Cappies, what's your love language...? How do...

Profile picture of SaggyGirl85
SaggyGirl85
@SaggyGirl85
10 Years

Comments: 0 · Posts: 75 · Topics: 8
You express or tell your significant other(s) that you love and care about them? In my last post, I mentioned that my Cappy will wrap his arms around me, hold me tightly, kiss my forehead, put his head on my shoulders... He doesn't leave my side when we're together, and falls asleep and wakes up holding me. Now if I ever am in need of anything, or need help or advice, he's there in a heartbeat. I also mentioned that he doesn't say the words "I love you" a ton, but, I know through his actions, that, that's his own special way of telling me he loves and cares for me deeply. It's a feeling I get and have.
What are some ways you express or translate to your romantic interest, or s/o that you love them? I'm really interested to see what some other's have to say about this topic! 🙂
Thanks everyone!
Profile picture of SaggyGirl85
SaggyGirl85
@SaggyGirl85
10 Years

Comments: 0 · Posts: 75 · Topics: 8
Ah! And aww! Lol ok so, would you say, in your Cap opinion, that the deep stare, hugs, and many, many kisses, are part of your way of showing love to someone you truly love, or someone who you have strong feelings for, but may not necessarily be at the in love stage yet? I'm just extremely curious, and you Cappies are great for making me think quite deeply about things! Lol 🙂 that's a good thing btw.
Profile picture of HappyCapper
HappyCapper
@HappyCapper
10 Years5,000+ Posts

Comments: 28 · Posts: 5115 · Topics: 92
I say the words almost never; I like to show it in action - physical and other. I can be quite bad at recieving it unless I really know you and feel the same, I can get almost shy...which is weird, because shyness is normally not one of my standout traits. But if I do feel the same and know you enough I go all in...just not in those specific words, which I am extreemely careful of using. If I tell someone that I like/love them, you can usually multiply the words in the way in which I say it with just about infinity to get what I really feel.
Profile picture of SaggyGirl85
SaggyGirl85
@SaggyGirl85
10 Years

Comments: 0 · Posts: 75 · Topics: 8
Anna: I actually really like that add on question! So yes, please do add that on to my original post/question!? 🙂 thanks Anna!

Happy: what I've personally experienced has almost all been actions! Not so much verbal. That's interesting that you're the same... Now on another note, family love.... My sis: January 19th Cappy, she is very verbal with her loves... Which actually saying the words, but, not so much on the actual follow up or action... Hmm. It really is very interesting! At least to me lol.

If anyone could, also when answering my OP, also include Anna's question as well? I appreciate everyone! Thank you!
Profile picture of Cappedoff
Cappedoff
@Cappedoff
10 Years

Comments: 0 · Posts: 246 · Topics: 22
For me, when I'm in love it's really tough to actually articulate verbally my feelings, as HappyCapper says it just feels weird. And esp when you first mention it, the feeling of rejection is overwhelming. But I am able to show love in writing, songs and in actions. As mentioned above, intense staring, smiling (I'm not a smiley type person), openness, hugging, and doing things for them like cooking fhem special meals, doing odds jobs or assignments for them that might make their life easier/better, go out of myself to do things that he likes, showing concern, worrying about them and just being there for them.