curious

i have a capricorn friend. she is always trying to steal her best friend's bf.

a few years back, she had the chance to date him. he was reluctant so she moved on to another guy. now, her best friend is in a commited relationship with him and every time my cap friend breaks things off with her present guy, she thinks it's ok to try and put the moves on him. trying to steal him away from her best friend so she can date him. and she will do this right in front of us, knowing we do not approve of that kind of behavior.

if you confront her about it she shuts down and hides. she tries to give the excuse that they are just doing things as friends. she will literally tell me that she hasn't done anything wrong. but physically putting your hands on another girl's man is more than just doing things as friends and is completely wrong, imo. when he tells her to knock it off, she gets angry and hides some more. then, she will go and find the guy she just broke it off with and start dating him as if nothing ever happened. this has happened quite a few times in the past few years.

i was wondering why she is doing this?? i'm not understanding why she would obviously have no respect for her best friend and her best friend's man?? and how could i possibly confront this with her so she won't shut down and hide?

i'm not really sure. i will find out and get back to you tonight.

Posted by ArianMilWife

Posted by misslissa


a few years back, she had the chance to date him. he was reluctant so she moved on to another guy. now, her best friend is in a commited relationship with him

when he tells her to knock it off, she gets angry and hides some more. then, she will go and find the guy she just broke it off with and start dating him as if nothing ever happened. this has happened quite a few times in the past few years.

i was wondering why she is doing this?? i'm not understanding why she would obviously have no respect for her best friend and her best friend's man?? and how could i possibly confront this with her so she won't shut down and hide?

Ok this is just my take on what you posted: Friend likes guy, guy does not like girl, best friend starting dating guy, all friends think she is wrong and should be happy for them.

She pissed at her "best friend" for being with this guy. Her way of showing it is this "behavior" that pops out when she single again; and she is possibly thinking 'why this friend is dating a guy she knew she was interested in", in my opinion by what is posted.

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i wish this were true and have thought about this also, but her and her best friend didn't even know each other until AFTER her best friend was already in a committed relationship with him. then, they met and became best friends.

here is her full chart:

Sun 5 Capricorn 47
Moon 29 Sagittarius 08
Mercury 24 Capricorn 53
Venus 6 Aquarius 22
Mars 6 Sagittarius 32
Jupiter 5 Cancer 52
Saturn 15 Capricorn 01
Uranus 5 Capricorn 29
Neptune 11 Capricorn 47
Pluto 16 Scorpio 58
Chiron 15 Cancer 13
Node 18 Aquarius 42
Ascendan 8 Capricorn 51
Midheaven 5 Scorpio 23

thank you, ArianMilWife. 🙂

this does shed a tiny light on things. i always have problems reading charts lol.

i look forward to what other's have to say.

Capricorns are self-indulgent creatures. They see nothing wrong with their behavior, because they do it in the name of fun and a good time. They are only cautious when it concerns the matter of THEIR heart, and if you are the object of their affection, and you can break through that exterior, then they will give in slowly but surely. Not saying that all cappies are like this. She needs a reality check. What is with cappies and bad manners— Yet they will put others on a pedal stool—? Hypocrites!!!!

blatant -in- your -face -around -others is one thing, but creepin with it is another. Lots of people "creep". Caps are not normally like this unless taking advice from another or seeing something work and experimenting with it. Your friend must be going through some pretty intriguing thought processi. I would sit back, relax, observe and take notes.


CAP A.I. uninitiating..........

no offense, SuperCap, but why would i want to take notes on someone trying to steal someone else's man? just curious?

Posted by misslissa
here is her full chart:

Sun 5 Capricorn 47
Moon 29 Sagittarius 08
Mercury 24 Capricorn 53
Venus 6 Aquarius 22
Mars 6 Sagittarius 32
Jupiter 5 Cancer 52
Saturn 15 Capricorn 01
Uranus 5 Capricorn 29
Neptune 11 Capricorn 47
Pluto 16 Scorpio 58
Chiron 15 Cancer 13
Node 18 Aquarius 42
Ascendan 8 Capricorn 51
Midheaven 5 Scorpio 23

I think this person might have a had a sheltered life in her early years. All those Capricorn planets are sextile with the Pluto in Scorpio. Moon is in Sagittarius, but it's on the cusp with Capricorn too. With so many conjunctions and sextiles concentrated in Capricorn which is ruled by Saturn (restriction) and Scorpio ruled by Pluto (Control). I can only think she had a blocked childhood, and might of missed out on some things others would take for granted. I doubt she shows her real self to anybody.

She has a Jupiter in cancer which opposes the Capricorn planets, which can be the reason for her neediness. I think it will fall in the 7th house (marriage or the partner). It's the way she will seek opportunity (Jupiter), but in an indirect way (opposition).

Her Venus (Love) is in Aquarius which squares Pluto in Scorpio. I don't know how to interpret the signs, but a Venus square Pluto has a lot of issues with control jealousy and and dominance in love. She is probably very attractive, but it will be very hard for this woman to be happy. The only escape from her confines seems to be Venus and Mars, but it's not well aspected with anything. It's really an unfortunate chart...

"I think this person might have a had a sheltered life in her early years."

this is true. her mother is VERY over-sheltering and VERY over-protecting, even still at her age.

"I doubt she shows her real self to anybody."

she doesn't. not even to her mother. i've always had the impression that she's trying to hide something. just could never figure out what it was. now thinking back, i can see this as being true too.

"has a lot of issues with control jealousy and and dominance in love"

this, i'm finding out to be true via her bf. he's always telling us, but we never see it. it frustrates him constantly that we don't see it. she hides this VERY well. we didn't start seeing it until she was messing around with her best friend's bf.

thank you, CuspOfImagination! this has shed some more light on the situation. i will look up the aspects you have mentioned. i tried to do that before, but when i look up her chart, it doesn't give me ALL the aspects. only one or two of them. *sigh* i haven't learned all of the math, when it comes to aspests, yet.

i'm still curious, tho, to hear some opinions from other cap's. 🙂