AquaSun
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Might give him a verbal lashing...
-The first night he seemed rather interested. Once it became too late, I was going to head back in but he said "15 more minutes or I'll never speak to you again." We hit it off SO WELL. Even made a comment how we're both alike.
-We hung out again 2 days later. He contacted me. That night, we were together for 4 hours just talking, walking. But he became sexually aggressive. I told him to back off. I'm not like that. Go find a wore somewhere else.
-I was firm. No meant NO. I was VERY detached. We just talked about random things. His touchiness was only for a moment. He was VERY open from the first night. I knew more about him than vice versa. But he seemed sincere but he seemed out of character that night. Like he was more silly, he treated me like one his guy friends. Never a silent moment/dull moment, he laughed at my sarcastic comments, and when he noticed I was getting tired ( was quiet and "droopy" and it was 5 am), he said I should go home or else he'll feel bad.
-Call him the next night and told him I was knocking out for most of the day. Said he shouldn't have hung out with me because I felt drowsy. Guess he felt bad. This was the awkward/heated conversation I had with him. We talked for 3 hours. I guess I was being a little meaner than usual and he said I had made other plans with him and we would have to put me on his "Black List." He said I might be playing games. We then decided to be friends. It happened that fast. Said I was acting weird. Next thing I know he's asking me if I have friends that I could hook him up with. They have to be 'good' and 'freaky'. I kept thinking, "the bastard..." I guess I seemed 'unstable' to him.
-Then the conversation did a 180 and we started talking about our lives, what we liked, he played his favorite songs to me,food, movies,his past relationships, and how he would give me ride to my friends houses if I needed one when he gets his car. He was still being nice after the tension we had earlier. Like it NEVER even happened.
-NEXT DAY calls me and seems he was very 'up'. We talked for a long time, actually, he was talking to an elderly man he knew, he told me to listen in, like he wanted me part of the banter.
-Asks me to come out. Told me he wanted to come and talk to me earlier when he saw me outside, but me being me, I ran and hid from him. Said to call him later after he showers.
-This was the night he told me liked me. He said I was acting weird on the phone and wanted to give me a few months to relax,
-We hung out again 2 days later. He contacted me. That night, we were together for 4 hours just talking, walking. But he became sexually aggressive. I told him to back off. I'm not like that. Go find a wore somewhere else.
-I was firm. No meant NO. I was VERY detached. We just talked about random things. His touchiness was only for a moment. He was VERY open from the first night. I knew more about him than vice versa. But he seemed sincere but he seemed out of character that night. Like he was more silly, he treated me like one his guy friends. Never a silent moment/dull moment, he laughed at my sarcastic comments, and when he noticed I was getting tired ( was quiet and "droopy" and it was 5 am), he said I should go home or else he'll feel bad.
-Call him the next night and told him I was knocking out for most of the day. Said he shouldn't have hung out with me because I felt drowsy. Guess he felt bad. This was the awkward/heated conversation I had with him. We talked for 3 hours. I guess I was being a little meaner than usual and he said I had made other plans with him and we would have to put me on his "Black List." He said I might be playing games. We then decided to be friends. It happened that fast. Said I was acting weird. Next thing I know he's asking me if I have friends that I could hook him up with. They have to be 'good' and 'freaky'. I kept thinking, "the bastard..." I guess I seemed 'unstable' to him.
-Then the conversation did a 180 and we started talking about our lives, what we liked, he played his favorite songs to me,food, movies,his past relationships, and how he would give me ride to my friends houses if I needed one when he gets his car. He was still being nice after the tension we had earlier. Like it NEVER even happened.
-NEXT DAY calls me and seems he was very 'up'. We talked for a long time, actually, he was talking to an elderly man he knew, he told me to listen in, like he wanted me part of the banter.
-Asks me to come out. Told me he wanted to come and talk to me earlier when he saw me outside, but me being me, I ran and hid from him. Said to call him later after he showers.
