Cappysweetie, HELP!

Uggghh...Please help me! I'm having troubles with a cappy co-worker. Long story short...This women (a social worker) interviewed me a couple months ago and we totally hit it off - I LOVED HER! However, for the past couple of weeks she's been totally psycho analyzing my every move...Every time I see her she questions my mood, asks me what's wrong and constantly thinks I'm unhappy. Then today while we were alone in my office she tells me (bluntly) that I'm a moody biiatch and asks what has been going on with me.... Absolutely dumbfounded, I tell her that I'm not moody at all and that she takes me all wrong. She then tells me I'm sneaky, too contemplative and overly cautious and paranoid. She stated that my moods are hot and cold...WTF? By the end of the conversation I'm feeling like shit about myself and completely paranoid about my personality... I'm now very worried that I will lose my job.

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Her counter-part (my boss) is a Virgo and she doesn't like me much either..

I'm so worried that I'm going to lose my job.

Whoa, whoa ... oh dear. Theres no need to lose your job, this all sounds like a big misunderstanding ...

What brought all this on?

I'm not sure what brought this on Cappy...

Everything was fine the first couple of weeks on the job. The cappy has to come into the office a few times a week to do follow-up's with my co=worker and I. She's usually upbeat and happy. However, when I'm working on something or have a situation going on I'm not all "happy happy" I'm focused on what I'm doing. I don't have time to socialize at that perticular moment. You see, I took this new job thinking it would be great but now I'm realizing it wasn't what I thought it would be. Maybe she can read that in me...? Whatever the case I'm seriously feeling that I'm not a good fit for the job. Especially now that my moods are being disected at every moment.

Hey Cappygolightly: I am a Leo and I did go by another user name (Christina1424).

Everything was fine the first couple of weeks on the job. The cappy has to come into the office a few times a week to do follow-up's with my co=worker and I. She's usually upbeat and happy. However, when I'm working on something or have a situation going on I'm not all "happy happy" I'm focused on what I'm doing. I don't have time to socialize at that perticular moment. You see, I took this new job thinking it would be great but now I'm realizing it wasn't what I thought it would be. Maybe she can read that in me...? Whatever the case I'm seriously feeling that I'm not a good fit for the job. Especially now that my moods are being disected at every moment.

Well, I'd say it has something to do with her moon and mar placements because usually Capricorn women are NOT that nit-picky. No way, I'm not quite sure what her deal is. The only conclusion I can come up with is that there something else going on in her life to make her act this way -- with most people (however, this is very true with cappy women) if certain things are going on in their lives and they don't like it, they tend to be a bit 'different'.

Your moods should not matter as long as you are doing the job. As long as your boss is happy with you then who cares, you know? Don't put too much emotion in any job because most places are filled with ups and downs and more then likely it has nothing to do with you ^_^.

I speak from experience because I had to deal with a cancer woman who are actually the same way, she always paid attention to my moods. The only different was ... she was my supervisor lol, but when things got really bad, I went to my libra boss about it.

So yeah, I know what you mean 🙂 I'm a very moody person ... not quite as bad as cancer but I do swing sometime and if people based everything on my moods, my goodness ....


Yeah 😄 lol