CapriVirgo breakup - How to handle

Folks need help...

We brokeup about 6 weeks back. I can't get out that virgo guy out of my head.
When we first met he found out so many faults in me and told me every thing on face.I felt I was treated so disrespectfully. The more I kept quite the more he kept on being descrimintaing on me. Basically he did not let me speak and argued every thing I tried to speak and won all arguments. After a while though he was under his control that he bluffed out every thing on me and then we decided for second date. During his long lectures I figured he is pretty witty and full of knowledge and that's what liked me inspite of his stupid behavior with me.

On the second date he was extremely well dressed. While on the first date he was in casual. On the second date he got suspecious that why did I select to meet him and not some one else? What are my motives to be interested in him etc.? All of a sudden he said, I don't think it will work between us.I am capri and pretty egoistic. But the reasons he had given to me were based on his very quick and false judgement about me based on his suspecion. Does any one need to be "suspecious" about why the other person shows interest in us? Isn't that a good sign? I travel by air to meet him, I think to him that was impractical and may be scary too.

The thing is, though he was weired in behavior I know he is intelligent and straight forward and seemed to me he was very reserved and not that experienced in this dating stuff.

I wrote him a long email trying to explain him that his suspecions were wrong and wrote him that his misjudging and qucikly judging others might make him loose a real relationship opportunity with some one and hence he needs to careful next time etc. Obviously no reply. After that I wrote him 2 more emails , with care without any angry words etc. Again no reply.

I am not planning to write him 4 th email, but can't get him out of my head as I feel we are both very similar in nature, likings etc. but due to his inexperience in dating, we are screwed up.Can a miracle happen in which he realizes that it is his mistake? Does a Virgo man ever come back? What are the chances?


Should I , at all attempt to win him back?
If yes- Which approach should I take to win him back?
Do I need to move on? If yes - How—?

I had read that Capri-Virgo is a good match, then why didn't it go that way?
Thanks!!!
Sleepless in Seattle

Thanks brahn0913.

I guess you are right. He was so insecure, and was feeling that showing interests in him translates into taking his adnatage. God help him!!

Hi caprigirlwithvirgo 🙂

I understand your complaints because I have dated a virgo guy and yes, they do have a tendency to act a bit strange on the first outing (date). It's always been a mystery to me ... I never know why he just couldn't be himself and relax.

"On the second date he got suspecious that why did I select to meet him and not some one else? What are my motives to be interested in him etc.? All of a sudden he said, I don't think it will work between us.I am capri and pretty egoistic. But the reasons he had given to me were based on his very quick and false judgement about me based on his suspecion."

Although this virgo man was odd, you would be asking for advice if you didn't still have feelings for him. However, this man just seemed to have deep insecurites abut himself and he just isn't worth trying to "win back" His lack of confidence has made him an asshole. You were probably a wonderful lady and the best he's ever dated His 'delicate' ego couldn't understand why someone like you would want him so he flaked out!

I say let him be .... because he needs to deal with those insecurites on his own. Those problems will only get worse if you two get back together. If he is this insecure now, you will be treated like a slave within a relationship with this virgo man. He would become jealous and wonder where you AND who you are with are ALL times ... you would be very unhappy.

Luck was on your side when he decided to walk away from you.

caprigirlwithvirgo

Capricorn and virgo relationship are suppose to be a good match but maybe it just depends on the gender -- a capricorn man and a virgo woman can probably get along better. I haven't been in a love relationship with a virgo man in a long time -- which is a shame because it was my best pairing. Honestly, I have yet to have the chemistry with any other man -- within the zodiac I mean. Neither the cancer guy, scorpio guy, and capricorn guys (I dated theses guys at some point) could compare to my relationship with him, to this day I still don't know what it was but it ended because HE WAS INSECURE ABOUT OUR RELATIONSHIP and we were really young. So I understand why you still want to see him ... even if he was a jerk.

However, you and I are cappie females and we a intelligent enough to know what' good for us and what's bad for us.

Take Care 😉