Sup Caps need some advice, I'm a Cancer as u can see my name says it all😉 and I dated a Cap for less then a year. We known each other going on 4 years. The first time I met my Cap he gave me heads up he was interested in me. I, as a true Cancer I am, let he chase me. At the time I was in love with this Scorpio guy who I was just sleeping with for 3 years, but that's another story. Me and my Cap had so much in common so we contacted fast. we both love music and that's what started our conversation and friendship. He told me he was starting school for audio recording and I told him I just graduated from audio school. We talked about music ever time we were together he is a dj and I started teaching him protools (Music editing program). we wrote songs together even did a track together, loving his company. I started to fall deep for him months later and I could see he was as well. We took a trip about 4 months of knowing each other to Atlantic city and we couldn't keep our hands off each other although we never slept together until months later. AAt that time holding him felt so good and we both didn't know how to take it. He introduced me to most of his family and they loved me. We started dating after we slept together a month or so later and it was cool, until one day he disappered on me. When he popped up at my house he told me that he had gotten same girl pregnant while he was taking his trips to VA for a music video his cousin was involved with, and that realllly hurt me😢 I didn't know what to think, but I tired to make it work. he didn't even know the girl and she and him wanted nothing to do with each other. Apparently the girl just wanted a child. Anyhow, we tired to make it work, but It wasn't the same anymore although we still had the music thing going. He started disappearing on me left and right and I finally just got fed up and let him be. Years past and within the years he occasionally pops up here in there. I asked him why does he do that and he told me he was just feeling real depressed because he was jobless for a long time and he was trying to get his life together. He once told me he loved me during our relationship and I told him back, once. It took about a year or so until we said we loved each other. Now I am in a new relationship with a Caancer man for almost a year now and guess what? my Cappy pops up on me again last week sometime. He told me he tired coming by my house a few times, but I wasn't home. I told him I'm working 2 jobs
