Ex-Cappie has been really flirty with me lately and the Scorp in me is wondering should I give in. It'll probably lead to nowhere, but right now I'm bored, so I'm asking: Do you Caps respond positively to sexual assertion or would you rather be in control?
Do Caps Like Being Seduced?
Posted by xxoommmxxooPosted by fighterjet207
Ex-Cappie has been really flirty with me lately and the Scorp in me is wondering should I give in. It'll probably lead to nowhere, but right now I'm bored, so I'm asking: Do you Caps respond positively to sexual assertion or would you rather be in control?
yes be assertive because if you dont i wont, i will just lust after you from afar for a long time. But i def will not screw someone who thinks it will lead to nowhere because that is a waste of time.click to expand
Well, I don't because hooking up with an ex hardly ever works, but for some reason he's come back around. And I'm just in the mood to take what I want.

Can only speak for myself but yes I like being seduced. But I would never go back to an ex though 🙂
They like being seduced big time

I love to be seduced just as well as being the seducer. If I lead, my mode is on autopilot. If I am provoked the mode is on overdrive and someone will pay for their curiosity. Seduction shows massive amounts of confidence, which is a turn on for me. If you seduce me the proper way, I will attack! If you do it the wrong way, I will put you to the test... Either way your gonna get it...
Caps usually sit back and let others lead, but if you cannot handle the task, we will take over the control to get the job done right. I have noticed this pattern in different situations.
Caps usually sit back and let others lead, but if you cannot handle the task, we will take over the control to get the job done right. I have noticed this pattern in different situations.
Posted by SureShotCap
I love to be seduced just as well as being the seducer. If I lead, my mode is on autopilot. If I am provoked the mode is on overdrive and someone will pay for their curiosity. Seduction shows massive amounts of confidence, which is a turn on for me. If you seduce me the proper way, I will attack! If you do it the wrong way, I will put you to the test... Either way your gonna get it...
Caps usually sit back and let others lead, but if you cannot handle the task, we will take over the control to get the job done right. I have noticed this pattern in different situations.
What's the wrong way..?

Posted by SamCancerGirlPosted by SureShotCap
I love to be seduced just as well as being the seducer. If I lead, my mode is on autopilot. If I am provoked the mode is on overdrive and someone will pay for their curiosity. Seduction shows massive amounts of confidence, which is a turn on for me. If you seduce me the proper way, I will attack! If you do it the wrong way, I will put you to the test... Either way your gonna get it...
Caps usually sit back and let others lead, but if you cannot handle the task, we will take over the control to get the job done right. I have noticed this pattern in different situations.
What's the wrong way..?click to expand
Not being yourself(yeah we can tell). Not fitting the personality you present. Trying to seek my approval. It should be as natural as possible to not be detected and raise warning flags... Basically we must BOTH prosper. There should not be a selfish motive unless the feelings are mutual...
Posted by SureShotCapPosted by SamCancerGirlPosted by SureShotCap
I love to be seduced just as well as being the seducer. If I lead, my mode is on autopilot. If I
What's the wrong way..?
Not being yourself(yeah we can tell). Not fitting the personality you present. Trying to seek my approval. It should be as natural as possible to not be detected and raise warning flags... Basically we must BOTH prosper. There should not be a selfish motive unless the feelings are mutual...click to expand
That's good to know! I'm definitely doing it the right way then..!

Bring it on baby!!
(Beware: If it's an ex, then all those old feelings are turned off and I'm with you because it's comfortable, doesn't make me feel slutty because I've been there done that before and it will be only a fling until I find the next guy.)
(Beware: If it's an ex, then all those old feelings are turned off and I'm with you because it's comfortable, doesn't make me feel slutty because I've been there done that before and it will be only a fling until I find the next guy.)

YES, been there, done that! NOT slutty in the least under the circumstances 🙂

I want to add... even if it ends up being a one night stand (with the ex)

I've only gone back to one ex, and it was on again, off again. But, I've cleansed myself and not going back again... one can only take so much, especially when they get so little in return.

As for seduction... I've only had one man really seduce me, the Aries - bring it on, I'm game 😉
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