Is it this capricorn still in love with me?

well this is my first post for starters,um this one is kinda long lol

I'm a Virgo Male and She's a Capricorn Female and approx. 4 years ago she told me she loved me(we weren't in a relationship or anything,we didn't really know each other besides names and faces) and for about 2 months she would tell me how cute i was and how much she loved me and then she eventually stopped,now im 16 going on 17 and basically back then i guess you could say that i was a late bloomer because i didn't really have any attraction to anyone(physical or emotional) and i was(still am) pretty shy to people i dont know,and i used to be EXTREMELY shy around girls so back then i just didn't say anything but i never forgot her or what she said. Now im in highschool and recently thought about her again and then she was always on my mind since,i even dreamed about her. somehow i fell for her even though she isn't even around. My feelings for her were killing me so i found her on facebook. She didn't accept at first but eventually i asked a mutual friend to tell her i was sorry and she added me afterwards. She wanted to know why i was sorry and i explained about my shyness and stuff and she told me "Oh ok. Don't worry about it! 🙂 ". For whatever reason,that made me feel so much better but then i think i fell for her even harder after that,i waited for about 3 days(i couldn't wait any longer my heart was going crazy!) and confessed my feelings and i threw in a compliment that i truly meant. After about 2 weeks she messaged me back with "sorry for taking so long to respond, i am in Belgium. I think that is very sweet of you to say, thank you!" That left me confused because I'm not sure if she is telling me to wait or to get lost,i mean she would've just told me then wouldn't she? or is she just being nice?. After being confused for about a week i just decided i'll wait for her to come back from Belgium(asked alot of friends for advice and got a bunch of mixed answers,alot told me to move on),we only get to live once and i don't want any regrets in my life. I feel like my life is incomplete without her and i'd do anything for her,honestly. I wish i could just see her in person and just express how i feel.
Like i said before im a very shy guy but for her I'd risk everything. I'm just not sure if she still feels how she felt before,or if i was just a phase(i think her feelings back then were legitimate),any advice?

Sorry my first post was so long lol

Hmm i guess your right,*sigh* well i was afraid of that but i guess i'll have to see how it goes,thanks.

Yeah she isnt being mean or anything,but in a way shes always been like that(from what i've seen)

I reckon when you told her how you felt she thought you were still explaining about the past...so you need to tell her thats how you feel now and ask her if she feels any interest potentially

just ask directly its the best way..women are impressed with men who know what they want and capricorn is earth sign so they find that behaviour exciting and feel affinity with 'blunt' outspoken people

Hey mate! Im a Virgo dude with a cappy too.

Hold on, but dont hold on too tightly at the moment. You should try to put yourself in her position before anything, you can't expect her to reciprocate with the same intensity and speed she showed those feelings to you in the past, maybe she has moved on from those feelings, maybe not. Maybe she'd still want to give it a try, but one thing is certain..you'll have to work hard this time if you really want her, whatever happened in the past is no gurantee for success in the future, although she still might have a soft spot for you, it doesnt mean you wont have to fight for it this time. Remember to show perseverance and showing you know what you want with this cappy. These girls usually act way more maturely than their age suggests (whether they're really THAT mature is another story lol) Good luck and keep us updated!

I'll wait till she comes back from Belgium then i'll act,i don't want to come on TOO strong but at the same time i don't want to seem like i don't care,plus im pretty sure shes visiting family but either way i know i wouldnt want to be bothered with something like this if i were her while im on vacation, so i'll give her her space(not like i have the right to invade it lol)
Its kinda funny its like we traded places.....
I will keep trying and as soon as the opportunity arises i'll really express all my feelings for her,even if i do get hurt in the end. Its just tough when you think of the person everyday lol

Um,basically she came back and i was too nervous to start a regular conversation with her(still am,probably biggest roadblock) but yet i have no problem sending her a private message,which i did again and i spoke from the heart and said how i felt,explaining why i didnt fully understand why i fell for her but that i do love her and i even asked her if we could get to know each other better but shes ignoring me now and i thought that silence was enough but thinking it over im not so sure,she could easily say she has no interest and that could stop this so i dont know what she wants to know/hear

I was going to move on but I cant help wondering,I feel like something is there and possible but that i'm just not seeing or saying what she wants,I'm honestly lost at this point
I guess the short of it is that i dont know if shes playing hard to get or she just isnt interested lol

guess waiting is all i can do,i know i cant expect her to feel like she did back then anyway,i just wanted to show i wasnt playing games but that i am serious about her

im dying to know what happens. Keep us informed.

not exactly an update on the situation, but more or less i can tell shes really busy(judging from her posts on facebook its most likely college related) and now shes in DC,seems like shes going around visiting colleges and such

Still no reply but i expected that,not really stressing over it anymore,just sitting patiently 🙂

Now the thing is.....my bday is coming up (the 7th of sept) and my godmother's is a day after mines so we are going to have a cookout to celebrate(on the weekend) and i kinda want to invite her but at the same time i feel like it may be too soon for something like that,or she might not even be back by then,so im debating if i should attempt it.

Also i've learned my moon is libra,and my ascendant is also virgo

well not exactly sitting patiently ive been doing stuff to stay busy

I feel bad; for whatever reason yesterday i just felt like i needed to explain myself which ended up with her apologizing to me and she told me she was flattered but just didn't know what to say to something so significant and that she should apologize for taking so long to respond to such a sweet person. She does want to be friends but its hard since we don't really know each other anymore, and we aren't sure if we have mutual friends.I apologized to her because i feel like i forced a response out of her and i basically agreed with what she said. I ended up leaving my number and told her we can text or talk sometime, if she wants.
I probably came off as upset,even though i didn't intend to. I'll just leave it alone for a bit.