Do capricorn men have split personality?

Hi, I was in touch with this cap guy for 2 months or so. we really got along and basically we met thru a matrimonial website. so we were discussing about marriage n all. He came to my place and the marriage was fixed. and we both were very excited and happy about it. He went back abroad and everything was fine for 10-15 days. But suddenly one day he said he thinks the feeling is missing between the two of us. i mean i was like this is an arranged marriage and everything is done by you, how can u suddenly say dat. Just as background he is extremely scared of marriage. he had a past relationship which was veryy bad. But i was shocked by his statement and very hurt. and since then he is telling me if u want we wil get married but thr wil be no feelings and love etc etc. first of all how can sumone change so abruptly? Is he getting influenced by sumone..say his friends or so? Are capricorns weird? i dunno wut went wrong suddenly...thr is no one else dats for sure. But he is behaving like a totally different person these days..please help is anyone can !!!

Welcome to cap`s world! Just forget to contact him and you`l hear another song soon 🙂

thanks for the reply Asha, but i feel very restless if i dunno the reason for sumthing. i really feel like giving him my piece of mind...such a loser if he is scared and trying to escape !!!

I was there recently. All kicked off ok then came strange behaviour, mixed signals, not sure what he wanted, nervousness... At one point he crossed boundaries and I left and came here to cry, people gave me good advice. I really decided not to contact him ever again. After 2 weeks he called, we met and he made statements I hadn`t heard from a man before. He explained his feelings overtook his mind and he needed time to catch up, which he couldn`t do while I was there and available; he needed to miss me to be able to see things clearly. He declared he was ready now.

So far so good but I still have concerns for the future.

thats what im thinking, even if he comes back...can i actually tolerate this kind of nature for a lifetime !!! but as a girl i want him to come back and then i want to decide wut to do..im completely clueless rite now !!

All you can do now is wait and see (dont call!). People told me this and they were so right: go out, see other men and don`t think it is you cos it is really him, not you. You are worthwile, dont take his behaviour personally. It is just those people are like that so its almost a take it or leave it situation.

thanx Satrio...but why do we always have to go thru sum mistake to learn sumthing??

Hey Arianna...it was not a overnight thing, it was a very thoughful decision frm both the sides...and everything was going on well, i dunno suddenly he started about feelings r missing and wutever, neway im jst letting him be..maybe dats the best thing to do rite nw..