-This was the night he told me liked me. He said I was acting weird on the phone and wanted to give me a few months to relax,
sort myself out, and asked me why I was being so distant with him. He asked me why I pulled away from him when he tried to touch me. I'm not very physically with people I just meet. This was 1 weeks after we had the tense convo, not the next night. My mistake.( so much went on I lost track.)
-Three weeks into knowing him, that night was when he told me he liked me and was willing to wait a few months because he thought I needed it. Asked me why he couldn't come closer and I said, "I didn't ask you to", his replied, "Fine. I'll move away then."
-He kind of forced me to show him affection. Tried to cuddle me. Hold my hand. Threw my arms on him to hug him. Asked me several times to sit on his lap. Lots of power struggles. Mainly my own fault. I'm too cautious.
-Had told me of the Staten Island girl he was seeing and said he didn't know anymore since he started talking to me. This girl gave it up THE FIRST NIGHT. Virgin, too. Pathetic. He wouldn't look me in the face. He seemed more shy, restless, had his head down almost the entire time, tried to pull me closer him, etc. I asked him if he trusted me and he said yes. Although, he readily admitted from the start his dislike for most girls and how he doesn't tell girls he likes them often and doesn't trust them. He told me all this voluntarily. He's slept with a lot knowing some were bitches but he didn't care. He screwed them anyway.
-That night was the closest he came to me. Telling me how he hopes my kids would turn out as cute as me ( he told me he doesn't want his kids looking like him. Very insecure person. Doesn't even take photos) I didn't question his sincerity. It seemed all too real. No sexual advances that night. NONE. I was detached like my natural self.
-Asked me that night if I would be the same person in a few months. I said I guess and asked why. His response, "Because some people change". I guess he was hoping my intentions would stay true and I wouldn't stray.
-NEVER showed an ounce of clingy-ness, neediness, dependence on a him.NOTHING. He came to me every time. I'm very independent. Almost too much.
-He scheduled our times together. I never made plans with him.EVER. I called when he told me to, and sometimes I forgot or got busy but I always let him know why I didn't contact him. Never left him hanging.
-First night we spoke on the phone, I told him I would call back to see if I change my mind about coming out. He said he doesn't trust that I'll call back. He asked me to promise an
-Three weeks into knowing him, that night was when he told me he liked me and was willing to wait a few months because he thought I needed it. Asked me why he couldn't come closer and I said, "I didn't ask you to", his replied, "Fine. I'll move away then."
-He kind of forced me to show him affection. Tried to cuddle me. Hold my hand. Threw my arms on him to hug him. Asked me several times to sit on his lap. Lots of power struggles. Mainly my own fault. I'm too cautious.
-Had told me of the Staten Island girl he was seeing and said he didn't know anymore since he started talking to me. This girl gave it up THE FIRST NIGHT. Virgin, too. Pathetic. He wouldn't look me in the face. He seemed more shy, restless, had his head down almost the entire time, tried to pull me closer him, etc. I asked him if he trusted me and he said yes. Although, he readily admitted from the start his dislike for most girls and how he doesn't tell girls he likes them often and doesn't trust them. He told me all this voluntarily. He's slept with a lot knowing some were bitches but he didn't care. He screwed them anyway.
-That night was the closest he came to me. Telling me how he hopes my kids would turn out as cute as me ( he told me he doesn't want his kids looking like him. Very insecure person. Doesn't even take photos) I didn't question his sincerity. It seemed all too real. No sexual advances that night. NONE. I was detached like my natural self.
-Asked me that night if I would be the same person in a few months. I said I guess and asked why. His response, "Because some people change". I guess he was hoping my intentions would stay true and I wouldn't stray.
-NEVER showed an ounce of clingy-ness, neediness, dependence on a him.NOTHING. He came to me every time. I'm very independent. Almost too much.
-He scheduled our times together. I never made plans with him.EVER. I called when he told me to, and sometimes I forgot or got busy but I always let him know why I didn't contact him. Never left him hanging.
