How do caps act when they realize they're in love?

How would a cap act when he realizes he's in love and has strong feelings for a woman?DO they get shy?and not tell the person that they're in love?are they afraid to feel love?Do the distance themselves or open up and tell the person they're true feeings and get close to them.Any girls here dealt with cap that's in love?what do they do?

if they're anything like me, and im a cap female, they'll balk and try to run in the opposite direction.

Love SUCKS!!!

and i am one big sucker.

i had a cap that liked me once... he was the sweetest guy ever. for me it's a bit like the scorp and cap relationship ignition... very slow to start if at all. but this guy was like a knight in shining armor and i got the feeling that his feelings were pretty intense. so intense i was clueless as to what to do.

reactions to love can be eerily similar to fear. people will either run away or plunge in head on.

Posted by CreepyPants
if they're anything like me, and im a cap female, they'll balk and try to run in the opposite direction.

Love SUCKS!!!

and i am one big sucker.

i had a cap that liked me once... he was the sweetest guy ever. for me it's a bit like the scorp and cap relationship ignition... very slow to start if at all. but this guy was like a knight in shining armor and i got the feeling that his feelings were pretty intense. so intense i was clueless as to what to do.

reactions to love can be eerily similar to fear. people will either run away or plunge in head on.

I know what you mean!So you distanced yourself?and how did you want him to act towards you at that time?Did you wat him to slow down too?or continue showing his intense feelings?

Posted by SirB
This thread should answer some inquiries you have: https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/capricorn/do-you-fall-in-love-easily-caps-3564661/

Well for me, when im sure and already have been vulnerable to the other ie, open up myself to the other, i get tunnel vision and go all out. My thoughts are always about her. In my 20s i used to distance myself and become stoic when a girl liked me. It was a natural defense mechanism as in my 20s i wasn't sure of myself. Now, i feel a bit more evolved and I know what I want. Most Caps will somewhat distance themselves to get a better understanding rather to level out their raging, hidden emotions inside; almost like trying to let the dust settle to get a better, clearer logical picture. But sometimes, i feel the heart should do most of the thinking when it comes to love matters. I truely believe only the heart can make sound decisions on love.

I understand.But when you did dstance yourself,what did you want the girl to do at that time?Also distance herself?or keep showing her feelings and love to you?

They can be the sweetest man you've ever met. They are open with their feelings and they never tell you no..lol Ive even seen tears shedded...Get one to fall in love with you and it seems all your problems are over..lol

*smh*

FIRST, a cap has to get to know you. The real you, not the surface you. The everyday you. We need to know the following:

How you treat strangers.
How you treat the waiter.
How you treat your family.
How you get along with my family.
Do you manage money well?
Are you going to freely spend all the money I work so hard to make?
Are you going to embarrass us in public?
Do you have common sense?
How you handle yourself emotionally.
How you act when your pissed.
How you respond to my distance. Can you handle it?
When I'm cold, how are you going to respond?
What kind of parent are you going to be?
will you understand when I'm working late?
Do you have a good reputation?
Are you respected by your community?

And soooo many more! It takes a while to get to know someone that well. We will make sure we are 100% sure about you.

After that, we will treat you like you've never been treated before. With lots of contact and love and understanding and spoiling. We will spend our hard earned money on you. You will have NO DOUBT we love you.

You asked the same question more than once:

If I distance from you, leave me alone. There's a REASON I'm distancing from you. When I'm done analyzing/breathing/thinking/etc, if I'm ready to make contact with you, I will initiate it. Sometimes I distance because I'm no longer interested. Just being brutally honest.

(of course that's coming from my Cap moon and mercury).

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Posted by CreepyPants
if they're anything like me, and im a cap female, they'll balk and try to run in the opposite direction.

Love SUCKS!!!

and i am one big sucker.

i had a cap that liked me once... he was the sweetest guy ever. for me it's a bit like the scorp and cap relationship ignition... very slow to start if at all. but this guy was like a knight in shining armor and i got the feeling that his feelings were pretty intense. so intense i was clueless as to what to do.

reactions to love can be eerily similar to fear. people will either run away or plunge in head on.

I know what you mean!So you distanced yourself?and how did you want him to act towards you at that time?Did you wat him to slow down too?or continue showing his intense feelings?

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yea i buckled under the fear. i wanted him to see and understand that i was scared. i was younger and the circumstances werent ideal. we were both almost done with school. he seemed to know what he wanted and i didnt.

truthfully, when I realize I've fallen I tend to freeze on the surface yet I'm volcanic inside. I want to run, but I don't... I'm too compelled to "pursue" in the cap femme style which is to play it cool. No games. No bull.

I know how I want things to begin, so I know my boundaries. I'm pretty agreeable within those boundaries. I'm very caring and thoughtful. that person is on my mind more than I'd ever give away, but I'll still make it known and I aim to melt hearts. thus... creepypanties in love.

i honestly have some negative sentiments towards love though. it's so exhausting and nerve-racking. turns my world upside down and has me by the neck. it's a cap way to contain emotions, so in the case of love... i can't, they contain me. it's aweful. but i am in fact a sucker for it. im a lover not a hater. could be the one time my dreamy love-struck pisces moon wins, dragging my overly independent cap sun along for a ride.

Alternatively, you could google 'tattooed Goth chick/babe' and take your pick...

Suicidegirls.com 😉

We show signs. Call alot. Help fix your car. Etc.. But we prefer you make the first move. When i started dating my Cancer woman. We talked for weeks. We went on a first date and nothing. I Called her 2 days later and she said she was going to buy a car. ALONE. Well. No way in hell i was allowing that. I really dug her. So i told her i would go with. When we parted ways. I leaned in and waited. After a few. She grabbed me and kissed me. From that moment on i texted her every day. And called on every lunch break. We been together ever since. I guess you can say. We are shy until we know they have feelings for us. Fear of rejection. Us caps are more emotional than we let on. *Smile*