Capricorn man in love ?

There was this capricorn man I seen a few times at parties and random get together who was friends with my best friend, I never noticed him before and he keep kinda quite and kept to himself. Then I told my best friend to invite him to a cookout we had and from some reason I just felt like he was into me from his body language then later that night we went to a party and he was eying me the whole night and i made the move to go up and talk to him and we were all up on each other the whole night holding hands and hugging, no kissing though. Ever since then hes been texting me calling me baby, and beautiful and saying I make him feel real special. Is this typical Capricorn behavior ? I don't want him just saying all this stuff to me then saying to other girls as well. Im a cancer btw. Any insight on capricorn men would be great.

Yes it's typical and no it doesn't mean he's in love...He most likely has a few women lingering around him at any given time but you are worth pursuing or he wouldn't waste his time, he's getting to know you...Cancer and Cap argh, he's going to drive you nuts with his coldness and lack of affection. Some caps have fire in there chart and can seem a bit extroverted and yet are very reserved at the same time, being a bit extroverted helps with getting the ladies attention, affectionate but never really pushing any boundaries....Good luck with this one

I'm a Cancer with plenty of Cap experience. Just be careful and don't try to move too quick n be all emotional and no tantrums. Give more advice later if needed. Not feeling well. :-)

All of your responses are soooooooo true about Cap men.

My cappie in the beginning was the chaser, but he didn't realize that I was already aware of that type of behavaior with my Virgo ex so I already knew the game and knew how to play. All the sweet talk went in one ear and I kept my guard up because I wasn't falling for that BS again. So, I took my time with my Cap. He did and still do the majority of the calling, texting etc. During the first year I let him do all the chasing. I don't over do it, its seems the more I pull away the more he wants me and I'm loving it.

Well the thing is hes younger then me, I'm 23 and hes 20. Lately we been hanging out and hes been all up on me kissing me, hugging me. I invited him to a party and we hung out for like 2 hours and everything was cool and then he pulled me aside and asked if I wanted to leave the party and go out and do somethings and I said things like what, you wanna have sex with me or something, and he said well yeah if you want to, and his penis was like rock hard in his pants cause I could feel it on my leg when he was standing in front of me. I was like no Im not just going to have sex with you cause Im not that type of girl, and he kept saying he did like and there was nothing wrong with us having sex and becoming something more, and I feel like he was just saying that because he wants to have sex so he thinks if he says oh we could be in relationship to will make me want to have sex with him more it isnt going to work. I really liked him and wanted to get to know him but Im not just going to have sex with him. Now hes texting me saying he does like me and think Im cool saying of course I want to have sex with you cause Im a man but I do really like you and would love to somebody with someone like you and he said it was too bad that I cant see that Im too blinded by the fact he wants to have sex with me. I just dont know what to do or dont know what to think.

What's with the confusion? Either have sex with him or leave the dude alone...He wants sex with you not love, not relationship and no you won't get a relationship out of him if you have sex with him too soon, on his terms, do it his way, I a huge majority of women tend to hope that's the case but really that's the exception to the rule, most of us are not the exception...You can take a chance and have sex and see were it goes but don't be surprised if it leads to nowhere but more sex which leads to more confusion and not much more than that.

Capricorns are very slow at showing their emotions, so please don't let him fool you. If he's attractive to you he will show interest in many ways but that will normally change because he will begin to be very caution. He's definitely not in love!!! Because they tend to pull away after things are moving too fast. They will still have feelings for you they just need a lot of time to really trust a woman. This can take a long time. They are very cold hearted and stubborn sometimes so beware. Don't look for him to verbally express his feelings because that could be a very long time. They are very good in bed. They like to get to really know a person before they show their true feelings. They will analyze everything and remember everything yall talk about so be truthful with him because that's a step towards trust with a capricorn man.

Posted by lovem08

There was this capricorn man I seen a few times at parties and random get together who was friends with my best friend, I never noticed him before and he keep kinda quite and kept to himself. Then I told my best friend to invite him to a cookout we had and from some reason I just felt like he was into me from his body language then later that night we went to a party and he was eying me the whole night and i made the move to go up and talk to him and we were all up on each other the whole night holding hands and hugging, no kissing though. Ever since then hes been texting me calling me baby, and beautiful and saying I make him feel real special. Is this typical Capricorn behavior ? I don't want him just saying all this stuff to me then saying to other girls as well. Im a cancer btw. Any insight on capricorn men would be great.

