OK Advice on attracting a capricorn guy

OK so I have time to think about my personal life and there is this capricorn guy I kind of like. So I was hoping to get some advice for attracting this guy. Here is the deal. We've known each other for about a year now. First night we met he tried to kiss me. (It was a mutual friend's bday party.) I stopped him then as I was interested in someone else and hardly knew this guy. We became friends. He gave me the best hugs for almost a year. Then over the summer when I was going through the most stressful period of my life some stuff happened. Fast forward in June, I went to use the internet at his house and instead we ALMOST had sex. 4th of July came and went and again we ALMOST had sex but I rejected him and he was bitter about it. I gave up on him shortly thereafter that because we had some words. However yesterday was funny and it has me thinking today.

On Monday I was running around starting my new job. I kept seeing him but he wouldn't even make eye contact with me. In actuality I walked right past him not seeing him at first. I'm friends with a special needs guy and since there was an expected hurricane the first person I saw in the crowd was the guy who would need help. So when I noticed the capricorn guy he was looking down. And for an hour he ignored me or kept looking down. I was very peppy with every person I saw and kept talking to others. Then I literally ran into a male friend of mine who took me to the ball last year (kind of like an adult professional prom.) At the ball I danced with the capricorn twice that night and told him that he should have asked me, but I stuck with the guy who took me out that night.

So I'm talking to my male friend about the upcoming storm and suddenly the capricorn is waving to get my attention. I smiled, waved and ran back upstairs to work. Today I quickly text him to tell him that if he needs anything during the storm to ask (we live close by) but I was way more worried about my folks to call. So since the storm is kind of dying but I am home thinking about my life tonight. And I wouldn't mind hooking this guy permanently.

So I'm looking for advice on hooking the capricorn. Like I said on the 4th of July we had harsh words. He was trying to hurt me and I was probably too emotional at that time as there was other stress in my life. So any advice on what I should do next? Like I said I wasn't even trying what happened on Monday, but I think ignoring him might have unintentially worked.

The cap guy was trying to hurt you ——

He tried to hurt me emotionally as in an argument, trying to say something mean just to get to me. If any man EVER tried to raise his hand to me, he'll find himself in jail.

But you are right that he'll pursue if interested. He already knows for a fact that I won't be a friend with benefit type now. However it is my job to show proper interest so he will pursue me. But I do rather find harmless flirting a fun past time that I've been missing lately. (It's the aries influence in my love sign. Patience is not one of my qualities. So as I pack today I'm going to consider this.

Keep doing what you are doing....... ignore him but not in a mean way just be very casual, have an I don't care attitude. I have been seeing this capricorn for about a year and a 1/2 now I must have seen him about 10 times tops in the 1st 6 months. I was very casual had an I don't care attitude, just lately this guy is calling me all the time that is because I stopped calling him, now he is telling me that he is not giving me up and he is not going to lose me. I actually told him that I am going on dates with others and that I would not be calling him any more, that seemed to work and by the way he is your classic bad boy and he is saying to me that he wants to move in with me and he wants me to be his girlfriend, he wants the commitment and I keep saying I am not sure if I want that.... When I first met him he said that he didn't want any relationship or commitments and now he is asking me for a relationship.... Remember with all men they want what they cannot have..

Very good advice! Like I said patience has NEVER been my friend. And I tend to date guys that I pursue and then dump when I get bored with them... wow that sounds awful, but a shy guy is usually very sweet and I do have a rather 'woman in charge' attitude. I'm going to try to say to myself, "Cool, calm, who the beep cares about him and smile like I usually do anyhow." (OK I know that I care but I have to say that to remind myself of patience.) I know for a fact that this guy cares very deeply about people and he's rather passionate when provoked (which only makes me respect him more really.)

And when saying no to sex I did say that I wanted romance and I don't like the idea of being used only to be tossed aside later. So he knows that I have my principles.

Thanks!

Most caps need time before they commit to anything or anyone. Usuaully, if you give them time to get to know you, then caps feel more comfortable about getting serious.