Capricorn men and PRIVACY...

A little privacy is cool now and then, but I would like to know, why SO MUCH OF IT?


I had a cap male blow up at me for letting people know that I liked him and was interested in him. It made me raise a seeeerious eyebrow at him. Plus it turned me off because it really wasnt that serious of a deal. *cough*Itwasattheworkplacetoo*cough*

But he didnt even want me to tell my close friends!

So yea, I just want to know: Why so much of it?

Well, I used to work with him.

Here is the thing, I only told two people about my emotions. Not anything personal about him. Then one of his friends came to me and said "OOO Im telling him". The whole thing was really really juvenile, and I dont see the big deal as to why anyone should be pissed off.

He already knew that I liked him. But once others knew of MY feelings (not his, because even I didnt know if he had any) then everything was a problem.



Well anyway, I found out that he had a girlfriend stashed away somewhere the whole time.
He was lying to my from jump which pissed me off.

He is so secretive, its beyond mysterious, its suspect.

Actually, he did have a girlfriend. Two of his close friends, and one co-worker confirmed it. Apparently, this was why he was travelling out to where she lived (long island) every weekend just to be with her.

Trust me, this Cap was way to secretive for me. When i approached him about it, he was shocked and asked me who told me. It pissed me off.

I agree with cap. It is a toss up. You have your good ones, and you have your "Seemingly good, but secretively mischievious" ones.

From my experiences, two of my best friends (both female, one aries, the other a virgo) were strickly in sex-only relationships with two capricorn males who also happened to have been in a serious relationship with other people at the time. And then I know of another capricorn male who happens to be very involved in the whole "public sex scene". He acts like a straight up Sag.

But nonetheless, despite stereotypes, capricorns ARE NOT above having a private fling or two on the side. I should know, I was about to be one of them. If they do go for it, they are EXTREMELY careful and weigh all of the risks so that you wont find out, and most women dont of their cappy man. They are smooth, quiet and very secretive about it.

Its true that they do tend to remain loyal to you, but in the end and outside of astrology, to each is there own. Im telling you, there are Cap men out their who love their woman to death but still have very very private affairs on the side.

A year or so back, my cap told me he has a girl to whom he has got attracted. And this confession comes along when he asks me and I chatter about my work and the fun times I hav been having with my work ppl. I think those days, I was'nt even calling him so much and he hated that I was drifting away. I for one didnt believe that he had fallen for her. Why would he confess about her to me?

But one sad thing is that the girl is crazy about him. And once I realized that I knew I had to be far away from the cap. I can't be anyone's second best.

But I agree with VT-it is possible that they are a couple now. Anything is possible in this world.

probably he didnt want u to tell everybody at work as they knew about his gf, and they would tell u, and then u wouldnt run after him.... so u see this aint a cappy thing, its more like this guys a big big jerk.