How do I naturallyback of a Cappy that's pulling?

How do I naturallyback of a Cappy that's pulling?

Do you mean he's pulling away?

Well, I read that relationships are like rubber bands. When a man pulls away, it stretches the rubber band. So a woman should lean back a little too. In other words, don't go chasing him, because that puts slack in the rubber band, so lean back and put more tension in the band. Once the man has had time to miss the woman, think things over, then the rubber band pulls them back in. Sometimes, however, things aren't right for one party and the band breaks and the man doesn't come back or the woman decides she doesn't want him back.

So pull back some and don't chase. Give him room and when he comes back on his own accord, both you and he will know he wants you and your relationship will be more solid.

If I misunderstood the question, just disregard what I said, but file it away for a later date.

Not sure what the question is so I can't really give a thoughtful answer. I will say this though...you and this Cap have been going out a few months and his behavior has had you on this board at least 3 different times and that isn't the sign of a content relationship no matter what stage you are in. Just from what you have written before I don't know if you and Mr. Cap are going to work out due to the lack of patience on your end and his nature to be slow moving when it comes to the deep emotional stuff that comes in an evolving relationship. I'm not saying you shouldn't see each other or be together but you sound like you really need to take a long hard look at what you want from this man and be totally honest with yourself as to whether or not he is ready now or will ever be able to give you back what you seek.