-First night we spoke on the phone, I told him I would call back to see if I change my mind about coming out. He said he doesn't trust that I'll call back. He asked me to promise an
He asked to me to promise I'll call back and I did. (Do little thing like that count for a lot in a cap's mind??)
-Anyway, to sum it up faster. We had sex a month after we met. He seemed like he was in a hurry that night. That night, we spent hours just hanging out. Hinted that we would be seeing more of eachother in the future. When I tried to go home, he would intend on me staying a little longer with him. We talked about how I couldn't sleep with him because I thought I might get attached to him and constantly call. He said he wouldn't mind. I would. I knew he wanted more from the beginning. But I took everything as if it was B.S.
-Even after we slept together, he kept in contact with me and once again hinted that we would eventually be I guess a 'couple', partners, whatever. So he didn't disappear after sex.
-If anything, he seemed more shy, awkward, distant. He actually SCHEDULED the times we were intimate. Like as if it were business arrangements. Weird.
-He even forced himself to be intimate with me on two occasions. I backed off and told him to go find another whore to sleep with since he knew so many. I was being mean in a cute way. He kept crying out he didn't want anyone else. So I was like fine, whatever. It's not like the sex means anything to me. It's pretty bad. But both times he was drained and tired but managed to get the energy to be intimate with me. I still don't get it. He's asked me to consider birth control later on. Hint, hint.
Move on to the middle of October, a month and a half. After I didn't call for more than a week, he came over to my house while I was on my phone. He seemed very shy, like a little boy. It Seemed like he was getting soft on me. He had come over to say Hi, but it was awkward (read my other post).
-He watched me again and I notice. This was about the time I started caring less and less.
-The more time that went by, the more shy and distant he seemed, he watched me from my house now like he never had before. He usually pays attention to is friends when he's with them but he started giving me that "look". I couldn't even step outside without having him stalking me with his eyes.
-I called him later on, end of October, to see what he was up to. Didn't call for 2 1/2 weeks. He seemed more gentle and considerate. Talked to me about the issues going on with him. That phone call was where he seemed kinder. He asked me if I wanted to work and if I did he could find me a job that would pay well.
-Anyway, to sum it up faster. We had sex a month after we met. He seemed like he was in a hurry that night. That night, we spent hours just hanging out. Hinted that we would be seeing more of eachother in the future. When I tried to go home, he would intend on me staying a little longer with him. We talked about how I couldn't sleep with him because I thought I might get attached to him and constantly call. He said he wouldn't mind. I would. I knew he wanted more from the beginning. But I took everything as if it was B.S.
-Even after we slept together, he kept in contact with me and once again hinted that we would eventually be I guess a 'couple', partners, whatever. So he didn't disappear after sex.
-If anything, he seemed more shy, awkward, distant. He actually SCHEDULED the times we were intimate. Like as if it were business arrangements. Weird.
-He even forced himself to be intimate with me on two occasions. I backed off and told him to go find another whore to sleep with since he knew so many. I was being mean in a cute way. He kept crying out he didn't want anyone else. So I was like fine, whatever. It's not like the sex means anything to me. It's pretty bad. But both times he was drained and tired but managed to get the energy to be intimate with me. I still don't get it. He's asked me to consider birth control later on. Hint, hint.
Move on to the middle of October, a month and a half. After I didn't call for more than a week, he came over to my house while I was on my phone. He seemed very shy, like a little boy. It Seemed like he was getting soft on me. He had come over to say Hi, but it was awkward (read my other post).
-He watched me again and I notice. This was about the time I started caring less and less.
-The more time that went by, the more shy and distant he seemed, he watched me from my house now like he never had before. He usually pays attention to is friends when he's with them but he started giving me that "look". I couldn't even step outside without having him stalking me with his eyes.
-I called him later on, end of October, to see what he was up to. Didn't call for 2 1/2 weeks. He seemed more gentle and considerate. Talked to me about the issues going on with him. That phone call was where he seemed kinder. He asked me if I wanted to work and if I did he could find me a job that would pay well.
