Capricorn woman rejects me but won't leave me alone

She rejected me twice, and wasn't nice about it. But she wants to be around me all the time and touches me constantly - this has been going on for a few years. When she's around, she won't let attractive women get near me. She hates anyone I go out with. I dated a woman of another race and when she found out about it, she became so angry and stressed that she was shaky and almost in tears whenever she saw me. She dates other guys and totally takes advantage of them - they fall in love and she loses interest. Her friends say that she's interested in me but, like I said, she rejected me when I asked her out. She said she has no interest in me at all. Are there any Cappy women out there who understand what's going on here?

She likes the attention you give her. Ignore her, and I mean really ignore her and she will be knocking down your door or blowing up your phone. She wants the one she can't have be the one she can't have. All honesty do you really want that?

Posted by geminaye97
She rejected me twice, and wasn't nice about it. But she wants to be around me all the time and touches me constantly - this has been going on for a few years. When she's around, she won't let attractive women get near me. She hates anyone I go out with. I dated a woman of another race and when she found out about it, she became so angry and stressed that she was shaky and almost in tears whenever she saw me. She dates other guys and totally takes advantage of them - they fall in love and she loses interest. Her friends say that she's interested in me but, like I said, she rejected me when I asked her out. She said she has no interest in me at all. Are there any Cappy women out there who understand what's going on here?

oh man i dated a gem guy and sorta rejected him. mow i want him back too but my pride wont allow me to grovel, i miss him like crazy and now it would be hard to have him. i think she really likes you but has a terrible way of showing it. im suffering in silence with a smile on my face in true cap fashion. i miss the gem like crazy but have resolved to take the L on this one.

She likes you, but there's something about you that's not on her list? Like your occupation, ambition, your background, looks, income, your potential. ..I dunno.

Are women attracted to you? Or do you date a lot of different women? Or flirt a lot? She could be leery of getting hurt.

But, really, gem and cap don't work very well, so maybe you are better off as friends.

Posted by truecap
She likes you, but there's something about you that's not on her list? Like your occupation, ambition, your background, looks, income, your potential. ..I dunno.

Are women attracted to you? Or do you date a lot of different women? Or flirt a lot? She could be leery of getting hurt.

But, really, gem and cap don't work very well, so maybe you are better off as friends.

I get hit on a lot and flirt a lot but am particular about who I date.There's gotta be a spark there. She knows about that. I've told her that I have feelings for her. From what I'm told, I match her list. The thing is, she'll go cold on me and ignore me for a few days and I end up taking someone else out. Then she acts angry and regretful. It happens over and over again. I've told her that I don't like when she shuts me out and asked her to stop assuming the worst about me, but then she goes silent. I'm pretty sure she's afraid of getting hurt but don't know what to say to reassure her. She's the one I want. I would choose her over anyone else.

Posted by geminaye97

Posted by truecap
She likes you, but there's something about you that's not on her list? Like your occupation, ambition, your background, looks, income, your potential. ..I dunno.

Are women attracted to you? Or do you date a lot of different women? Or flirt a lot? She could be leery of getting hurt.

But, really, gem and cap don't work very well, so maybe you are better off as friends.

I get hit on a lot and flirt a lot but am particular about who I date.There's gotta be a spark there. She knows about that. I've told her that I have feelings for her. From what I'm told, I match her list. The thing is, she'll go cold on me and ignore me for a few days and I end up taking someone else out. Then she acts angry and regretful. It happens over and over again. I've told her that I don't like when she shuts me out and asked her to stop assuming the worst about me, but then she goes silent. I'm pretty sure she's afraid of getting hurt but don't know what to say to reassure her. She's the one I want. I would choose her over anyone else.

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Well, there went my theory! lol.

Just show consistent actions. Caps rely on actions than words. Not really sure what else to suggest.

Just because she doesn't want to play with the toys doesnt mean she wants anyone else to have them.