How do you turn a capricorn man back on?

I was infatuated with a Capricorn man. He's 4 years younger than me and it felt so much like love. My biggest mistake wasn't telling him how much I love him, because he continued to show feelings for me after that. My biggest mistake was... I didn't have any patience!!! I couldn't understand why he would spend so much time and energy in keeping me satisfied and then say he was gonna be busy for a couple of days. It seemed like he would distant himself for some odd reason. I should have remained calm and patience. I felt most men who wasn't in a committed relationship would have someone to full fill there needs, so therefore I felt he was being with another woman.
I would call him anyway to see if he would pick up. The majority of the time he would. After all the annoying caused him to act like he didn't have any feelings for me. He would tell me he didn't want to continue seeing me and stop calling him. I'm sure he was still liking me because I admit I was acting crazy and no matter how crazy I reacted if I call & continued to call and tell him I love him and want to see him, he still would give in and make love to me.

Since I have changed my behavior tremendous. He calls me & I call him back now. I'm not asking to see him. He was so use to me asking to see him. If I wait for him, to ask me I could be waiting for a long while. How long will it take him to admit he miss me and want to see me?Or do I need to initiate like I been doing?

WOW, your story sounds EXACTLY like mine. My Cap continued to show affection for me even after I let him now how much I cared about him. He said it "made his moments to know how I felt about him." He often told me he would "be distant" for a few days to work on school stuff. I began texting him more and more often and, like you, began to worry that he was seeing other women because he wasn't always around. He continued to make an effort to be there for me until I began to stifle him too much. Then he began acting kinda rude & nasty to me, but still said he cared about me. I finally unleashed all of my anxiety onto him in one big ugly long rant, and he stopped speaking to me for good. Reading through all the past posts in this forum has taught me A LOT. I wish to God I would have found this forum back when he and I were still on, because then I would have known what I wa doing wrong and could have corrected it. Now it's too late. I have stopped contacting him in an effort to show him that I can get this under control. That's all I can really do until we see each other in person again in a few weeks. I know I royally fucked up, and I want to SHOW him that I can improve enough for us to be friends again. That's all I want for right now really, is for us to just be friends for awhile. Maybe after a few weeks of not hearing from me he will start to see that something is different about me and consider approaching me again. Only time will tell. I pray to God every day that he will forgive me. I know that Caps do not easily forgive, so I am hoping that God's power is stronger than his stubborn character.

I wish you ladies wouldn't waste your time on these guys. Not saying they are bad men, but just saying that maybe they are not right for you. I don't think love should be this complicated.

You've been gone for aaaaaaages, Faith.. I figured you either married your Cap or finally stopped beating the dead horse and moved on and found yourself a better man...

So you're telling me it's the https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/capricorn/why-capricorns-back-away-when-things-get-personnel-2097209/>SAME SHIT as it was a year and a half ago?!

Wow, Faith - that feels so sad.. how many YEARS are you going to put up with this?

Eh mine was my own fault, lnana. I fucked up, pure and simple.

*sigh* Oh damn, I thought Faith was back.. looks like the Scorp merely resurrected one of her (MANY) dead threads.

I am disappoint ;_;

Sorry Nefer, this one really spoke to me because it sounded so much like my own situation. I had to comment.

Posted by MermaidPrincess
Sorry Nefer, this one really spoke to me because it sounded so much like my own situation. I had to comment.

Yeah, truthfully.. there are a lot of similarities.. Faith kept losing her marbles and spewing all over this guy and driving him away.. she was really, really HARDCORE obsessed with him, absolutely 100% unable to move on even though she was miserable. (Sound familiar?) But occasionally, he'd actually answer one of her many calls and then meet up for sex.. once a month maybe, so she thought that meant he really loved her deep down, and he was just scared to express it. He kept her hooked like that for a year and a half or something, last I knew.

Soooo.. if YOUR Cap flame starts calling you up once a month for sex.. you gonna go along with it? If you're even considering it, maybe you should read all the Faith threads.. he really did her head in with that bullshit, it was obvious to EVERYONE but her. To this day, I'm honestly concerned that maybe we haven't seen Faith in so long cuz she slit up not down, or swallowed a week's worth of Valium. :c

No way Nefer. If my Cap man ever comes back around, I do NOT want to complicate things with sex. I just want to be friends with him. I feel really bad knowing that he eventually forgave some thugs who threatened him and his family years ago...if he can forgive THEM but never forgive me for yelling at him, then wow I must have REALLY fucked up. 😢

WoW...why oh why don't you just dump the freak mermaidprincess? You deserve 2 be chased, not the other way around. You showed him love n hes running away, gty is a fool. Treasure yourself.

Lithium..Im telling you...works wonders for delusional people.

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Posted by MermaidPrincess
Sorry Nefer, this one really spoke to me because it sounded so much like my own situation. I had to comment.

Which is great, except the OP is unlikely to read it :p I thought Faith was back too smh

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Oh lawd, my first thought was who let her out of the coocoo's nest lol.

Scary!

"How do you turn a capricorn man back on?"
You DON'T!! Just get over him because if he wanted to be with you for real, HE WOULD!!
That's just life.

Whenever I see faiths threads come up I wonder one simple thing: Does he lick front to back? 😛