deciphering the capricorn man(moon in Sagittarius)

my first post!

i am seeing my capricorn bf for close to 2 months. we are both 28, i am a virgo with Moon in Libra.
in a nutshell,
we got together after 2 weeks of courtship. he was very proactive, lotsa texting even when he was busy.
After we got together, he texted a lot lesser. i understand he was busy so tried to be understanding and gave him space to do his work. (We "got together" with him taking the force-holding my hand, no verbal affirmation until i asked him directly what our status was few days later).
his work is very demanding and he tries to make time to meet up with me 2 - 3 times a week which i am happy for.
When we are together, he is loving. Generally, he is witty and very straightforward (i can manage that). He is very hard to read, cannot really feel if he is serious in being with me or just taking me for a ride. He is rather uptight and very self conscious.
i spoke up about the reduced affection after we got together he tells me not to think so much and if there was an issue he would let me know. ( i used to date cancer and libra who were die hard romantics hence this was quite different).
he asked for sex a few times earlier but i refused because i felt it was too fast and last night i gave in.
being the worrier as i naturally am, i am thinking if he would go into his disappearing mode (like what many ppl have mentioned before) after having sex w me.
As of today he texted me a line saying he is busy w work (as usual). He has never said he "loves" me to me before (convincing myself its not the words but the actions that matter)

How can i better this relationship?
What should i do and did i have sex w him too early?

Thanks in advance for reading and advices! Really appreciate it.

the worried virgo 🙂

I don't think you had sex too early, if you've been seeing him 2-3 times a week for two months. So stop worrying about that.

As far as the "love" word? At two months? Hahahahahahaha!!!

Sorry, not trying to be rude, but it's usually the 3 month period that is the make or break time frame. He is still getting to know you. He needs time to decide if you have the qualities that fit with his requirements. He needs time to observe you in various situations so he can witness the time of character traits you have.

He IS NOT going to toss the love word around carelessly. He is going to take his time. For me, it took 9-10 months before I said it (five to even start asking myself if I did). Now, his venus might allow him a faster time frame or a slower time frame.

Don't rush this. Slow down. Two months is NOTHING.

Caps and virgos make a good pair with lots of chemistry, so relax. Just enjoy getting to know him. He's making time for you and that says he really likes you.

hi truecap, tks for ur response and reassurance. really appreciate it!

Posted by truecap
I don't think you had sex too early, if you've been seeing him 2-3 times a week for two months. So stop worrying about that.

As far as the "love" word? At two months? Hahahahahahaha!!!

Sorry, not trying to be rude, but it's usually the 3 month period that is the make or break time frame. He is still getting to know you. He needs time to decide if you have the qualities that fit with his requirements. He needs time to observe you in various situations so he can witness the time of character traits you have.

He IS NOT going to toss the love word around carelessly. He is going to take his time. For me, it took 9-10 months before I said it (five to even start asking myself if I did). Now, his venus might allow him a faster time frame or a slower time frame.

Don't rush this. Slow down. Two months is NOTHING.

Caps and virgos make a good pair with lots of chemistry, so relax. Just enjoy getting to know him. He's making time for you and that says he really likes you.

+1

gonna remind myself to be patient 😉
any idea if a Sagittarius moon suggest anything?

Yes two months is too soon.

My Cancerian ex said it after 2or3 months and I didnt reciprocate til month 5 or 6 meaning us earth signs take things slow. Just like you are worried about your relationship status he is just as worried about whether or not you 2 for together..

If you two have been getting along swimmingly and he still makes time for you then things are good girlfriend. Caps are like teapots who are slowly waiting to boil over with emotion. You cant just expect a Cap to be like bam I love you no..

My advice is slow down on your love journey and enjoy the sights so that you too can do your Virgoan analysis of his Cap persona and you too can be sure that this is either something you want or not.

Sadge moon is just gunna make his Capricorn decisions more impulsive whereas another element would sit tight and contemplate a business deal this fire moon will be already well-read about it and be able to make a decision on the spot alot easier than say a water or earth moon.

Perhaps he likes to network? Has many a different a friend from eclectic friends to straigth laced folks to someone in a motorcycle gang. Just different in general and a friend for every occassion. Fire moon will make him a bit more happy go lucky but it can also bring his earthyness to thw surface on a moment's notice. So say he is always serious well he can go from happy to suddenly serious and back again

ok I get it 🙂 thanks fr the advices! wat are the capricorn assessing? from ur experiences, how will they change, if u hv passed their assessment? thanks !!