleague. nothing is perfect in this world=) perhaps he will find love one day, so long as hes comfortable w himself=D

I really don't think it will work. I can't imagine the Cancers and Caps that I know being together. Cancers are very emotional and need a lot of attention. Capricorns show NO emotion and like to have a lot of time alone.

Sorry if i seem defensive, coz thats jus how i am, esp abt things im passionate abt.

yes us caps DO show emotion, just that we r more reserved abt it, only showing emotions, for some, whenever appropriate or in privacy from others.

i dunno why but guys who have been with me have been wanting our relationship to go on forever, so there must be something there abt a cap that just gets to them=D..and ive been with every sign except pisces [too quiet for my liking]. we are prolly one of the most romantics signs outta the bunch..when we feel someone is worthy of our love and devotion

unfortunately, i wasnt and still am nt ready to settle down yet; i didnt/dont cheat, its just if i fell out of love with you, i wouldnt beat around the bush and move on.

i like taking things slow and see how far it can get, and so far, i dont feel suffocated=D and im happy..hopefully its a long term thing.

but true, he[cancer] always checks on me and often wishes im there with him, emotional abt us being far apart..seems like he couldnt get enough of me either=)

oh and i DO want some time alone...with my man!! LOL

Diora, I agree with you. We are very emotional just that we don't show it to all and it takes a while to see us open up emotionally=)

Caps and emotional ? U are confusing it with depression.

Obviously you don't know us too well Gaurav😛

Indicaps are spared 😛

Indicaps are spared

*shakes head*

And all of SB's mates as well....LOL

"A bad thing would be that sometimes caps can be too much aloof toward emotional cancers...."

i have two major close friends at work who are cancers and i confide in them very much. my best friend of 12 years is cancer. i love them very much but i have never been in a relationship with a cancer. for me, they are way too emotional (crying inexplicably, mood swings like a pendulum, clingy...) and i've never been good at coddling anyone (except the occasional scorpio or gemini). if you are happy and having a great time, GREAT! don't let the cancer thing get in the way. i always have a good time hanging out with cancers because they usually do most of the talking and they are very good at listening too and appreciate the company of others without monopolizing their time. several cancers have had a crush on me, they find me fascinating for some reason (probably because i usually end up ignoring them when i find out they like me) and i guess if you're the type to appreciate having someone being truly devoted to you, that's the way to go. they adore romantic love (they live for it actually) and go through great lengths to keep family, friends and lovers. so if you're a workaholic capricorn like me, you might want to consider letting loose and establishing quality time with your cancer or they will probably cry a million tears in which you will probably drown.

and about the capricorn emotion thing...i forgot to mention that my motto is "i only cry in front of cancers"

which is totally true.

other than that, it's depression, not emotion.