Out of curiosity, which one best applies for you?

I find that something Cappys and Cancerians have in common is the need for some alone time, although the Length/Frequency/Reason/Exit-Entry style they choose whenever they go about honoring this specific need will vary tremendously. In any case, please be so kind to pick the ONE line that BEST APPLIES to you when it comes to this matter:

A.) "Absence makes the heart grow fonder."

or

B.) "Out of sight, out of mind"


Please state whether you are a Capricorn male/female OR a Cancerian male/female.
I will be posting the same in the Cancerian forum. Thanks You! 🙂

BONUS QUESTION: You can also specify your usual or preferred Time Length, Frequency, Reason, and Exit style & Re-entry style for whenever you dabble in some serious Me Time yet have a partner in your life. I think it will be interesting to see the variation in answers.

well Cap, I asked first. 😉

Depends on the relationship and how I feel about them. Sometimes life gets in the way. If I'm really not that into it then out of site/out of mind. If I really like them, then the other way around.

I know that doesn't help, but its honest.

I'm female Cappy.

I was just curious! ...and I'm in the middle of writing a thesis paper (not about this lol) so sometimes I need to take a breather from it 😢

Besides, I'd rather word vomit elsewhere than end up doing it on a text or email to him while he's having his "process" time. 😉 It's not you guys that I'm trying to date lol 🙂 so come on, stimulate me with some chatter!

You're not TOO controlling, are ya?

Posted by BigGirlPanties
You're not TOO controlling, are ya?

heehee I used to be, why what made you ask that?

That's another reason why I like this certain Cap, the way he deals with me puts me in line and for some reason it doesn't make me wanna act out or anything. I like it! 🙂 Yeah i was that wild child..Truth bomb!

Posted by FoxGlove
Well, I'm not a Cappy or a Cancer -- I'm a Gemini sun/Leo moon -- but Cancer everything else. Including Venus and rising -- so I consider myself sort of an honorary Cancer, and Caps always seem to dig me. But, just to answer for myself -- absence definitely makes my heart grow fonder. If I like/love the person, then long absences make me miss them very badly. Although, some of my best friends, I only speak with every couple of months. Go figure.

FoxGlove, that is just like me! 🙂 I'm known amongst my friends to be very independent and I tend to wander or get lost in my own little world, sometimes I won't even answer my phone just because I just don't *feel* like it, if they don't leave a voicemail, that just about negates their chances of getting a call back lol.. also, maybe I will text you back immediately, or maybe I will text you back in a few hours! I enjoy my Me Time to the fullest. Regardless, all my friends know that if I am ever needed, I'm there in a flash! Perhaps that's why they tolerate my shady/inconsistent behavior haha... As for a guy I like, that's a whooole'nother realm we are talking about. I would need some security established in the relationship first so that I can wander off and same with him. Trust and communication will be the most important theme, otherwise there is a high risk that the ugly side of me will rear it's head out in the form of neediness, manipulation, DRAMA ....eeek!!! Those are not my proudest moments, obviously 😢

Definitely ALWAYS-- Absence makes the heart grow fonder!