Cap man with Aries moon

Anyone have this combo or experience with one that does? We are dating. He talks about work and himself constantly. I'm thinking it's just his nature. How does one go about getting on a more personal intimate (not sexual) level with him? He tends to be blocking my attempts to talk about things that involve feelings. He's more technical minded.
Being a Libra, I speak from my feelings a lot. Is this a matter of gaining his trust? Or just accepting that it is how it is?

Posted by Sagtastic1
Just remember "YOUR" boundries! He will test them often.

That doesn't sound good. Cancer ex use to do that....

Test my boundaries for what purpose? Loyalty? Faithfulness? To see how far he can stretch the limits?

Doesn't Jarod Leto have a Aries Moon? He's a Cap...

i am in a freindship/want more relationship with a cap with aries moon, and i am an aries. I think with my guy, (hes not that much into talking about himself) he is really trying to get to know me. He doesn't really want to talk about bs shit that little talk. he is all emotions and totally consuming. I don't think that he is testing me, to his knowledge. I don't think your guy is testing you, I think that he is just guarding himeslf, in a way that he doen't want to feel vunrable. Just let the relationship happen. It will. Sometimes I think we, with aries, anyhow, want to appear stellar and want our ;ove interest to see us, in a certian light, knowing we have a total different side that we don't wanna just put it out there.

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Posted by MissLibra
Test my boundaries for what purpose? Loyalty? Faithfulness? To see how far he can stretch the limits?

Depends on the Cap tbh.

One of the major malfunctions I see on the board is people pinning way too much on it/ lumping red flag behavior into a buzzword. Actual Cap 'tests' are usually done unconsciously for the purpose of getting a handle on who we're dealing with. With astrology you tend to see similar behaviors across the signs but they stem from very different places.

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He has a rigid work ethic, which is admirable, as he owns his own company. He has asked me numerous questions about my job and my potential for advancement. I am as high as I can go as far as seniority and pay. The only thing I could do is switch into a management position, which is the same pay but more stress. No thanks. I wondered if he was testing to see how my work ethic is and to see if I was gold digging. He had a girlfriend that stole from his business so I can see where he'd test the waters with anyone new. I have always offered to pay my way to whatever we were doing ( at the risk of offending his pride) which he has always refused.

When we talk it is usually about stuff, things, events, nothing about how he feels, just factual. The conversations are cold feeling to me. Ironically, soon after we started dating he told me he loves me. I did not say it back because I am not "there" yet and feel that it is way too soon for that. He's continued to say it and has asked why I don't ever say it back. Last night at the ending of our phone conversation he said it again and then said, " I know you don't believe me, but I do." I told him I believe him. He then started talking about going to dinner this weekend. That's it, that's the only feeling thing he says, then it's on to something else. I think maybe his feelings are shown by doing rather than verbalising. Perhaps over time he will soften a bit and be more at ease with expressing himself.

Posted by raerae2one8
i am in a freindship/want more relationship with a cap with aries moon, and i am an aries. I think with my guy, (hes not that much into talking about himself) he is really trying to get to know me. He doesn't really want to talk about bs shit that little talk. he is all emotions and totally consuming. I don't think that he is testing me, to his knowledge. I don't think your guy is testing you, I think that he is just guarding himeslf, in a way that he doen't want to feel vunrable. Just let the relationship happen. It will. Sometimes I think we, with aries, anyhow, want to appear stellar and want our ;ove interest to see us, in a certian light, knowing we have a total different side that we don't wanna just put it out there.

I am being patient and letting this just unfold. Being vulnerable may be the reason he keeps his feelings in check and doesn't share them. Time and trust should take care of that. Sometimes I do feel like he says things to see how I respond. I do believe he talks about himself to tell about his accomplishments and to impress me.....and maybe, just maybe, to cover up insecurities within himself. I haven't figured out yet if it's that or arrogance. I'm impressed that he owns his own business and works very hard, but I'm not basing our relationship on that. I know Cappies have a huge work ethic and it tends to become all consuming. Perhaps he just needs to learn to relax with me, then he can be more open.

I agree, I don't think that he is just playing head games or is concieted. You are right, I think he is just wanting me to be sure of you and wants you to know what he is all about. I didn't get to talk to mine the other day, due to being busy. yesterday he was in a bad mood, due to big deadline for work and he say because he missed me alot and when he realized it he didn't think that it was good because he doesn't want to rely on anyone😢 my sweetheart. Now I have barely talked to him today, I don't know if its because hes busy at work or he is trying to distance himself from me... ughh!Miss him terribly. And I think that we made need to thinking of our vunnrabilities as well durning this time, becuase I have a feeling that cappies are playing for keeps

I am Cap Rising, so I assume I can participate here LOL My Libra ex was constantly asking about my feelings, but it was always difficult to me to SAY it, even though there was love.
When I noticed no words were coming to my head, I appealed to lots of caress and kisses expecting that would prove it.

Posted by FeelingShred
I am Cap Rising, so I assume I can participate here LOL My Libra ex was constantly asking about my feelings, but it was always difficult to me to SAY it, even though there was love.
When I noticed no words were coming to my head, I appealed to lots of caress and kisses expecting that would prove it.

So you try to show your emotions through actions rather than with words....