Capricorns are very slow at showing their emotions, so please don't let him fool you. If he's attractive to you he will show interest in many ways but that will normally change because he will begin to be very caution. He's definitely not in love!!! Because they tend to pull away after things are moving too fast. They will still have feelings for you they just need a lot of time to really trust a woman. This can take a long time. They are very cold hearted and stubborn sometimes so beware. Don't look for him to verbally express his feelings because that could be a very long time. They are very good in bed. They like to get to really know a person before they show their true feelings. They will analyze everything and remember everything yall talk about so be truthful with him because that's a step towards trust with a capricorn man.

Posted by lovem08

There was this capricorn man I seen a few times at parties and random get together who was friends with my best friend, I never noticed him before and he keep kinda quite and kept to himself. Then I told my best friend to invite him to a cookout we had and from some reason I just felt like he was into me from his body language then later that night we went to a party and he was eying me the whole night and i made the move to go up and talk to him and we were all up on each other the whole night holding hands and hugging, no kissing though. Ever since then hes been texting me calling me baby, and beautiful and saying I make him feel real special. Is this typical Capricorn behavior ? I don't want him just saying all this stuff to me then saying to other girls as well. Im a cancer btw. Any insight on capricorn men would be great.

Yea girl, he's not in love he's trying to screw. I hate to say it but don't get caught up with the young Caps. When their life isn't in some type of order or direction then he's not ready for a relationship.....he might want one now that you didn't give him what he wanted but just be careful cause us Cancer girls fall hard and when I was your age I was dumb with it. Just take your time, plenty other men out there in the world who are willing to take you seriously.

hi i am a capricorn sun and moon and got alot of experience with cancer women and reading ur problem is obvious that u feel intrigue by him as well as him for u but is not love honestly is only atraction. i had da same problem about cancer women when figure that most girls i have like r cancers and i stared doing some research and discover cancer and capricorn are opposite like day and night and in a relationship in won't work only in sex opposite atracted each other as u know. in my opinion capricorn people tend to look for wat they don't have because we r kind of cold emotionally as soon as we know our partner is worth da time.

P.S A good tip don't do a emotional scene like u girls cancer like 2 do because he will get scare and leave u hanging that all and don't try to get him jealous either he will think u don't like him anymore and u will lose him. and answering ur question his not in love is only sexual attraction because ur r different from other girls because as i kno cancer women r more emotional than normal girls or women.

if u really like him be really patient with him and don't push it.

love no, he doesn't even KNOW you, lust maybe or just wanting a little ego boost from you responding to him in kind. Caps can be good manipulators to get what/the response they want - it's all about the end result, success!

forgot is true that we capricorn like to make people we like the center of da world until da crush is over. i am a caprioorn and don't play easy instead play nreachable like a star u have something he want and he'll do evrything in heaven and hell to get it that is u. it drives me crazy when i don't get wat i want i bet u his da same his even capable of getting marry to u to have sex if u control ur emotion well with him. His attracted to u because ur a opposite sign that all if u have sex woth him it b over in 3month da more and u will b crying i bet 100 dollar on it.

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Okay I have been friends with my new Capricorn beau for 4 years. He just got a divorced and he has had a crush on me since we met. It feels very comfy with him, however at the same time a bit akward. I some how think he moved to fast just divorced and now dating me. We have some things in common and yet not everything. I feel like I could have a relationship with this man if I really wanted to, but I am hesitant because I don't want to be the rebound girlfriend and I am also concerned that we are better friends than mates. I cannot decide if it is my dreamy pisces "ideals" or if I am really sensing the truth of us being together. Part of me thinks we should go back to being friends, and tell him to spread his wings and be single for a while. I feel sad for him, he lived with a wife who never gave him sex. So me being the Pisces vixan helped him out in this arena. He is a Cap sun and a pisces moon. Want him to see our relationship for what it is which I am confused of what it is? *sigh* I will say this the sex was amazing!!! He definately did not need any retraining.

