Hello.. Has any of you cappies experienced ..as they call them.. 'connections' with complete strangers? like maybe falling inlove at first sight that kind of thing? which is such a no-no for a cappie... It is the first time i experience it. Last evening it happened to me when i was out with my colleagues from work. I had no drink on board so I cannot find a proper explanation for it. there is this saggie guy who works in the same place as me and to whom i never talked too much before, apart form saying hello . btw my libra boyfriend was with me as well. as mr libra kept entertaining us all or anyway whoever wanted to listen to him,i just relaxed and had a laugh, a friendly giggle with this saggie guy, all 10 of us sititng around the same table. but i couldnt help at some point to think 'darn!he is so great!but the words cannot describe how i felt....like complete adulation and joy for being able to speak to him! usually no one can read my face but i think he could tell what i was thinking from looking at my face. it was like a slash thought which came and went in no time, but it completely turned me upside down. i repeat, with no alcohol on board... i have no logical explanation for it... i just caught him looking into my eyes for a sec just so deeply, but only for a second. after that he looked uncomfortable as well and for the rest of the evening we avoided looking at eachother.it was like we were trying to integrate in the group and share their laughter, and smile away, and laugh, laugh, laugh.it was so obvious for me that something happened to him and i'm sure he could tell somehting happened with me too. my gosh i am having shivers thinking about it now. all these time i was sitting next to my libra guy and the saggie was sitting across the table. so very hard to avoid eye contact, especially after being so friendly and nice to eachother that evening. what even more freaked me out was that someone was teling a story at some point (i cannot remember now exaclty what it was ), and me and the saggie guy completed the story teller's words in the same time, with the same words as me! i mean we both said out loud the same words!i think it was a silly joke or something! no one noticed that but i just wanted to dissapear and he just became quiet and after that regrouped as well like me and rejoined the laughter. i started to focus on my bf looking at him all the time and listebnig to him and participating in the chat. but my libra bf was so jealous i could tell! cos he was watching this saggie guy with such an angry look, but probably he couldnt accuse him or nothing! i never dared to ask the llibra guy what was up..... all night i never looked back at the saggie guy, and from what i've seen he never looked back at me, but i could tell that something was goin on cos my libra bf was still entertaining the crowd but specifically and seriously looking from time to time at the saggie guy. at some point the libra asked the sagie guy if he wanted a drink or somehting, but his tone was just soooo rude and sooo not friendly!! i said somehting and my libra guy put the focus on me saying look guys this is why i love her so much cos she can be so silly and funny sometimes' etc. so everyone was nicely smilling and looking at me. the saggie guy looked back into my eyes just for a 0.000008 sec (!!!) and said 'you've got.. she've got the most beautiful beautiful hair/the most beautiful i've seen '.i just played the diva trying to joke about it (i always get compliments about my hair!-it's curly and loooong).i think my reaction was so silly i just put on a serious face and said 'thank you', but he then said back to me you dont believe me, do you.anyway.... bottom line is that when the group broke and it was time to go home and we were doign the 'good-bye's' , unlike other times, he didn tlook at my face at all and i didnt look at his and he left on such a serious note ( usually he is soo have a rich imagination but i am grateful at least
