coach41
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How to tell if a Cappy Lady might be interested—
First... women like confidence. In general, not just cappies. So kick the concern about failure. She'll probably pick up on that.
I'd say let that ballsy aries aggressiveness loose and pursue her. Just be wise about your actions. Women like confidence, but dont be assumptive... BE considerate of us. Of any qualities in a guy, those two stand out the most to me... confidence and consideration.
What you said about having to convince her... Yea I think the general sentiment amongst the cap females here and the ones I know is that we are tough nuts to crack. So unfortunately there is some winning over that has to be done, but I think that quality keeps us real... or just real-ly difficult. We are gaurded creatures and very picky of those we choose to let in. I think we connect with guys on a more mental level first before anything else really. Perhaps more so than women of most other signs. So try the cerebral angle and relate to her interests, but keep it fun and flirty.
...my advice. Take it or leave it. If you take it, I hope it helps!
I'd say let that ballsy aries aggressiveness loose and pursue her. Just be wise about your actions. Women like confidence, but dont be assumptive... BE considerate of us. Of any qualities in a guy, those two stand out the most to me... confidence and consideration.
What you said about having to convince her... Yea I think the general sentiment amongst the cap females here and the ones I know is that we are tough nuts to crack. So unfortunately there is some winning over that has to be done, but I think that quality keeps us real... or just real-ly difficult. We are gaurded creatures and very picky of those we choose to let in. I think we connect with guys on a more mental level first before anything else really. Perhaps more so than women of most other signs. So try the cerebral angle and relate to her interests, but keep it fun and flirty.
...my advice. Take it or leave it. If you take it, I hope it helps!
Is she interested? Honestly... super hard for me to tell based on your post. Interested in getting to know you perhaps. Beyond that, I have no clue.
Thanks for the comments! I don't have any major updates, but here's some additional things that I've been mulling on:
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The Cappy lady is (like many Cappys) career driven. She works in the tax industry and puts in 10 to 12 hours a day PLUS weekends lately. Given that work schedule, I never know when she's available to talk. I haven't called her much for that reason and sometimes I wonder if I should bug her more or continue to leave her alone to her work.
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On the other hand, while I haven't called much, I just email her (or text occasionally). While she doesn't reply to every email, she surprised me a couple of weeks ago. I was out doing something and she called me. Unfortunately, I didn't have my phone with me so I didn't see the call until later. I called her back and we talked for a few minutes. She called to "apologize" for not responding to my emails! I thought that a bit out of the blue, but appreciated the thought.
That being said, I haven't talked to her since then. Perhaps, with the last weeks of the tax season rolling around, she may be busy and just focusing on work and her immediate friends.
I'm playing this cool because i sense the Cappy lady may just be preoccupied. However, there's a part of me that feels like i should be doing something more. It's just a constant battle. Maybe it's my "Venus in Aqua" fighting my "Moon in Leo". 🙂
1.
The Cappy lady is (like many Cappys) career driven. She works in the tax industry and puts in 10 to 12 hours a day PLUS weekends lately. Given that work schedule, I never know when she's available to talk. I haven't called her much for that reason and sometimes I wonder if I should bug her more or continue to leave her alone to her work.
2.
On the other hand, while I haven't called much, I just email her (or text occasionally). While she doesn't reply to every email, she surprised me a couple of weeks ago. I was out doing something and she called me. Unfortunately, I didn't have my phone with me so I didn't see the call until later. I called her back and we talked for a few minutes. She called to "apologize" for not responding to my emails! I thought that a bit out of the blue, but appreciated the thought.
That being said, I haven't talked to her since then. Perhaps, with the last weeks of the tax season rolling around, she may be busy and just focusing on work and her immediate friends.
I'm playing this cool because i sense the Cappy lady may just be preoccupied. However, there's a part of me that feels like i should be doing something more. It's just a constant battle. Maybe it's my "Venus in Aqua" fighting my "Moon in Leo". 🙂
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