-Next night, calls and asked me to hang out with him after a long time of not seeing eachother. Also due to the weather. Lots of rain, snow, wind. He HATES it.
-He asked me to come outside but also said I didn't have to come out if I didn't want to. Seemed like he didn't want to force me. He's usually persistent. I didn't go out and called and made up an excuse as to why I didn't. I was pretty sure we would have sex. So I didn't give in this time, just to see how he would feel.
I'm sooooo suspicious it kills. EVERYTHING he's told me has been consistent. If I ask to hear his stories again, they're spot on to what I see him do. He's been extremely open with me. He told me almost everything. His family, friends (told me how there are few people he takes seriously/trusts even when knows MANY people as I've seen. I'm talking about lending money, clothes, etc.) Said he would take a bullet for his family, help them financially when they need the money. He even asked me what I would like for my birthday and how he wouldn't want me to get him anything.
He seems too good to be true. Has asked me the type of guys I like, if I'm looking for something serious or just to have a b/f. Told him I am very choosy and praised me for it. Said it's good that I have high standards. Admitted his faults as to why his one and only relationship didn't work out. Said he was being an asshole to her. Didn't seem like he was putting the blame on her at all. They were both in the wrong. I guess I have to be patient. I've learned to cut him off already, but why do I keep getting this gut feeling that he'll be back——
I've been aloof, mysterious and private. Even after being intimate, he stilled showed interest. Maybe, it will happen on his time. He didn't get his BMW he wanted SO BAD ( he was excited but never showed it. He promised to take me to his favorite diner but with what car—) and he's on probation, I forgot to mention that. So bad ending for him this year.
BTW, it's not so much that he disappeared. But he LOVES being home. And the weather has been cold and he LOATHES cold weather. So I'm not surprised that I haven't really seen him. He doesn't call (he's told me to) but EVERY SINGLE TIME I've called, he's picked up or called back.
EVERY TIME. If he can't reach me he'll call several times a day until I pick-up.
I might have it better off than most cases I hear about. He might be going at his pace.
Maybe I won't give him the verbal lashing I planned on. H
-He asked me to come outside but also said I didn't have to come out if I didn't want to. Seemed like he didn't want to force me. He's usually persistent. I didn't go out and called and made up an excuse as to why I didn't. I was pretty sure we would have sex. So I didn't give in this time, just to see how he would feel.
I'm sooooo suspicious it kills. EVERYTHING he's told me has been consistent. If I ask to hear his stories again, they're spot on to what I see him do. He's been extremely open with me. He told me almost everything. His family, friends (told me how there are few people he takes seriously/trusts even when knows MANY people as I've seen. I'm talking about lending money, clothes, etc.) Said he would take a bullet for his family, help them financially when they need the money. He even asked me what I would like for my birthday and how he wouldn't want me to get him anything.
He seems too good to be true. Has asked me the type of guys I like, if I'm looking for something serious or just to have a b/f. Told him I am very choosy and praised me for it. Said it's good that I have high standards. Admitted his faults as to why his one and only relationship didn't work out. Said he was being an asshole to her. Didn't seem like he was putting the blame on her at all. They were both in the wrong. I guess I have to be patient. I've learned to cut him off already, but why do I keep getting this gut feeling that he'll be back——
I've been aloof, mysterious and private. Even after being intimate, he stilled showed interest. Maybe, it will happen on his time. He didn't get his BMW he wanted SO BAD ( he was excited but never showed it. He promised to take me to his favorite diner but with what car—) and he's on probation, I forgot to mention that. So bad ending for him this year.
BTW, it's not so much that he disappeared. But he LOVES being home. And the weather has been cold and he LOATHES cold weather. So I'm not surprised that I haven't really seen him. He doesn't call (he's told me to) but EVERY SINGLE TIME I've called, he's picked up or called back.
