How does Cappy man feel about Aqua girl temper?

I'm just having a really hard time. Could someone tell me if this is typical male cappy? It's a new relationship, if that's what you want to call it. I broke up with a scorp after 14 yrs. I had a crush on this cappy since I was 22 (11 yrs) As soon as he caught wind that the relationship was over, he was ALL OVER IT! He was making his move because he didnt want someone else to come along, it seemed.

We live a different kind of life style together. Our jobs are 8 months out of the year on a travel schedule. We work for different companies but it's the same Cause thus we see eachother all the time.

When I found out his bday was Jan 15th, I immediately thought he was an aqua like me. NOPE! He is a capricorn! After a thorough reading of our other planets, I see that we have Moon, Mercury and Venus in common. (Gem, Cappy, Cappy) So this guy that I thought was a laid back enjoying his space aqua male (because I know how good private time feels) was really being in the background, quiet and shy this entire time! When we started to date, I really started to take notice of how embaraased he can get. I love his taste of ppl, which is very quiet and not loud or goofy in public places, but I seem to be a magnet for ppl that sucker right onto you and overstep their boundaries within your personal business. I am FORCED to defend myself a lot. It's so much, that my best friends laugh about how many weirdos I can attract.

Anyways, I have been biting my tounge so much I think it's going to fall off. I havent been defending myself for fear that my anger will still get labeled as an "outburst" just the same. Because of our work, ppl cannot be avoided until evening and some of the early morning. He already gets angry at those who sit on their asses and want credit for not doing anything and these arethe type of ppl I get my fill of, but Cappy and I just have 2 different ways of handling things.

Ppl will take as much territory as you will let them. I am VERY protective of a relationship when I have one and I am TRYING to cure out things with him as slow as he needs it and juggle gaining his respect at the same time. he knows I love him. He was like a celeb to me, I was so in love with him. And now I'm glad I didnt look for booty calls while I was having issues with my scorp because apparently a cappy man would lose respect for such a thing.

I havent talked to my cappy about my worry. I am on the verge of doing so. I just want to hear from other cappies at thi

Thank you for taking the time out for me.

I'm worried he will see my defending myself WITH dickheads as an outburst?

It's a struggle to handle it ourselves.

Ok, let me ask you this instead... in the eyes of a cappy male- what exactly considered an outburst?

Yo lady- "Ummm.... I'm about to tell that monkey feend to step the &^% $ off my coat-tails"

You-......................................?

And the outburst would come later, like when the monkey feend oversteps his boundaries that he is coming very close to.

Aquarius_8i8 I think it depends on your cappy. If the way you defend yourself isn't off putting to him, I think he would be okay with it. Maybe he will join in just to show you that he is on your side.

If you are the type of person to go ballistic. You might embarrass him or worse yet draw him into a fight to defend you.

I think the best thing to do is to talk to him about your temper. 🙂