DO CAPRICORN WOMEN HAVE THE WORST LUCK WITH MEN?

This is something I have been wondering for a while. I've read many places that Capricorn women have the worst luck with men because we simply will not settle for Mess and in our quest to get that mate we so desire-we end up giving our hearts to the "Wrong" kind of men. Does anyone else agree with this? Anyone care to share their input on this?

Yes ... I must say that I agree ... we seem to have the WORSE luck when it comes to matters of the heart ..

OMG, YES!!!! I seem to have the worst luck with men. But it's not that simple why, there's more to it, and like sj said, it's complicated.

What do u mean the worst luck? Sure we get bad eggs once in awhile but i wont chalk that up to being a cap w worst luck w men lol.generally, im alrite w men.in fact,i have exs wanting me bck,keeping in touch w me..or not wanting to coz apparently i hurt them too much...


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Bt i daresay it cn happen to anybody

Worst Luck meaning we make bad choices in choosing men, often we give of ourselves unconditionally but we don't get that same love and admiration back. We shouldn't have been with some of the people from the start yet we do hoping that things are going to be different. I have read that we have several failed relationships until we find that one Good Guy/Relationships. Just because your ex's want to get back with you and call you doesn;t mean that constitutes you being or having good luck. All that says is that they may still relish your comfort or intimacy. Possibly this question is geared for those a bit more older than 21. I'm not discrediting you at all, I'm just speaking from a matured perspective.

Though we dont knw if a guys gonna change along the way,i still dont think its anytg to do w bad luck.if a relationship went bad,its nt meant to be,so brood a little n move on.


..Im nt sure if it applies to evry cap bt since we r on d subject,i seem to have it lucky w guys- going out almost always means anuther guys number on my cell (coz i prefer it dat way),flirting sumhow comes naturally,every where i turn,sum cutie is always there

Any1 feeling me on dis?

Thankfuly,dis lil cap's hapy w her cancer😄

May have gone a bit 0ut of there,but..

Bad rlationships w the men we thought are the 1,dont just constitute to "luck".as a cap,id need more concrete reason than dat.
& why focus on "luck"?why nt "fate"?You may nt undrstand bt things hapen 4a reason.prhaps ud be better off w.out a particular guy hence wat u call "bad luck" struck.

If thats d case,then id say Taurus&scorpio frens of mine r havg worst case of bad luck in d man dpartment compared to my cap frens

Point is,it doesnt jus apply to us,if it does

Hey cappy hun! Thats 1 theory bt frm my undrstanding, being cautious works better w men who r actually interestd in us,seeing it being a challenge,breakg walls n watnot.most bad guys lack in effort lol lusting over hearts dsires works w both bad n good men! Lol

Exactly,nt gving the heart. I told my man,it takes time 4me to gve my heart,mind,body n soul,the last being either heart or soul lol.
Dpends on how much i care for the guy,it takes time. Drives my man crazy,me bein cautious,nt trusting him just yet w my heart lol.


That rite cappy?

trust gained right away is not a trust worth gaining, working for that trust is what brings a person closer to another.

Oh so true dvil🙂

Diora, i just noticed, your avatar has Kermit in it. haa haa
(i wonder if you know about the Kermit legends of dxp😛)

Posted by noirecapricornprincess
This is something I have been wondering for a while. I've read many places that Capricorn women have the worst luck with men because we simply will not settle for Mess and in our quest to get that mate we so desire-we end up giving our hearts to the "Wrong" kind of men. Does anyone else agree with this? Anyone care to share their input on this?

Hmmm. A cappy friend of mine seems to have the worst luck in men. I never thought about it being a Cappy thing though. I think the best relationships begin with friendship.

"settle for Mess"..i wouldve thought wrong guys 4 me r "mess" n wouldnt b w them anyway..and i wouldnt put my heart out until i m sure he's good for me etc n dat cn take a long time. moreover,i "react" more than i "act",thinkg a bit further wt consequences my reactions would bring..dat rational,logicl,practical ting going on...so cautionwise,has helped me so far

Dont give up hope fellow cappies! U write ur own stories..nt luck entirely.
Lol dvil! ?_ saw it bt havent read yet.had it for awhile now thou lol

Posted by ~devil's_the_name~
trust gained right away is not a trust worth gaining, working for that trust is what brings a person closer to another.

....... well .... okay Devil has a point lol

Posted by cappygolightly

Posted by ~devil's_the_name~
Diora, i just noticed, your avatar has Kermit in it. haa haa
(i wonder if you know about the Kermit legends of dxp😛)

almost chokes on reading this!!

click to expand

*falls out of seat*

Posted by cappygolightly
hmm ive never been able to work out that friendship stage yet. They either begin with passion or not at all....

It can be tough. There is definately a fine line between friendship and dating. For me, I like to get to know the person before moving on to the next phase. Sometimes it doesn't get there and sometimes it does. Either way I made a new friend 🙂

That is why I tend to date air signs. After my failled attempt with the earth sign girl I have found a Gemini. Well more like she found me. No more details.

Happy may long weekend everyone! 🙂

Not sure if being a Capricorn is the reason, but the ones i really really really like, don't seem to like me back. While the ones who really really really like me, i don't like as much as they do me (or i just see them as a friend.) What is up with that madness!! My first guy i ever cared about (didn't know his sign but really really think he was either a Virgo or Capricorn) told me he "met someone else". Other guys i dated or talked to afterward, i ALWAAAYS had doubts about them, in my mind and in my gut. But now there is this one guy i met about 3 years ago, (a Taurus...astrology is so crazy) who i am soooo attracted to from just brief convos and online exchanges, and EVERYONE sensed the same about him towards me. But then he neverrrr asked for my number until i bumped into him a year after we met. And even still, he called me like one time throughout the following year. i was like damn...does he like me or not?? Even the whole of last year, every once in a while he would send me flirtatious messages, but no moves!

i'm thinking it's because we live in different states. But i am still stuck on him. With this guy i had no "hmmm..." moments, and we have the very similar passions. But i understand if it's not meant to be, it's not meant to be (i just want him to tell me to my face so i can clear the doubts!!! LOL) So i tried to give a chance with a guy who tried to holler at me for years, hoping love would grow...but it never did, and i really hurt him when i broke up. So yeah, not so great luck.


Aside from that......i'm just strange *shrug*. Yep, i'll probably be that one old woman with cats everywhere. LOL.

I think the older cap women get, the better luck they have with men.

truecap I wanna believe that we do have better luck. I've read we start to come into our own then

I think it has to do with confidence.

Maybe its not a sign thing just a people thing lol. I'm an aqua who has had some really bad luck with men...I have this falling in love with my friend fantasy...but the men I fall for either bolt or ride the fence...actually what usually happens is they bolt I give them the finger and 6mo to a year later they call me saying they made a mistake...oh how fickle romance can be lol

But the older we get, the less time we give them to ride the fence and if they bolt, well, we think "to hell with 'em". lol

Posted by truecap
But the older we get, the less time we give them to ride the fence and if they bolt, well, we think "to hell with 'em". lol

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