That is good info Lovely Scorpio. I have to be honest if it were only sex I think I would be okay with that. It is hard to put my finger on it, part of me says "yeah this could be a cozy relationship and secure" and another part of me tells me "This is not a perfect match". *Sigh* I adore cap as a friend we get along great, but I want a partner with a bit more passion in life. If he could take that passion out of the bedroom into real life I think this could be a great match. The sex is mind blowing. lol

In my opinion and personal experience, when one gets a divorce they are in self-discovery mode to find what they are all about again. I honestly think I might just want to do that, encourage him to go out there and find what he wants in life. If it all works out for him and me....great. If not I am okay with that. I have been divorced for 10 years now, and I have ideas in my mind what I am looking for. I just don't think he fits the bill perfectly. 😢 He is a bit more traditional, and me I am quiet the esoteric, earth-loving, organic health nut. I do wish he would care about his health a bit more. 😢

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Hello, I'm new to this site. So I'm not really sure if I'm doing this right. I wanted to know why my ex capricorn recently deleted me from his facebook after having me as a friend more than a month of us not speaking. Is it because he's trying to get over me, is he dating someone else and doesnt want to hurt my feelings, does he just wan me out of his life? I would really like to know if anyone can help. We were only together for a few months. He made me feel so special. We would spend every weekend together and every night talking on the phone for hours. He introduced me to his friends and family very fast. His mother use to always tell me that I was so special to him. And she has never seen him bring anyone around as much as me. She said that if he did bring another woman around she would see them once and never hear from them again. But with me, he use to leave me with his mother to hang out with her. She really likes me a lot. He would leave me at his house and treat me really good. He always told me that he loved me more than I would ever know. Then out of the blue everything went downhill. One minute he's crazy about me and loving me to death and the next day he'll tell me that he only loves me as a friend. He just started to play these mind games no matter how much he saw that it was hurting me. Everytime he would start "loving" me again I would tell him that it feels so real and hurts so bad when he tells me that his feelings are not there anymore. Everytime I tell him the hurful way that makes me feel he would always say "I will always love you, I told you we are going to be together forever." He would tell me that no matter what he says we are always going to be together. Then I get confused and hurt all over again. After that he would do the same thing and tell me that his feeling are not there. So finally I stopped speaking to him. Then he called me out of the blue telling me how much he misses and loves me and the next day was hell for me again. Because he went cold again! After that last time I told myself not to speak to him at all. After more than a month of not speaking to him I realized that my status on my FB said in a relationship and I took it down. The very next day he deleted me from his FB. WHY??

By the way, his sun sign is cap and moon in pisces. And my sun is aries and moon sign is cancer.

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I fell in love with me best friend who is a Capricorn. He is the best guy in the whole wide world! but when he is around other people he acts perverted and like a normal guy. He has inscurty problems and all Capricorns have that somehow.

I'm 14 and a cancer and he is also 14. He doesnt like "us" he says he rather be my bestfriend then my boyfreind, he is afraid of losing me we fight at least once a month about all this.
It all started in the 7th grade I met him in 6th grade and we have always been best friends. He tells other people that we are just friends and he lies to him self and tells them he likes someone eles then "goes out" with that person and breaks up he hates all of thoes girls they don't come close to anything. This has been going on for 2 years and it hurts me everytime.

We talk about (not us) but having kids and he wants me to move to New York with him after high school. Im moving this summer and its been hard on the both of us im comming back after high school. I will be gone for 3 years.

Capricorn and Cancer are the best combo.They complement eachother very well. They are the opposite of the signs. Some people say opposits are horrible together but the attract!.Just like my love said. "we are like magnets we can't stay away from eachother".

It takes a long time for a capricorn really understand the truth and more with a best friend. When Capricorns fall in love they want to spend the rest of their life with you.They want it to be real and forever. Capricorns are scared of what they might lose but they need to realize of what they will gain. If you are not ready to get in that BIG part of your life and you don't truly love him it won't be worth it.

So, I'm still waiting and I will always wait. I would wait until I die to be with him.