Capricorn moon people. What does it mean to you to be vulnerable?

For me its letting people see weakness. I have to be in control and letting that select one or two people know how weak I've become in a desperate situation really scares me.

To he honest, I don't understand vulnerability at all. If I show it, it is in a moment when I've absolutely lost control of my emotions. That doesn't happen very often and I'm not consciously aware that it's happening until it's too late.

Posted by littlegigabyte
Letting others take control of anything, while still hovering over them and making sure they are doing it right 😆

Letting people know about my finances 😱

Letting people into my home 😱

Oh yeah finances... Nobody has any idea what mine are like. I let a few people into my house but I hate having a group over.

You do sound like an amazing boss to work for lol.

Posted by sultrykitty
To he honest, I don't understand vulnerability at all. If I show it, it is in a moment when I've absolutely lost control of my emotions. That doesn't happen very often and I'm not consciously aware that it's happening until it's too late.

Sounds like your leo pride pushes it unto overdrive. I used to be the same way but I dealt with some stuff that pushed me to that edge. The one person who I let during that phase sees more of a human side than others.

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Posted by sultrykitty
To he honest, I don't understand vulnerability at all. If I show it, it is in a moment when I've absolutely lost control of my emotions. That doesn't happen very often and I'm not consciously aware that it's happening until it's too late.

Sounds like your leo pride pushes it unto overdrive. I used to be the same way but I dealt with some stuff that pushed me to that edge. The one person who I let during that phase sees more of a human side than others.

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Very little actually gets to me, but I'm fixed dominant, and can be very hard on myself and stubborn. No quarter. It's true that some see my vulnerability, but those are people who are willing to look past the hard exterior. They see something in me that I don't even recognize in myself. I still wouldn't say that I'm comfortable being vulnerable. I think if you really examine what that is, we just aren't and I don't think we really can be. I am sensitive, and highly empathetic to others, and I give from my heart. But that isn't being vulnerable, IMO. Only one person might have an incling of my inner soul, but I don't think he knows it completely and I don't think he ever will.

I'm a Virgo rising, leo sun, cap moon. My moon is opposite my venus though. My fixed nature doesn't let me give up on someone easily. It takes some time for "the cracks to form" and then it happens in an instant. When I cut someone out they know by my cold nature.

I will spend time understanding someone who's closed off but for me i like to chase but need to see a bit of interest or else I decide to move on.

I don't get upset I just move on if someone is closed off. It does depend on how much interest I have in that person like if it's someone I just met or someone I've been chasing for a while.

why you want to know it ?

What does vulnerable mean? I don't think I've ever been in that place.



ha ha!

Vulnerability is extremely uncomfortable. Putting your faith in someone is scary. Therefore, I'm very, very cautious about who I make myself vulnerable to. I have to have a lot of trust and a lot of history to do so.

So many people take your vulnerabilities and use them against you, so it's very rare for me to put myself in this situation.

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I'm a Virgo rising, leo sun, cap moon. My moon is opposite my venus though. My fixed nature doesn't let me give up on someone easily. It takes some time for "the cracks to form" and then it happens in an instant. When I cut someone out they know by my cold nature.

I will sipend time understanding someone who's closed off but for me i like to chase but need to see a bit of interest or else I decide to move on.

I don't get upset I just move on if someone is closed off. It does depend on how much interest I have in that person like if it's someone I just met or someone I've been chasing for a while.

And what are some reasons for cutting someone out? For example even if that person hasn't hurt you (at least i don't see if i caused pain)

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I hate to say this but if someone cut you out you may never know why. I've cut people out cause I was just exhausted with someone. Tired bailing someone out of trouble, tired with dealing with someone's drama, tired of someone behavior, tired of I kept feeling around someone, or whatever.

@Ryoko if you want you can PM me and I can give you my opinion.

Posted by truecap
What does vulnerable mean? I don't think I've ever been in that place.



ha ha!

Vulnerability is extremely uncomfortable. Putting your faith in someone is scary. Therefore, I'm very, very cautious about who I make myself vulnerable to. I have to have a lot of trust and a lot of history to do so.

So many people take your vulnerabilities and use them against you, so it's very rare for me to put myself in this situation.

I learned something that took some time for me to grasp. I had people tell me that I needed to be more trusting. That concept dumbfounded me with letting people see my vulnerable side. I learned that I had to trust me to be who they are. Learn their motives and learn their habits once I got a good understanding of that I learned what I could trust people with.