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Help! Who are most caps most compatable with? I am currently dating a wonderful gemini, but will it last? All my sources tell me that most of the time, caps and gems are so not compatible. I really like this guy a lot, and I don't know if I should prejudge it on the fact that it probably won't work out, no matter how much I want it to. What should I do to help maintain this relationship? Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

I know exactly what you're going thru. I am dating a libra. Go check out that compatability! According to the signs, we are to different to make our relationship go anywhere. but you know what? He is the one person that has gone thru the things I have in relationships, with his family, spiritually, everything. He understands me even when I think he won't. He's sweet and treats me like I'm the most special girl. I have never had a relationship like the one I have with him. When I get upset or hurt with someone, I don't like to share my feelings. He's the same way. When we get mad at someone I don't like to talk until I am a little more calm. He's the same way. The difference I see with him and all the other guys I've dated (compatible or not) is that we talkthings over and not just let it go. He always talks to me and lets me know whats going on. I think he is an incredible person. I just hope that he feels the same about me. And it does scare me, when I read that we're incompatible cuz what if that's true? I really don't want to lose him. So if there is anyone out there that can help us, please do so.

That makes me feel better that there is at least one other person with my dilemma out there! He totally understands me, even though all the signs say he shouldn't! I think it is for the exact same reason as yours, because we do talk things out. Sometimes I am just afraid that he is not going to be able to stand me forever because I am so stingy and, well, I'm a cap that is very goal oriented and I only open up if I am very persuaded to do so. He has no problem with me, but I am still scared that he'll just get sick of my strange ways one day. He doesn't show any signs of ever doing that, but I am so afraid of losing him that I get very paronoid. It doesn't help much that one of my best friends(who just happens to date my boyfriends best friend) has a slight thing for him, even though she won't directly come out and say it. She just hints at it, like how she is afraid to be alone with him for fear she might do something to jepordize our friendship and how much better looking she thinks my boyfriend is compared to hers! I can't stand it sometimes! And her boyfriend is extremely good looking, but I must agree that mine is better, but I didn't want to know she thought so also. Well, I'll stop bothering you with my silly little problems now and let you get back to your life!

hi i am currently with a gemini and i feel exactly the same we have been together 3 years and it seems to be going nowhere,time has stood still.
Anyway the only negative thing i can say is he is a flirt and uses it agaisnt me, indirectly, hey if you want to know anymore we can converse, cos boy do I know what 'some' gemini's are like!!! ps I am 30 and my boyfriend is 34! reply soon from a wise capricorn

hi i am currently with a gemini and i feel exactly the same we have been together 3 years and it seems to be going nowhere,time has stood still.
Anyway the only negative thing i can say is he is a flirt and uses it agaisnt me, indirectly, hey if you want to know anymore we can converse, cos boy do I know what 'some' gemini's are like!!! ps I am 30 and my boyfriend is 34! reply soon from a wise capricorn