Hello everybody! I need your advice capricorns and especially capy guys. I don't know if I scared my capricorn crush away. I told him my feelings on paper and asked to know his, after reading it he acted nice and smiled, but the next day he was cold, maybe just Quiet, really, and avoided eye contact with me. Not to mention he didn't respond. What am I to expect or not to expect? Could it be that's he's maybe too shy and can't express his feelings or is he not interested. He knows me so don't think that he's some stranger and I'm a crazy girl on the loose.... HEHEHE!!!
capricornian ways?
i really don't know your whole story ....and i hope that you are not
provoking this someone....many capricorn's want to know can they be loved unconditonal....they also struggle with the fear that there is
no one who truly cares....and no one who really understands....bye rach
provoking this someone....many capricorn's want to know can they be loved unconditonal....they also struggle with the fear that there is
no one who truly cares....and no one who really understands....bye rach
No one that really understands what?What do I have to be understanding about? I'm not a mind reader...Well thanx though... Rach
Maybe he's already spoken for, he smiled at you so that means he acknowledged your note to him, but if he hasn't talked to you about it yet forget it, he also may be going through some turbulent times in his life and may not want anyone involved in it.
Maybe he's already spoken for, he smiled at you so that means he acknowledged your note to him, but if he hasn't talked to you about it yet forget it, he also may be going through some turbulent times in his life and may not want anyone involved in it.
If you are not a Taurus, Virgo, Scorpio,or Pisces then just leave the Capricorn Alone! The understanding is that capricorns are very caring people and expect to be in an intimate situation for life and that you can be trusted and you always have his back and he will have yours!! The only games they like to play are board games and computer games, but no games with frienship and of the heart!! Understand that?
I agreed Capricorn is a very caring person,but is a very straight forward person when they talk. Although sometimes they may speak too harsh,but actually he didn't mean anything. They will only trust a person if that person is totally honest and never ever lie to a Cap,if they find out you lie to him they will never trust you again. When a Cap really trust you,Cap will help you in whatever way they can if you encounter any problems. If you make a mistake,try to apologise to a Cap,try not to fight with them. I just giving some opinions and tips as I do have capricorn friend which I understand a lot of thing about them.
Showing Concern.
Showing Concern.
My first hand experience with a certain capricorn made me want to swear them off FOREVER. He chased me, pursued me like anything, and then when we are together, he plays as if I WAS THE ONE WHO DID ALL OF THE ABOVE. They tend to act immaturely, in love affairs, and go overboard with promisses, only to pretend that as long as they didn't really hurt you, it would be fine, for BOTH. Well, why don't you talk about yourself only, SIR ? Leave moi alone
Agreed.
I have almost sworn right off Caps too. They play by some crazy rules that I have noticed go something along the lines of: if Cap says one thing they can act any way they like and still fall back on the 'yeah, but I said this' thing. I know that doesn't make much sense - sorry it's late - but yeah Caps do like to pretend that their actions don't hurt people. But I have found them to be hurtful quite often. I'm a Taurus guy, IMHO Caps can be downright insensitive. Sorry guys.
I have almost sworn right off Caps too. They play by some crazy rules that I have noticed go something along the lines of: if Cap says one thing they can act any way they like and still fall back on the 'yeah, but I said this' thing. I know that doesn't make much sense - sorry it's late - but yeah Caps do like to pretend that their actions don't hurt people. But I have found them to be hurtful quite often. I'm a Taurus guy, IMHO Caps can be downright insensitive. Sorry guys.
Thank you so much for your replies!, I really appreciate each and every one of them and please keep them coming, won't hurt. :> scorpio
My Capriocorn exboyfriend did the same thing to me. he pursued me and promised me the world for almost 4 years and then ran scared when it came time to actually make a firm commitment to me. Now he is off with someone else who he doesnt have to "answer to" and not make ANY commitments too, and probably do the same thing to that poor girl. Very sad way to conduct his life if you ask me. By the way I am a Pisces woman and I have a Cap dad and a Cap bro who would never do to me what he did. I just dont get it.
Capricorn is an Earth sign that can be shy and reserved, but also VERY bossy. Also, they take relationships VERY seriously and don't have much of a sense of humor - especially since they're workaholics. The only way to have a Capricorn is to understand they believe in being in charge of relationships and making major decisions and being respected for their sometimes stiff-minded belief systems.
Hey I'm a capricorn female and I'm funny! I am not a stuffed shirt either. I am shy - in Groups. One on One I am not shy at all. I'm very loyal,dependable,obstinate, stubborn and always defend the weak. It is possible for a capricorn to love. I guess I'm kinda cold and rational about it. First there has to be attraction and then there are deeds. I have a very compassionate nature. The men that I gravitate towards are usually ones that would give a person the shirt off their backs. They would need to be hard workers - I am a workaholic - I admit it. They don't necessarily have to be successful right then but I do need to see that they have some sort of ambition- But not the kind of ambition that would hurt anyone to get them to the top. They would also need to be family oriented. If there weren't any of these things it wouldn't work. I would not even give them a chance. I know - I suck! If you are any of these things then the chances are maybe you are giving this Cap guy yourself on a platter. Caps usually like to work for what they get. If they get it too easily then they don't appreciate it. I will tell you what - If this guy really likes you - as soon as he finds out you aren't going to wait on him-he will start calling. He needs to see that you are going to move on with or without him. This way even if it doesn't work out with him - you will be on the road to finding someone you can share your life with.
My former babysitter and friend is a Capricorn, and she's BOTH serious and funny! I love her and she loves me, too.
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