Cappy woman & Libra man

Hi,

I'm a Cappy who is in love with a Libra (but he's on the VIRGO cusp and has a lot of Virgo in his chart). Our Western charts are HIGHLY compatible (I had them done). He told me that he loved me and wanted to marry me. We broke up on Tuesday 😢 though.

His Libran indecisiveness prevented him from telling his ex-GF about us because he didn't want to "hurt her feelings," which of course hurt me deeply, and I finally had enough and exploded like a volcano. I gave him an ultimatum, her or me, and he said he didn't want to see me anymore and told me not to e-mail or call him.

Now I am devastated.... Despite our differences there was a real bond between us. Now that I understand Libras (I didn't then) and how sensitive they are, I feel horrible for attacking him and driving him away. But you know we Cappies can be when we're hurt...

Can anyone tell me what the prospects for his coming back might be? CAN a Cappy woman and Libra man have successful relationship? Based on what I've read it doesn't seem like it....

Oh well... if I don't hear from him I can always send him a Christmas card.

Wondering (Cappy w/ Scorpio rising), who is depressed

well i am a capricorn woman i am seeing a libra man and i'm on the case as well. i looked at our astro charts etc and they're all against this relationship etc. how the h_ll i'm having so much fun with him, i don' t know. anyway. it's all rosey now for me but i will keep you posted, if that can be any help. my guy is a 110% libra, as the books tell. sociable, stylish, gregarious,loving, you name it. and i'm stuck up and reluctant to meet new people. but i told him abt it and we agreed to compromise. anyway. we shall see. 🙂 always the pinch of salt.....

Hey there.

I am a Libra (Libra in Sun and Moon) with Sag. rising who is currently seeing a Capricorn, so our situation is a little twisted around.. but hopefully, I can explain the Libra aspect to you abit. Libra's love relationships.. They love the idea of being "in love". We tend to see all sides of the decision which (in combination of us not wanting to make a mistake)leads us to procrastinate or become indecisive... I can understand your man not wanting to hurt his Ex-girlfriend feelings but.. tough. If he is wanting to be with you and ONLY you- then he should be able to let his ex gf down in a nice way.. Now, to warn you, Libra's are big flirts and love to socialize.. Could it be possible that he was still seeing the other girl and you at the same time?? That would be a reason why he would not want to tell her about you. I think you were right in giving him the ultimatum. But he broke up with YOU. There has to be a reason for that.

Good thing for you, Libras love to communicate and to know that we are cared for.. Libras also love romantic gestures and beautiful places (and people)... So ask him if you guys could get together and talk and go somewhere nice and quiet (park, beach etc.) and tell him how you feel (Libra's like to hear about other people's emotions-- esp. when it regards how people perceive them to be) and that you care for him and want to try to make this relationship work.

Good luck.. but remember, it may take some time for Libra to come to a decision-- but once we do, we are firm in it.

-LSR

i am a capricorn with a saggitarius rising. i dated a libra for a year and a half. Libras are definitely huge flirts. we broke up over him being way too manipulative, and the trust in our relationships seemed to decrease after each passing day, as he flirted with EVERYONE. After a while i started to feel like the only reason he was with me was to have a girl on his arm to show off. Sometimes i question why i was even in the relationship to begin with. But the fact is he was just too god damn charming.

Libra men love women. they love relationships. so as for wondering, he might come back, if he can't seem to find another relationship. the question is...should you even take him back?

I am a Libra with virgo cusp. I met a great Cappy who I totally adore. We have so much in common. Problem is the lack of communication from him. He easily goes a month with no contact with me, then calls and expects immediate attention. Based upon what friends said, he is a player, however, I never saw him as that. I guess the depression in his life takes over, and I know I can handle his moodiness. Just wish he would give me a chance. I know we could be very happy. He was upset with me that I told him his actions look like he is playing me, then we agreed to start over and now nothing again. I know it will not be the last phone call either. Any advice from other cappy's who can help me understand how to handle the lack of communication? I really like this guy alot, and I would like nothing better than to help him in his life. Also, I know there isn't alot of affection from you guys, but what are the chances of success between a libra and capricorn?

He'll be back. He obviously still stayed in touch with his other ex..so why wouldn't he with you?

Chin up. 🙂

Hello,

Let me just give you a piece of advice. I have known two men and two women and they are all libras. Let me just give you a few words that describes them:

Unfaithful
Worldly
Flirt
Dependant On You
But Undependable When You Need Them
Lack Of Understanding
Vain
Selfish
Charming But Evil
Clingy
Emotional But Not In A Good Way


Some good things are,

Charming
sexy
Social

Buts that about it


Trust me if you are a Capricorn stay far away from Libras! They are the worst match for you. I have dated 2 Libras and been in a long term relationship with them. HORRIBLE! My relationship was like this: Constant cheating and lying. Abuse and neglect. No Understanding. But yet expected me to be there 100% of the time for him. THIS IS HOW LIBRAS ARE IF YOU ARE TO WIN ONES HEART! NEVER EVER SHOW YOUR FEELINGS FOR HIM OR HER. AS THEY ARE CLINGY AND LIKE TO CHASE YOU. THE MINUTE YOU SHOW YOUR FEELINGS FOR HIM OR HER, they think they can have there cake and eat it to. They need to be the follower, not the followed. They are dependant on another person. They are no leaders. But hey this is just my bad experience with all libras that I have come across. Every single one of them. Sure they are hot sometimes and sure maybe good in bed, but really thats it. And As for a Cap like me I need way more then that. But thats just my opinion. Who knows it could work for someone else.

I wonder if there's something strange that happens between Cardinal signs when they get together.

In this case it's Libra/Capricorn. I've never dated one, so I don't really know. I do think it's safe to say, however, that all Cardinal signs (Aries, Cancer, Libra, and Capricorn) want the kind of respect another Cardinal sign may not be able to give.

In my relationships with Cancers it always works that way. I get jealous of Cancer's charming everyone, and not giving me enough attention. I also get upset that they have trouble creating boundaries. As a Capricorn I've wished they wouldn't be that way, (because I secretly covet celebrity) but it's their nature. On the other hand, I always get in trouble with Cancers by being too honest or critical. Even times I'm not intending to criticize they read it in my body language. Cancers also give me the chance to disrespect them by asking my opinion of their creations. There's not a lot I feel I can do to mask my honest opinion of things they've created.

I don't know if that helps any. I'm just trying to say that all of the Cardinal Signs are compelling personalities, but perhaps some of us should reconsider being with other Cardinal signs.