Have you ever been torn between two?

Have any of you guys ever been torn between two love interests before? Just wondering how you dealth with it.

Yep but i am still dealing with it today

lol..one would be nice!...

lol mm, from your mo I would guess you would have no problems, maybe you should come visit the west ... I'm in a pickle and I can't say I ever dreamed I would find myself here.

I spent yesterday with a new fella who really wants to date me regularly and I had a wonderful time. It's been 3 1/2 months since I've seen my cappy though we talk everyother night. I'm so tired of him not being here. I was upfront with the new guy and told him I was in a committed relationship and he said "before you make any final committment, please spend sometime to get to know me, you may find that we could have something special together" Oh man, that was a good line and I fell in to find he is here and very sweet and interested in spoiling me.

Now I need to figure out who I might be happier with. Dag Blast It! I know this sounds somewhat humorous, but it's tougher than you may think.

Yes! They were night and day... liked them both very much. I thought I'd eventually leave the other but it didn't go that way hmmmm I couldn't. Was younger and fell into a trap of my own doing. In the end I got caught. Well it wasn't exclusive with one of them but we spent a lot of time together (so happens to be my bf now lol)

I can't remember how I felt, it was a long time ago and it's a bad position to be in after a while. Sucks.

Lol @ stardance..aww...oh well you only live once, have as many as you want!..

Well, my cappydear is coming to visit this weekend because I've told him I have serious doubts about where our future is headed....I've made the decision, but want to wait until I see the whites of his eyes before I tell him it's time to jump ship. Really I was crushed that he blew his trip off so easily in May and now came right away when he knew he was in trouble with me. I don't want a demanding relationship where I have to demand certain things, I want one where things come naturally, or it just doesn't work for me. The fact is he should have been looking forward to seeing me and making it happen not giving me a lame excuse that he won't be able to make it.

The new fella in my life is making all the right moves, no misteps yet. I've been pretty quietly observing how he deals with things.....But mostly he gives of himself easily in very thoughful ways. I so appreciate that. He knows he will need to stand the test of time before I'll be comfortable being intimate, probably longer than cappy dear and because of cappy dear. He feels he's up for it too, since he ended a relationship not too long ago either.

So it looks like cappy will get a kiss on the cheek and a heartfelt thanks for all the lovely times together, he really is a swell guy, just too far away and a little too slow to commit for me. No more 12 hour shifts tossing under sheets and gloriously great kisses, no more stomach hurting laughs either, but not so long in between either.

Gals across the country celebrate, a real gem of a guy will be available again to sweep you off your feet and break ur heart mercilessly. I truly hope he finds real happiness and doesn't hold back.

Thank you all for all the great support and feedback over the last few months with my cappy goose, I'll be hangin.

Whats your new love interests star sign?

I dunno yet...haven ask 'im yet...

Hahahah..lets hope it aint another cap!

LOL....please save me not from the abyss itself, but from another cappy, sufrage can only last so long!

But really....I'm guessing by the ability he has for expressing his feelings for me...that no he probably isn't. OMG....he does have some similar cappy traits...I'm a little nervous now...but well, I guess I'll be in familiar ground anyways IF he is that is...LOL