EVERY TIME. If he can't reach me he'll call several times a day until I pick-up.
I might have it better off than most cases I hear about. He might be going at his pace.
Maybe I won't give him the verbal lashing I planned on. H
I forgot to add that I was hurt because I didn't have patience and seemed calm and collected, but deep, DEEP down, I was head-over-heels but it was for a short period. He was very aloof at first. The roles have changed from what I can tell.
He's taught me patience, that's for sure.
He's taught me patience, that's for sure.
And once said I was playing hard to get. I told him SEVERAL times he better not be using/ B.S.-ing me. SEVERAL TIMES. He knows I won't take crap. Always said no, I'm assuming to much (which I do),wouldn't mess around with feelings that way, always straightforward with girls as to what he wants, told me I was crazy for thinking that. Even after the first time we had sex, still telling me the same stuff. I'm tired.... But I finally got him to let his guard down with me. He let me touch his hair lol. He would freak out when I would try. His most prized thing.
And considers a girl sleeping over his house a serious commitment. His ex slept over his house so I'm guessing it's a big deal. He's made it clear how he's superior to girls (wants 5 kids, ALL BOYS) and a wife to stay home. Only see him hanging out with guys. He's VERY masculine. Like he spent time in prison or something. But with a heart of gold. And a big tipper.lol
And considers a girl sleeping over his house a serious commitment. His ex slept over his house so I'm guessing it's a big deal. He's made it clear how he's superior to girls (wants 5 kids, ALL BOYS) and a wife to stay home. Only see him hanging out with guys. He's VERY masculine. Like he spent time in prison or something. But with a heart of gold. And a big tipper.lol
Also, his tests involved how loyal I could be. He seems confident but I know different.
He 'tested' me once by asking me to get the phone numbers of 15 guys from school and to call the next day to see if I had them. This was in beginning of our 'relationship'. I didn't come back with any numbers. He kept pursuing. I guess I 'passed'. His second test was when he heard from my cousin of a guy hitting on me. There actually was a guy flirting with me but I kept walking. When he heard this he seemed calm. When I told him how I walked away, he said, "Why didn't you go back??" He was obviously trying to push me away.
He knows guys don't matter to me that way. I have too much pride.
He 'tested' me once by asking me to get the phone numbers of 15 guys from school and to call the next day to see if I had them. This was in beginning of our 'relationship'. I didn't come back with any numbers. He kept pursuing. I guess I 'passed'. His second test was when he heard from my cousin of a guy hitting on me. There actually was a guy flirting with me but I kept walking. When he heard this he seemed calm. When I told him how I walked away, he said, "Why didn't you go back??" He was obviously trying to push me away.
He knows guys don't matter to me that way. I have too much pride.
I NEVER PLAYED GAMES WITH HIM. I do like him. I wouldn't be posting or wasting my time on this damn board if I didn't.
I'm obviously PARANOID about this. My rising is in Gemini, so it might have something to do with it...
I'm obviously PARANOID about this. My rising is in Gemini, so it might have something to do with it...
Geminis are not paranoid, we are curious. We like to have a good time. Most of us are all over the map depends on you rising and the rest of your chart. Like me I am very independent. Im unreliable when you make plans with me cause I always pick what will be more fun. Im not paranoid. I do however watch my bank account like paranoid freak. But not with guys. When it comes to guys I am untrusting.
You two should be untrusting of a cap male. Not all are the same but my ex made me think everything was just peachy keen and it turned out that he didnt even want to be with me it was just to see what else he could sucker me out of.
Your young have fun. If he makes you happy go with it. If you get a ba feeling off the guy then forget it.. Always, always follow your gut it knows best...
You two should be untrusting of a cap male. Not all are the same but my ex made me think everything was just peachy keen and it turned out that he didnt even want to be with me it was just to see what else he could sucker me out of.
Your young have fun. If he makes you happy go with it. If you get a ba feeling off the guy then forget it.. Always, always follow your gut it knows best...
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