How do Cappies move on after a scorp?

Cappie girl, scorp guy. He has been hanging on from a distance for about 8 years. Obviously interested, definitely sexually attracted, somewhat nervous about getting to close. How do I just say enough and walk away? Thoughts?

I wish I knew. I myself am a Cap girl trying to resist this one cute scorpio temptation, but they're so damn irresistable, aren't they?
All I know is from my situation, the more I walk away, the more he wants to follow. The more I say NO, the stronger he persuades. The more I try to stay cool and assert my power, the more turned on he gets, which consequently turns me on, and then...
oh it's hopeless. Good luck in your situation. As you can see, I'm having just as much difficulty in mine. I hope someone can provide you with a little better advice.

Thank you for that. It is a very helpful answer. Guess it's just one of those things that require strength to walk away or total giving in to their ways... Being a Cappie, I will probably find the strength. But being a Cappy, I will worry about it too... Thanks again.

I too am a cap girl who was involved with a scorpio guy. My relationship is over but well there were extreme circumstances and it finished not because it was over between us if you know what I mean (cirmstances made it over) (read can scorpio forgive for insight). I have decided to make contact with this guy as I too cant walk away - at times he seems to be in my every thought! My only advice is if you want to be with him then tell him but be prepared for the good and bad. But after 8 years of being together/apart etc it still isnt working then maybe for your own good its time to call it a day and look elsewhere for someone who is going to be able to fill your needs emotionally etc. One thing though have you ever sat down and talked and I mean talked. Have you told him how you feel, what you want for the future etc etc. Maybe as he is a scorpio he is afraid to open up and say what he feels in case you reject him. Before throwing in the towel do this and then if things still arent right the guilt and did I do right scenario will not haunt you as you will have given your all. Good luck to you both!

Yes, 65.94.71.227, they do move on. Eventually and with a lot of struggle! They feel so deeply when in a committed relationship that it takes time for the signals to work through and even then they still try to make it work. Mine stayed in his marriage for 7yrs, and he finally had had enough of no love, no trust, no respect, no sex, rejection, etc...He loved her dearly, but could not take their painful relationship anymore. So yes darlin', they do move on ~ when they've given it their all & then it's time to pack their bags and move on. Much luck to you in finding your time & your path ~

~MP & BB~
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Thank you for that. I agree that moving only comes after time and working things out. Acceptance, I guess. But I also think that once moved on, there is no turning back for the Cap. The doors slam shut.

Girl Run.........I dated a scorp and once the ball is in his court he will toy with you. Mine went from calling me all the time to dumping on a whim. They are not to be trusted either.This one could not be excusive. He was getting busy all over town. Danvers,Ma. that is

Cappy girl - the only way to get the scorpio guy "out of your system" is to get a new guy "into your system" as soon as dam possible:-) As they say, the only way to get over a man is to get under a new one a.s.a.p.!! I am jesting to the extreme here - but there's certainly a grain of truth in what I say.....scorpios have an almost magnetic animal sexual magnetism about them......so perhaps you will never walk away.....perhaps he's meant to be on the fringes of your life for good....who knows— What would be so wrong with that either—? Your a beautiful Cappy girl (all caps are very good looking - I know from experince) - of course he's gonna be attrcted to you - once touched by a cap....always will be - you have touched his core being and he yours.....so keep touching every so often, if you can live with that....if not....just savour those happy memories and moments and try as best to move on as you can.
Ciao Ax

... Besides, scoprios are not the 'best' lovers either, as they seem to think. They do have stamina, of sorts, but they are not creative in bed, or in everyday matters. They are creatures of habit. So you may want to get yourself some exciting fella instead, like a fun loving gemini for a while, or an intellectually sexy sagittarius, or maybe a very passionate, down to earth taurus, but do not even attempt to leave the latter, let him do the leaving, and you are safe.

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