Posted by LadyCalamityPosted by KsamCancer
Id like to hear his perspective of things, if he was being unresponsive this is usually a sign of a disagreement that wasnt fully solved in the past. I didnt read every post on here, but Ive never met a cancer moody towards his partner for no reason. Not saying you were wrong, but usually people post their faults in the relationship too.
Well he would just tell me, "That's just the way I am, I can't change overnight."
I have no idea what he would say if someone else were to ask him about the relationship. It wasn't really that he was moody towards me per say, it was just a moodiness in general. Just whenever he was in the mood to be moody, lol.click to expand
Posted by mysteriousTaurus
but he chose to walk out of your life because you pushed him away... my guy did this to me too, and i obv walked away. why would i stay if hes treating me unkindly? not a taurus thing to stay, if you want space we'll give it to you because we can handle going periods of time without talking to you because we have the most patience out of the all the signs.
Posted by PEITHO
Yes they lie one told me his heart was with another woman yet he still wanted to sleep with me.
Posted by Sugarfoot
In agreement with aesmadaeva and jeane here. It sounds like this man really loves you and he's been honest with you about his feelings along the way. He's been hanging in there and trying to make things work for quite a while but he's lost his motivation. Cancers have a way of really getting a hold on Libra in a way that's not easy to shake at all. I'd say, he probably still has feelings for you but he's made up his mind that you guys can't survive in the long term so he wants to end it. Libras will eventually choose what the mind tells them to do over the heart. You should start to accept the fact that you guys may never get back together.
I'm thinking the only chance you have at reconciling at this point would be through friendship. Respect his wishes and stop pushing for your relationship. Tell him everything you've said here. Explain why you kept acting the way you did towards him. Tell him you will take that time to work on yourself so you can be better in your next relationship. Then actually do that. Stay friends with him though. Stay in contact. Love him enough to set him free and want what's best for him even if it's not you. I know that sounds counter-intuitive to a cancer but that's how air signs work. He needs to feel freedom right now. And, whatever you do, don't bring anymore drama because he'll end up cutting you off and never looking back.
When/If he goes overseas, be that person he wants to talk to about everything that's happening there. Be positive and encouraging. Forget about the pretty women he might meet. If he's the typical Libra male, you have a greater hold on him than any of them ever could at this stage. Good luck.