Need Help understanding my CAPPIE guy!!!

*Excuse my English. It is my 2nd language*

I'm a newbie on here and very thankful that i came across this forum.

I am a Gemini and I have been dating a Cap guy for almost a year now. From the time we started talking, i had no idea how to treat or handle Cappie guys. I started falling heads over heels until i figured out a way to give him his space since he seemed too busy with work plus, he travels quite extensively due to his work.

In the beginning of our relationship, he would surprise me with gifts and send emails daily. Two months later, we became intimate and he would ask me whether he was the only person in my life. Six months later, he became a bit distant and started emailing 3 times a week. I did explain my frustrations and he explained that he had been very busy and stressed with work (with him being a VP of a big company) and therefore, he would email when he would get a chance but always thinks about me whether he did/didn't call/email/text.

Two months ago,I became very curious about understanding Cappie guys and that's when i came across this forum. What i learnt is that, Cappie guys need their space to focus on their work, family and their own Butter which i totally respect. With this said, I began withdrawing my attention and started dating another guy, who's a Cancer.

Two weeks ago, my Cap guy emails me about meeting him for lunch. I was very busy with my work and therefore, turned down his offer politely. He then sent me an email stating that he understands that I am busy but missed me and wanted to see me badly. The following Monday, he sent me a text at 7am to see how I was doing and if i had dropped off the kids at school ( i have two kids). Around 11am, he calls me to see what I was doing and asked me whether i would like to join him for lunch. I told him that I was taking an early morning nap since i had been working till late the night before ( i work from home). As I was talking to him, I asked him what he was doing and where he was, and that's when I heard a knock at my door, It was him!!!

Please help me understand this:-
- Why would a Cappie need reassurance that he's the only man in my life?
- What message was he trying to convey by coming to my place uninvited?
- My Cappie guy is always asking me whether I need any help. Is he really trying to help or test me? on my neediness ( which i haven't expressed/shown)?
- I have heard about Cap guys testing their partners in order to prove their loyalty. What are

M,

I have known the Cappie for a year and i like him a lot. He's everything am looking for in a partner except the fact that he's not that good of a communicator as much as I am. On top of that, we have busy schedules and he's really got too busy with work and me having two younger kids and working on my own business, a full time commitment is out of the question for now. But I still needed him to continue the same chain of communication as he did initially.

On the other hand, I've known the Cancer guy for 9 years. He started approaching me a month ago and has been very persistent as far as calling/texting and always making sure that the kids and I are OK daily. He's very sweet but very emotional compared to the Cap guy.

I have a moon in Cancer and therefore, not sure how this is affecting my relationship with him. No Intimacy with the Cancer guy though.

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*I have heard about Cap guys testing their partners in order to prove their loyalty. What are some of the tests?

Thanks "Chance11" and "M" for your comments.

I am very impressed with my Cap guy and learning from him every single day. Not sure whether a Gemini and a Capricorn would make a good match but things are going well.