Does this capricorn male like me??

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ctm
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Ok I got set up on a blind date with a capricorn male, I am not proud of this but things ended itimately after the first date. This honestly (Not that I expect anyone to believe me but you are all strangers so it doesn't matter)has never happened to me before on a first date. This was at the end of december. I have been seeing this capricorn for about a month and a half and have read loads of other posts but I am scared he is going to hurt me. Since the 30th decmeber he has contacted me every day bar two!!! But there have been a few things he has done that have really upset me. He texts to say that he will call and then he does not, I have not responded to this and have waited for him to contact me again and he has. He just seems so unsure this thing did not start out ideally with the sexual side moving way to fast. I beleieve that you struggle to gain respect for eachother if you are intimiate so early on but I really like this guy and want for this to develop. I have held back and not contacted him we had a date last saturday but he got up and left at 8am sunday morning valentines day to go play sports. He did not come back to see me even though he said he would. I am aquarius really like him and confused he has said that he likes me because I am not chasing him but I spend part of my day wondering what he wants. I know alot of you have had capricorn experiences but he gives me glimmers or thos great guy but then I feel like I am being tested. I don't want to be hurt and am finding hard to sit back and wait for him to come to me?? Any advice
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tiki33
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Capricorn and Aquarius (male/female) really don't mesh too well outside of the bedroom. I find we end up tap dancing and tip toeing around Caps ego and instead of showing respect for ourselves we sit on the edge of our seats anxiously waiting to see if he will respect us, waiting to see if he will come back, waiting waiting waiting, Aqua female is a ball of nerves over this, not sure if that makes sense to you. Just because you had sex once you don't have to keep giving him sex, make him work for it, hold out on intimacy sometimes until you see more good boyfriend stuff, don't just assume you have to keep giving it up because of what you did the first time you met him. It's your body and you can control how much of it you want to give.

I feel for women that have these kind of open type relationships, he's not your boyfriend so technically you have no human rights in this relationship, meaning you can't point out every little thing that bothers you without chasing him off and that's were the fear comes in, you start to live in this bubble of fear of losing a man and that can't help your situation on bit.

I suggest you start to speak up, be positive when he comes around, tell him your excited to talk to him, you miss him and then tell him how you feel when he doesn't do something he says he's going to do, you really don't want to build up resentment, tell him you want to trust him, this isn't about if he's your man or not, this about respect and when a man doesn't do what he says he's going to do and non-chalantly blow you off that's a sign that he lacks respect for you. As for him leaving on V-Day well you really can't expect him want to spend a day with you that represents love, if you wanted him to stay Sunday well that's something you had to address beforehand by letting him know V-Day is important to you.

I don't really see a huge problem unless there is more your not sharing with us, if he's in your life, he's coming around, he's contacting you daily, for the most part he's interested and he doesn't seem like he's doing anything to deliberatly want to hurt you.