Is it mind playing?

Capricorn. He told me and showed me before that he liked me and was interested in me. But still as always he calls only once a week or two, says he's been busy with work and asks about me. I was the one who lead him into mind playing and I regret for not being open and honest. But sometimes he says something and doesn't keep his word, like for the first time finally and unexpectedly he asked me out 2 days ago (well I was thinking maybe he'll ask me to be his girlfriend) and we decided to meet the next night and I didn't even get the call from him yet. I said ok when he asked if I wanna go out. I give 99% that the next time he'll call me he'll say he was busy with work. I also told him on the conversation that I'm looking for a job and he offered me some part time job, I thought it was great and told him it sounds good. But anyways, is work all the matter in their life? What about their lovers? I need more attention from him, because I get confused all the time whether he wants me or no and that is happening for 10 months since we met. I know I should find another man, but then he might get me back with his sweet words and upset voice. How should I stop him mind playing and make him straightforward with what he wants from me?

I just want everyone to know that not all pisces are like this

lol that's wrong on so many levels, Klover.

Fishy_girl, that's who he is, he's shown you for 10mos and it has nothing to do with you. Accept it or swim. 🙂

I just want everyone to know that not all pisces are like this

My bad, I thought this page was for those who are into astrology and who can base some of their issues on it, like mines for example... but i guess for some it's something different.. :/

Fishy_girl, I'm sorry. 😢

I honestly can't offer you anything except a tinge of logic from a Virgo. I think that he is who he is and will always be whoever he feels the need to be. It is not about you, anything you've done, hasn't done, or the way he feels about you. I think that no matter who he is with he will have been the same person. No one wears a facade for 10mos with a steady pattern.

Your goal is to find ways to get him to be more of what you need. How, is not something I can answer. But, more than anything I don't want you to feel like he's doing it TO you or BECAUSE of you. It's not YOU it's HIM and who he is. So, if you are not able to deal with it then before you get too caught up (probably too late for you Pisces girl) then you should swim away.

Klover is just e-veal...ignore it and don't make eye contact.

My post is in reference to his busy nature and inconsistency/inability to follow up.

I dont mean to be rude Fishy_girl, its just that all your post are exactly the same and you have found no resolution. You're right, this board is for people who like astrology, but at some point you have to realise that your issue with this guy has nothing to do with the fact that he is a Capricorn.

Fishy_girl, I understand how you feel. I have been going through the same thing with my cap friend since March and it ain't changed yet. I too have found that if you are talking about making money/working he is interested; outside of that he doesn't share his feelings or you don't know what he is thinking. There have been many times when I have decided not to contact him again; whenever this happens he will call me (usually afterwards 3 days) as though he is upset that he haven't heard from me and say nice things that makes me feel good at that moment. However, as soon as I continue to text him, he revert back to his old habits...ignoring my text, not responding until days later. We see each other on average 3 times out of the month. When we are together it is like we are the only one on earth. During this time, he is attentive, loving, affectionate, and tells me that he is so busy at work. He owns 3 businesses and is successful. All he does is work and look for more opportunity to make more money.

He has not contacted me since the last time when he asked me out which was bit more than a week before and I decided to call him myself 2 days ago. His phone was off so I left a voice message to call me later and he hasn't done that, but he found some time to go on myspace. I start thinking maybe it's the revenge for me, he wants me to be in a chasing mode, as I treated him like a crap because I didn't really like him, he was that bad boy with drugs and he changed his habits, quited smoking weed and started working a lot since we met. He would always call me and I'd either pick up sometimes or not pick up and then I'd so lie with the excuses. And that's how it went since beginning he'd call me once a month to see how I'm doing and ask about my family and just seem such a sweet precious, caring little thing. And I thought after we had sex he'd get closer to me and we'd meet more often, but it's the same as always...

I thought I was sure of his feelings even if we didn't spend much time together, he treated me with respect and affections and was honest to me. It was something I needed was honesty and fell for him for this I guess....

Once again: I just want everyone to know that not all pisces are like this

lol I know 😉

Capricorn. He told me and showed me before that he liked me and was interested in me. But still as always he calls only once a week or two, says he's been busy with work and asks about me.

Sounds like me when I'm going through my "Work is the most important" phase. Just because caps do not call everyday doesn't mean we don't care. It's part of our makeup to just put nonhuman priorities first. We don't discuss our daily lives when we are busy because there isn't much to day ... besides, "Yeah, I worked all day." Hahaha, not very entertaining.

I was the one who lead him into mind playing and I regret for not being open and honest.

What— Okay, this is where things have gotten a little hairy. Usually, if a cappy understands that you are playing mind-games, we try our hardest to live you alone -- well, the men do, it takes lady caps a bit more time LOL. The fact that he hasn't left you alone means that you must mean something to him.