ok so heres the deal.. Question: Are all cap men slow-take-forever in bed types? So far my cap is all serious with the sex thing... no spontaneous quickies in the middle of the day.. He seems to gawk at anything experimental. Heres the question what is your 'work ethic' underneath the sheets...
a. slow and steady...hours upon hours upon hours
b. passionate, efficient to the point with a grand finale
c. go through the motions kind-of-cap, viewing it as an obligation to your gf/wife
d. garden variety freak in bed, whips-n-chains
Im hoping for a consensus. I need to reassess my cap's "capablities" behind closed doors.
I have been seeing my "Cap" since Christmas, we have had "one" quickie.. he seems to be all about the "good stuff". If the time is approaching to when I will need to be going, he won't go through with anything because he hates to hurry things and then send me home.
Yum quotation marks are fun. Autumnc...I am trying to gage his potential. I dont particually wear high heels because I lug around an eleven month old all day. But maybe yes I should juice it up with a sex it up makeover. Maybe hes tired of seeing me in sweats most of the time. Stairwells and storerooms?
Public sex~ where do you find that? I miss the ole Roman bath days... Maybe I can drag him to Walmart and stir up some orgy talk there?? Errr but I doubt all the soccer moms around here would be up for that. I live in a relatively small town. Or I could take him to the car wash and pull him outside and he can do me while we wash the car?
Thanks autumnc for your nice responses they are greatly appreciated. The kitchen idea is a nice one except that I am not a virgo. Im an aries. That would be awesome if I came home to a clean house but it wouldnt necessarily turn me on? Im thinking I might consider buying some handcuffs and cuff him to my iron bed but then he might get pissed because he likes to be in control?
satyrsmind yes he's for real. WE do get down. BUt not as much to my liking. I see sex as a 'nourishment for emotional & physical intimacy' a bonding...a release... brings about those wonderous endorphins... Im just pondering as to how whether this scenario is going to satiate me in the long run. He is no prude, he is sexual but its quite UNPREDICTIBLE he's the quirky sexual type? He romances me like an aquarius.
So it appears that Cap men are rowdy and love kinky stuff afterall. They seem to appreciate when women initiate things who know how to do it right in order to satisfy them to the fullest.
a. slow and steady...hours upon hours upon hours
b. passionate, efficient to the point with a grand finale
c. go through the motions kind-of-cap, viewing it as an obligation to your gf/wife
d. garden variety freak in bed, whips-n-chains
Im hoping for a consensus. I need to reassess my cap's "capablities" behind closed doors.
Please pick one