I need Help Here with a Cap Girl!!!

Hey Girls, Im Gem boy trying to hit on this cute cap girl of mine,we have been going out a couple of times and besides I like her and I like her very much, I love her with all my strength, but the thing I want to know is if u cap girls dig us gem guys and if its safe to be with u cap girls u see, i want what is best for the relation, is there any tips I should make heed of?

IMO gem guys, the one's I've known, are awesome. I've crushed on them before. What drove me away from them is that they werent serious enough for me. I dont mean serious in an all work and no play way, but their affections strayed. Cap girls like permanence and what is real. Even (especially) if we have to be slapped with it to see it. Anything that spells s.e.c.u.r.i.t.y. I think you gem guys have a lot going for you for a cap girl. Very smart, very funny, exciting, easily overlooked sense of awareness... what really gets me is your minds. versatile indeed. The flirtatiousness helps me relax and brings out the kid. The only thing i have to suggest is having a clear definition of committment and knowing how it compares to what your cap girl thinks and wants. Caps usually play for keeps and to us committment means the ultimate.

the ultimate ... blood sweat tears and all.

I can only speak of my own experience. I was married to a gemini. We met when I was 18. Was drawn to him because he was smart, funny and very much in love with me. I think ultimatly we were too young and we both made mistakes. After a couple of years marriage, he became pretty controlling and I eventually left.

I'm still drawn to gems, 2 of my very good friends are gemini guys. But they are just wayyyy to adventuros for me. I would be afraid I'd bore them to death in a relationship. Security, stability are more my thing :-)

But it could very well be a balanced relationship with both partners being aware of their differences

Umm... I'm going to be honest with you. I'm a Cap and Gemini's get on my last nerve for two reasons, they either 1) just wanna get in my pants, or 2) talk way too much!!! In addition to this, they were far too spontaneous!! I do like the fact that they always question everything; I'm the type to learn something every chance I get and being around a Gemini means a lot of people to meet and a lot to learn.

:-)!!