capricorn (w) virgo (m)

I'm also a Virgo M with a Cappy W in my life. It's nine months today since we first became friends.

I'd be fascinated to hear more about this relationship, both so that I can offer advice and so that I can maybe learn something too.

Virgo and Cappy are fundamentally a great match, but there could be other factors in a couple's placements and synastry that affect this. Me and my Cappy get on wonderfully but, with Leo rising, I can have a propensity to be a bit of an attention junky and a playaholic, whereas my Cappy likes her space and is very devoted to her job, so we both have to strike a careful balance so that I don't feel neglected and she doesn't feel smothered.

good luck to you! I know a virgal that is just the same. can just turn it off like a switch and walk away then keeps in touch with all the guys so she can use them in some shape or form when she needs something.

Keep your cool especially around him. Obviously he has some issues. And is there a particular reason why you are at his home every weekend? Do that when you guys are married. I dont know how you do it. Doesnt it get boring? There is so much to do nowadays. You are predictable to him now. So go do your own thing. New Year's Eve and Christmas is coming up. Dress to the nines and go out and have a blast. Trying to figure out another person when you are secure with how you feel towards them is futile. He made the decision, so go on with your life. You asked if you were being clingy, and although he said no, you need to back it up and get your own life. People make a mistake when they go into a relationship and make it their whole life. Then they wonder what went wrong when it all goes awry. You didnt keep your own life outside of the relationship. You should of still been hanging with your friends sometimes on the weekends, or doing something you really enjoy (besides him 😉) Dont call him or anything since this is how he feels. Enjoy your life, because it is short. There is a whole world out there waiting on you. Dont let it pass you by.

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Posted by GeorgiaPeach
And is there a particular reason why you are at his home every weekend? Do that when you guys are married. I dont know how you do it. Doesnt it get boring? There is so much to do nowadays. You are predictable to him now. So go do your own thing.

I'm sorry, but that is a ridiculous and totally out-of-place assumption.

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Thank you for your opinion,Shaka, but it is the same story on these boards time after time. Boy meets girl. They fall in whatever (like, lust, love, etc.) They spend every free moment together. Then boy changes all of a sudden because girl is continuously available (i.e. doesnt call,answer phone,makes excuses or leaves). Girl doesnt understand why.

Its not the unsolved mystery that you are deeming it to be.

my heart has broken again by this man!

my heart has broken again by this man!