Need some advice from the CAPRiCORNs!!!read please

im a Pisces girl and I've been hanging out with this cappy guys for 2months now and he always compliments me on how good looking i look even if it's out the blue. and if he wants to know something personal about me he says "swear" or if i tell him I'm not lying to him.he tells me to look into his eyes and sometimes when we talk on a deep level he tells me that he enjoys spending time with me and likes just talking to me.and he doesn't think of any negativity when he's around me or even he just like to cuddle. i know he couldn't make it to his sister house because his car was in the shop and his brother was over there and i was talking to him on the phone and he was like "u better not let my brother hit(flirt) on you,"then out of no where he was like "i kno u like him,i know u think he looks good,u like him dont you"? and i was like "stop questioning me about that cause if u gonna do that then im gone and u know i would ever do u like that". then he was like "i know man, i trust u"
then the next day i asked him about it and he said he was only playing.

wtf! and i also noticed that he ask me off the wall questions sometimes.........and talks about our future together like kids in so on.i know he to me that every time he sees me it feels like the very 1st time of him meeting me again. but i try to let that go in one ear and out the other mainly because I've been hurt before by a Virgo and I'm now trying not to let my emotions especially take over.but to be honest i enjoy spending time and i don't want to admit but he makes me happy a lil bit.but the thing is i don't like showing my feelings unless i know for sure that other person feels the same.

The questions we ask seem to be off the wall...thats bc theyre not direct.

Often times during a conversation I will ask a question that wraps up your problem and confusion, to be solved.

I'll say maybe for example......."Do you think you have good looks when you look in the mirror?"

My point being to you in this instance.....why worry about whether 1 single guy likes you or not?

I pose my problem solver question like so bc if I were to take the time to explain where I'm coming from..


#1 You wont listen to my detailed why and what-for bc you're only concentrating on your own thoughts instead of trusting my objective observation

#2 No matter how simple I make the solution,,,you're still gonna do things the hard way

#3 You don't believe a peer could possibly be wiser than you

#4 You think its more complicated than what I tell you bc you want your cake and to eat it too

#5 Caps hate not being listened to when someone poses a problem or dilemma in front of them that beckons for clarity

#6 Odds are you are not being objective and your emotions have polluted your judgment to be able to see both sides of your own story clearly enough to present the truthful necessary facts that need to be covered and brought to light

#7 You want to hear what you want to hear and not what you NEED to hear because, you think you're perfect and have it all figured out already...but yet the more you think...the more confused you end up..so after everything is said and done from mental and emotional fatigue...you go and seek the advice from the wrong advisors, in order to, confirm your own failed and flawed logic....so in the end you're gonna hear what you wanna hear regardless

#8 Hence the reasons why I summarize to a great deal (for low attention span know-it-alls), and ask the right question to make you question yourself bc I know you're totally focused on your own thoughts and emotions SOLELY

hope this helps🙂

supercap: i guess that helped a little.(: