Are Capricorns Really That Naive In Relationships

Are Capricorns Really That Naive In Relationships

Part 2 of Branh's "Capricorns. Stupid When It Comes To Relationships" thread. That wonderfully brilliant has started something 😉

Who accused you of disliking any particular sign—?

As a cappy,

My problems with men stem from deep self-doubt. LOL, this is a big confession that I'm about to make and it's really difficult to convery in words.

I was never a priority in neither of my boyfriends lives ... never. The only relationship where it felt that I was within the top five on the priority list was with a virgo boy I dated. Other then that, I seemed that the guys was suppose to be priority, but I wasn't.

This created a poor sense of self that I've had to deal with for a while .......

It's not terrible bad anymore now that I've started to be real with myslef but man or man it use to be terrible. I always felt that it was more important for the guy that I want to know about what I was then who

OOOOO Okay, I saw Archer 🙂

Hmmm, well Brandon created the thread first ... and we kinda took it over byt speaking on "Why cappy ladies have problems with insecurity?"

OOO, well I think he has a good heart 🙂 Like most men, he's just had screwy run-ins with women -- preferably cappy women.

So he doesn't have a harsh heart, he's just a bit cautious when it comes to cappy women

OOOO now now SB, be nice now buddy 🙂

He just hasn't found the right cappy yet 😛

Well, maybe he's ...... well never mind.

LOL, I not going to get him all upset but I don't think he's being harsh. What he has said is 80% about cappy women ... unfortunately

Huh—?

... oh dear oh dear, he probaly have the same impression sense I am a cappy too -- but all cappies are not created equal.

Why me JD —??

Well, he has stated that he's dealt with some cappy women that were all the same -- the qualites that he's named concerning them are not flattering -- so I call them bad.

If he met me, would his opinion on capricorns change ... oh I have that slightly idea ....

*haven't the slightiest idea*

Hahahaha, Oh JD

I see where you are going with this, I didn't mean it like that.

Where you going with this JD ? 🙂

*** cappy goes in search of SB ***

I honestly think you took me the wrong way JD ........

Okay, I Brandon generalizes that most cappy women are the same ... regardless of background, influences, etc. What I suggested is that he just be more open minded and understand that the type of women he is attracted to may be his biggiest problem ... it has nothing to do with anythin else.

If you are attracted to a certain type of woman, then they will give you problems ... regardless of the zodiac sign.

OOOOOOO I know what you are referring to ....

I'm not telling, but now I know you didn't take me the wrong way 🙂

Hahaha JD,

What does this all have to do with Mr.B —??

And yes I do know what you are refering to .... my goodness ... *** giggles ***

hmmmm —?? Okay, I thought I understood, but now I'm confused ... oh darn darn darn

—?? Okay, I officially clueless ... JD, you did this on purpose 🙂

OMG, I must be heading off to work and I need to put the last touch on my project ...

Have a good day, I'll be back later 😉

lol sb, you and your riddle deciphering skills 😛

Are we talking about the mindset or the heart/emotions here JD

Intuition?
Love?

Imagination?

JD...where are you? come back..

Intuitive mind? the ability to FEEL?

Man I have no patience..lets hurry this thing up..

And mine..I get half..since I gave you a little nudge in the right direction

🙂

I'll take JD's lower half thanks 😉

Your welcome SB..sharing is so much fun! 🙂

**Feints**

i think an underlying issue behind part 1 of this topic could be one of two things, or a combo... its either reading a persons motive alllll wrong (not understanding), or it's that some people feel they have to create answers for themselve to be able to come out on top. the answers they give themselves aren't always the right ones, or not entirely the best ones.

...like blowing things out of proportion, or making a persons shortcomings look like malicious attacks on others.

BB is watching you!..muahahaha...

Yeah Series 8 of Big Brother coming to a screen near you..

"Me personally I'm more of a problem solver than a problem reporter, I don't believe in reporting problems very much, I have seen his observations to be true as well, but once you observe something than you have to try to understand it and once understood the answer will come."

right. im a peace lover myself and have a hard time analyzing an issue without simultaneously coming up with a possible solution. granted, problem reporting is good because it is the first step towards resolution, it gets maddening when it looks like that's the only thing a person ever does when they see a problem, moreso when they're the only one who sees it... we all know people like this, right?

"A user came in and said he agreed with all that was said and after exchanging with SB, realize that he didn't agree with all of it, people have good and bad, but it's your heart and mind condition that will dictate which to report and how."

i see your point clearly, JD.

JD~"YES !!!!!!!!!!!! SB ! oOoooohhhhhh"


JD.. Did you have a big O there or what happend? 😉

Must be my dirty mind.. lol

I'm great, thanx. How about you, SB?

Oh, I thought you guys had a live chat here..

"How is everything coming along?"

I'll start studying in a new school soon. I'm also thinking of parties and going out a lot (I really need that) 🙂

How are things on this board? Anything happend here lately? Brandon and Cappysweetie didn't get married yet? 😉 lol

i wont disagree with that. 🙂 😛

Oh I was a lil late with my last one, I see you guys are back here again..

we give for sure. but i think we have a good way of regenerating what we gave up.

Nothing positve can come out a negative heart. No matter who you meet there will be good and bad about that person, but you have to use what you have to get what you don't have and can only do so by having "a positive heart and mind".

OOOOOOOOOOO so that's what you meant. Oh dear, I was totally off, I had no idea -- well, what I thought sort of related to the heart ... but not in the way you put it.

Haha, you got me JD 😉

I totally agree with you on that end of it. A relationship cannot exist without with constant negativity. My goodness, it my last for a while, but the "relationship" part would've long been gone.

That's why I'm no longer bitter about my failures with guys -- I can't handle a brand new person in my life if I still hang on to all those memories.

LOL!!!!!! SB,

That would be so funny if we went to Atlanta during the same week, I will be there in two weeks 🙂

Great, Cappysweetie.. Are you gonna meet brandon? 🙂

Hahahahahaha!!!!!!!! Big Brother 8, oh my goodness !!! LOL!!!

Hey, sweet&sour 😄

I saw your other comment LOL!!!!!!! *** cappy shakes her head ***

Teasing you, sweetie 🙂

Hahaha, oh my goodness

What's all this about Brandon and I meeting ———

I bet if Brandon would meet you he would change his attitude towards us Caps.. But maybe people would stop coming on these boards, because branh really is one provocative creature.. Almost all the threads he has started has reached 300 messages..

Well, I wouldn't mind meetng Brandon swwet&sour 🙂

I'm sure he's a very sweet man along with being very intellectually simulating. I think he's cool 😉

If he met me — LOL! I think he would change me too 😉

Meeting a good woman is always what guys need. I could say that men will change their harsh attitude towards women when they meet a woman they really love and feel good to be with. They just act like they are tough and cool but what they really need is love.