Capricorns having a dreadful 2001

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unbelievable here i am @1:00am searching the web, well what do you know
i to am having a difficult love problem as well as my whole entire life...something is happening to me...wait!!!!! i think i know for us cappy's whaats up....its spirtual change and getting tired of our ragged a** partners we seem to sacrifice our soul for them....they don't want to do a dam thing we ask them...what the hell....i'm going out the year 2001 on my own....not to mention my gay a** wimpy lover male pisces...that has suckered me with empty weak a** promises....he never delivers.good luck to all you capricorns in the whole wide world...the love we give...all those sweat and tears...if no one gives it back to us...then hell they don't deserve us...i am a capricorn female
looking for someone to love me until the end of time....helllllo is anyone else out there feeling that...bye...your concern friend rach
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I whole-heartedly agree, fellow Capricorns. I met the love of my life only to see it all end due to bitter misunderstandings and lose him (a pisces). I failed to graduate on time, failed to find a job, failed to resolve family issues- the most unlucky year of my life thus far. If it weren't for good friends this year would be unbearable, and I for one can't wait for the New Year!
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I love Capricorn male with all of my heart, he is off a bad relationship earlier this year with a woman I will generously describe as a "pig." The way he found out she was cheating on him was when her ex sent him the flithiest imaginable pornographoc photos he had taken of her while my Capricornj was away on business. He kept those photos forever. I do not understand this. Why would someone keep something that hurt them so, especially after he has found the Love of His Life - me. He wants to marry me and yet the subjecyt of this pig keeps coming up, how she hurt him, how she used him. I have given him all the patience and understanding in the world, do not say much about her because he knows what I think and I do not want to seem like I am "rubbing it in."

Yet everytime things get really great between us, the demon of this pig pops up between us. I do not think he still loves her, but know he still hurts from her. She was anything but his intellectual equal, anything but his equal in so many different ways.

He calls me the fisrt soul mate he has ever had, is gentle and caring and loving towards me and yet this pig keep popping up and I do noty know what to do about it, fear I will lose him because of what SHE did and nothing that I have done. She is a pig in every sense of the word, even looks lkike one and I cannot imnagine that he stayed with her as long as he did excapt for the two kids she has. I have two kids, too, and they love and appreciate him, although have some problems with my daughter and her goofy boyfriend right now.

His take on this is to blame himself for her problems even though they were brewing long before I met him and he knew this. I have been nothing less than totally honest with him about everything.

Is it a Capricorn trait to get mixed up with screwed up people so that they ruin your lives forever? Or is this an individual thing? I need to know this because what heppened before is ruining both of our lives now in certain ways, on a very deep level. Will he ever get over this and what can I do in the mantime to help?
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well, it's not the WORST year I've ever had...i don't THINK anyway. then again, i've had a lot of bad years. and i've never been on a date (at 17 years old this Jan. 13th) ao i think that says how my love life is doing. i doubt year 2002 will be much different, working my a** off and getting yelled at around every turn, but that doesn't mean i'm unsatisfied with the world. i'm stronger than ever, and i know my limits. and i'm closer to my friends than ever before, and to myself as well, and i've got a rock band started with some guys at my highschool too! now take all your bitchin elsewhere! 😉
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hmmmm....sorry about that "quit yer bitchin'" line i posted. i didn't read every other post as carefully as i should have, so it seems like you have a reason to call 2001 the worst year of your life. well i hope everything does go better for you in the new year. once again, i'm sorry. i've got a tendency to do that, speaking/acting before thinking, and it has a tendency to cause problems (BIG ones). guess it's just part of being young and stupid, eh? 🙂 happy holidays everyone!

oh yeah, and i will give it to you that 2001 has been the worst year of my life. it took a bit of thought though to make that decision, b/c like i said: i HAVE found my limits, but no matter how hard i try i take a step back for every two baby-steps forward. i've got plenty of luck, but most of it's bad!

bye everyone, and again, sorry for posting without thinking. 🙂
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Sorry to hear about your worst year guys. I have had worse than THIS one I tell you. But when the good time come, they are worth it. As I had ALMOST sworn NOT to fall in love AGAIN, the year went smoothly, somehow. I became a lot more philosophical, less materialistic, and more spiritual, and it pays. Who needs a man ? I had been in and out or relationships most of my life, and now I find it much more rewarding to pursue other stuff. You only live once afterall, so do what your heart desires. Who knows maybe next year would be just the YEAR for other stuff. You never know what is there for you. I am willing to take it easy, listen more, be more compassionate, and receptive. But no attachment is allowed, unless, I am sure the other person is really the one for me. No more maybe's
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This has been and dreadful year for me finacially. No money since March 2001. 2002 has got to be better and it will. I feel the same way concerning men. I was married for 12 years when husband just walk out and left me with our three children. He hasn't seen them since he left. It's now going on four years.......Spiritual that's what it's all about. Detachment and GOD.