Capricorn Care or Control?

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ariesdub
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do capricorn men come back just for control? I was dating one for 2 months he was m.I.a new years acted funnyChristmas Eve I saw him Christmas Day. However, the two weeks prior to holidays he went cold on me.
When d he didn't show up New Years Day as he stated he would I had decided to move on. (they're way more details but this is the third time I'm writing this message) he called me on jan /4. I told him I was busy n I'd call him back n he shows up at my home instead of waiting for me to call him back. I didn't answer n he got pissed. Began cursing me out via text saying I'm screwing some one n that's y I'm unresponsive. That he's out in snow, never call him again, thn it was back to " call me now" etc.

He pursued me 4 1/2 months thereafter but once I gave in he spent more time but wld sabotage our good time with foolishness.

Example: texting in front of me n his ex called once he made sure I saw it thn I found out bout some random chick he was seeing yet he wld not admit to it. His behavior is exhausting I get the whole being restricted by Saturn thing. however, he's been tripping lately n Suddenly withheld sex last week brought clothes to my house thn disappeared for 2.days after.saying he'd be back which has become a joke bc he has been on his Capricorn King of Control rhetoric. Plus he has a "habit" or 2.
My question is was it all a game to cap to c if he cld gain back control ? He left me hanging once again n yesterday so I'm implementing "No contact" for all the reasons why. But I wld appreciate some clarity, is it all about control?
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I don't think it has anything to do with control. He's not that into you

He doesn't sound like anyone I'd invest my time with. The "habit" is enough for me to cut ties. On top of that the disappearing, the inconsistencies, the other girl....why are you interested in HIM?

You said something in the rambling post about you seeing a gemini. So is there a possibility there is some truth to what he,was accusing you of?
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ariesdub
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No Gemini wasn't with Me that day . I had shifted my mental energy towards the Gem since cap was playing m.i.a . Cap says no matter how I try to get off the prison grounds, he wont let me go. I laughed it off but he has an uncanny way of knowing whn I'm At witts end n plays me close n switches up his behavior ” hence the feeling of entrapment. Thn I have moon Virgo n Aries Rising with Venus in Taurus which doesn't help me in letting go.
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faith$golphin
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He' s tripping I heard they can be controlling but I never experience that!!! He could only be that way because he doesn't trust you!!! Don't play games with him and if he want to continue to play games act like it's not affecting you! Don't be readily available to him if he's not available to u. One thing I know for sure if he really like you he will always come back. You can not play a game with him if he know you like sexing him. He will win all the time!!! Remember he has a lot of patience!!! More than you imagine!!!
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ariesdub
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Posted by faith $ golphin
He' s tripping I heard they can be controlling but I never experience that!!! He could only be that way because he doesn't trust you!!! Don't play games with him and if he want to continue to play games act like it's not affecting you! Don't be readily available to him if he's not available to u. One thing I know for sure if he really like you he will always come back. You can not play a game with him if he know you like sexing him. He will win all the time!!! Remember he has a lot of patience!!! More than you imagine!!!