How deep is his love??

Ok, this is so fun, i haven't written here for a long time, so i'm excited to get some new responses.
Well I have a friend, Leanna, and one day I aksed her if she could tell her bf to find me someone to go to her bf's school dance(they go to different schools). So she introduced me to him, and I got his screen name, and his cell phone #, and all seemed just nice. While I send him on mission to ask his best friend is he wants to go, I get to know more about Mike from Leanna. Like they have been together for a while, and they used to go out when they were in junior high, and that they are now together again, happier then ever, and they both love eachother very much, they have hit the sack before and all is just perfect. So they seem happy. they have a history together, which does help make a bond.
So one day I bump into him, cuz i was on my way to take the bus, and he says that he would accompany me to where I wanted to go, and I say sure. So pretty soon we go, and he ivites me in his house and I meet his parents, he just had to stop and get something really fast. And then we walk together and talk about light stuff, my life story in a nutshell, his also, and when we com back, he tells me he has a pool, and some awsome stuff, and i want to see them. So i go in his house and I see the pool and it loooks so nice, and well we just talk and we seem to be getting along a bit too well. He invites me to come over sometime and swim if I'd like, so I Thank him and leave. Now I have a feeling that if I would go over his home and go swimming that stuff would start to happen, like we start to like eachother more, and things like that.
Now I don't know what is going to happen, but I have a feeling I would have a pretty good chance of tuurning his affections in a 180 degrees rotation. So I would get this almost perfect for me guy, that' i've been looking for, but then I would feel bad for her, and I just don't want to be in the middle, i don't know, i think I'll try to saty away. Any advice? I just don't want this to turn into a jerry springer show.

Hi Xposed,

My advice to you is very simple but regardless of what I write or anyone else, it is ultimately up to you to take the path you need.

If you have any DOUBT, this means don't do it. If your feelings are absence of this doubt and is peaceful...then I believe you are on the right path.

Trust your instincts....

Best wishes, and please keep us posted.

With the above in mind..
This brings up consideration factors from all over:
1)Possible loss of female friend.
2)A new wandering boyfriend. (not a good catch)
His overtures may really be completely innocent, but from where you are, (if it were me) I'd make that extra emotional and physical distance from the guy. It really is your call. Do you want a boyfriend or a steadfast female friend?

We're no that good of friends, and she drinks a lot so i don't like that, but she's nice, and she would never suspect her bf of ever cheating cuz she loves him so much and he says he does too. So it's kinda blind, they have a potential, but i don't know. I mean I just want to show him that I respect them enough and not try to steal him away, like on the surface. If he likes me it's gonna be on his inside, and the inside is always stronger then the outside. Nothing from the outside is as strong as something created by the mind, and feelings. So I could be just acting aloof and he'll just see what he wants. So I have a doubt, but there is awlways a doubt no matter what, like when u go bungy jumping, but u do it, any risk u take, sometimes it's better to face the fear, and take the risk. So yeah, I won't cheat with him, like start kissing and stuff, and if he'll do it i'll push him away, that should only make him more interested, and make him think twice about his realtionship with her, he'll be that one to feel guilty, cuz i didn't iniate it and i pushed him away. So there is a way of handling everything. I'm just confident, i can do what ever i want, but i have to play it so that no matter ho wthing scould turn out i will win. That's how u have to handle every battle, know that ur gonna win, or elese why be in it. Every winner thnks like that. So I'm going to build walls to protect me in every situation. Haha, i tend to make a project of everything, especially if it's omething i really want. so I know it would be safe to leave it alone, but i'm not sure i want to play it safe.

Thabk u all for the advice so far. I don't want to break them apart, so maybe i shouldn't, but i'll never know.
I just wish i could be with him, that's all. Or I can just be his friend, me gueses.

Oh man, look what you've done now. You've gone and gotten my opinions aroused. (Tough chore, aye? *chuckle*)

My opinions on this subject are founded from experience in being a bad person, and what I've learned are that peoples' feelings and thoughts change with ease. It might be remarkable, but what I'd much rather remark about are the rocks who hold fast to their ideals by not changing feelings so quickly. I say that you abandon all thoughts as to how perfect this guy might be, unless you're just trying to veil the fact that you want him physically and don't mind things only lasting temporarily. Don't play with fire, though, as you'll get burnt, and trust me, you're not the fire here. Ultimately, though, the call is yours, as has been said above, but what I say is that if this guy is so perfect and would make so much stabler a relationship of yours, then why does he give off vibes of changing (especially into his birthday suit) so soon upon meeting you? But, I'm paranoid. I'm a Capricorn. I have a habit for seeing the potential disastrous end results first, and believing that the vast majority of things-- especially hasty moves at love-- end that way. I say look for other guys, there are tens of millions out there in your "dating bracket" and all you've got to do is put on any classic rock CD and sing away the blues until you get the one you think you want to hang out with forever or just get tired of looking. Life's a **** sandwich, but watch out or this one will bite you.

Now, on to the goods, and there are goods. Life is a coin and for every bad side there's a good. Things will work out in the end, and I can promise you it won't be how you want or expect right now. It'll just happen. So, just sit back and chill, and (key word here, pause and take notice) WATCH it happen. I hope I made at least some sense here, wasn't all negative and uppity, and that you disregard what you disagree with and do what you want, because that's what I'd do. I'm always pushy and uppity.